What the Male-Only World of Altar Boys Meant to This Former Gay Man

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VATICAN CITY—In a radil break om centuri of strict church doctre, the Pope approved a measure yterday that would allow gay men and boys to be provisnally accepted to the Catholic Church.

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WHAT THE MALE-ONLY WORLD OF ALTAR BOYS MEANT TO THIS FORMER GAY MAN

[See also: Why So Many Gay Men Are Former Catholics]. It’s bee a rather sad cliché among those who later bee “gay, ” but I loathed PE as I was always the last one picked for a team.

After graduatn, I lerally ran to San Francis’s “gay” Castro District – knowg that there, I would fd the acceptg all-male world I never felt a part of.

Over a later, when I got flhed out of “gay, ” I hobbled back to the Church, strangely enough, first headg to the same parish that I once served as an altar boy. But, a way, I wasn’t surprised, bee jt the day prr I had spoken to the same prit, and, spe my blasted and bised body, he remend that I return to my old “gay” life. Although, I am sure he thought he was beg credibly charable and sympathetic, I saw as the ultimate rejectn: that, on this pla, there was no other place for me, except “gay.

WHAT BEG AN ALTAR BOY – ONCE MEANT TO A FORMER GAY MAN

What beg an altar boy – once meant to a former gay man | Joseph Sciambra.

What beg an altar boy – once meant to a former gay man. It’s bee a rather sad cliché among those who later bee “gay, ” I too loathed my physil tn class as I always end up the last one picked for a team; even the girls were preferred by the athletic boy team ptas.

After graduatn, I lerally ran to San Francis’s gay Castro District, knowg that there, I would fd the acceptg all-male world of which I had never felt I belonged. Over a later, when I crashed onto the siwalk outsi a gay sex club, I hobbled back to the Church, strangely enough, first headg to the same parish where I once served as an altar boy. In a way I wasn’t surprised, bee jt the day prr I had spoken to the same prit and spe my blasted and bised body, he remend that I return to my former gay life.

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Although I am sure he thought he was beg credibly charable and sympathetic, I saw as the ultimate rejectn – that on this pla, there was no other place for me, except wh gay men. There was almost nothg I did not do as a gay man. As a necsary sign of cln and support, I did not require the display of a rabow flag at a special “gay” Mass.

Peter durg his tenure, particularly other clergy, knew of his ‘alhol problems’ and ‘homosexualy problems, ’” the report says. Peter durg his tenure, particularly other clergy, knew of his ‘alhol problems’ and ‘homosexualy problems. “How do you tell your wife you’re not gay?

So did legns of gay men. So 's no surprise that Altar Boyz, the h 2005 off-Broadway mil spoofg boy bands, openly urts gay fans. How else to expla the show's Playbill illtratn by Glen Hanson of the gay ic strip 'Chelsea Boys'?

WHAT TO WATCH: THEO GERMAE STRIK BACK, THE WO OF POLY LOVE, AND GAY ALTAR BOYS

Ratliff's flamboyant Mark who steals the show wh his glarg gay csh on fellow crooner Matthew ( Matthew Bucker). Ratliff's none-too-subtle gay nuendos make his big nfsn number excg, even if s revelatn don't work out as expected.

Then, not for the first time, I felt somethg more than solidary for gay men.

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When Benedict talked of rootg out homosexual would-be prits, I felt he was talkg about me – not the siarly viant tegory of women who claim votn, but as a man among men.

CATHOLIC CHURCH ALLOWS GAYS TO SERVE AS ALTAR BOYS

They s the world of homosocial silenc, nfirmed bachelors, and don’t ask don’t tell.

Anglo Catholic cleril celibacy created space for men who might now intify as asexual, as well as gay.

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Catholic Church Allows Gays to Serve as Altar Boys.

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