Young People, Stop Actg So Gay

Contents:

• I LIKE GUYS BUT I DON’T WANT TO BE GAY. HOW DO I STOP BEG GAY?
• CAN SOMEONE BE HOMOSEXUAL AND NOT GAY?
• HOW TO ACCEPT THAT YOU ARE GAY
• WHEN DO GAY KIDS START “ACTG GAY”?
• YOUNG PEOPLE, STOP ACTG SO GAY
• WHY DO SOME GAY MEN INTIFY AS “STRAIGHT-ACTG” AND HOW IS IT RELATED TO WELL-BEG?
• HOW DO I KNOW I’M NOT REALLY GAY/STRAIGHT?
• SHOULD STRAIGHT ACTORS STILL PLAY GAY CHARACTERS? 'IT'S PLITED'
• WHY AREN'T GAY ACTORS CAST IN GAY ROL?

I LIKE GUYS BUT I DON’T WANT TO BE GAY. HOW DO I STOP BEG GAY?

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CAN SOMEONE BE HOMOSEXUAL AND NOT GAY?

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I have treated many men who are of Mormon, Orthodox Jewish, Catholic, and other religns who thk of homosexualy as a pathology. Their pa is excciatg, but I honor their bravery riskg losg everythg to ensure they have a qualy life as a gay man. They may need, om time to time, to seek further therapy, but wh the right therapist, one who has thoroughly unrstood the dangers of such practic of “reparative therapy” which the therapist seeks to change the client’s sexual inty om gay to straight.

HOW TO ACCEPT THAT YOU ARE GAY

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WHEN DO GAY KIDS START “ACTG GAY”?

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YOUNG PEOPLE, STOP ACTG SO GAY

Like everyone else, gay people have dreams and goals and want pannship and love jt like anyone else you know.

WHY DO SOME GAY MEN INTIFY AS “STRAIGHT-ACTG” AND HOW IS IT RELATED TO WELL-BEG?

It is important to note that the Amerin Psychologil Associatn has clared that groups claimg to cure homosexualy are dangero and unhealthy. If you are still beg supported by parents whom you are que sure would disown you for beg gay, may be pnt to wa to tell them until you are pennt. You may regret the acceptance of your orientatn the future, pecially if you're a part of the world where the gay muny is beg prosecuted by a specific culture.

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HOW DO I KNOW I’M NOT REALLY GAY/STRAIGHT?

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SHOULD STRAIGHT ACTORS STILL PLAY GAY CHARACTERS? 'IT'S PLITED'

Thirty of them beme gay or bisexual adults while jt one child om a 34-member genr-nformg ntrol group turned out to be gay.

Gay 3-year-old boys n’t verbalize their sire to be wh a man when they grow up—although many such children exhib cshlike behavr toward adult men—but they may be tryg to learn the behavr that will later attract a male partner. You know the drill, so let's get to sure said a lot of thgs that, if you were to put them on Twter, would have earned you several quote tweets draggg you for ternalized homophobia.

WHY AREN'T GAY ACTORS CAST IN GAY ROL?

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