Rpondg to Adult Child Who Says He's Gay - Foc on the Fay

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There's a new Android app out (here's the English versn) lled "Is My Son Gay?" which one n answer an easy seri of qutns ("Are you divorced?") that will tell you if, fact, your son is a gay person.

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MY NEPHEW IS GAY

If you jt have a feelg that your brother is gay, that's okay.

If you thk your brother is gay bee he watch a "girly" TV show or his voice sounds a certa way, that's relyg on stereotyp. If you live a particularly homophobic or transphobic area, discs safety plans wh the fay member se of vlence om others.

If your fay member has e out as gay or bisexual, accept that they will end up seeg someone of their own genr, and that's perfectly okay. Don't be aaid to rearch beg gay, bisexual, transgenr, asexual, or whatever your fay member me out as.

IS YOUR CHILD GAY?

I thk he might be gay. If you saw your brother kissg another guy and he said he is not attracted to women, y, he is gay. How do I tell if a child is gay?

They might have a lack of tert the oppose sex if they’re homosexual or asexual. For stance, empiril science tells que clearly that homosexualy (as one's sexual orientatn) is 'natural' for the particular person who poss that sexual orientatn.

In other words, homosexualy is 'normal' for a homosexual.

RPONDG TO ADULT CHILD WHO SAYS HE’S GAY

Yet other Christians 'bristle' at the very thought of homosexualy.

They re more about themselv than they do for margal groups such as homosexuals. Some take the extreme view that acceptg homosexualy wh society will stroy life as we know . They nsir their nmnatn of homosexualy as beg 'scripturally healthy'.

They even e a handful of ambiguo scriptur (a handful is all there are) to support their 'homophobia' and their selfishns. As for his homosexualy affectg his 'salvatn'... Dpe what is said about 'nversn therapy', God do not change homosexuals to heterosexuals..

IS MY NEPHEW GAY ?

Both lbians and gay men often have a history of cross-sex-typed behavrs: ltle boys beg fatuated wh their mother's makp k; ltle girls enamored of field hockey or profsnal wrtlg. Prehomosexual boys tend to be more attracted to solary sports such as swimmg, cyclg and tennis than they are to rougher ntact sports such as football and soccer.

Children who show pronounced sex-atypil behavrs may have more of a geic loadg to their homosexualy.

The behavral patterns are feared, loathed and often spoken of directly as harbgers of adult homosexualy. It is only relatively recently, however, that velopmental scientists have nducted ntrolled studi to intify the earlit and most reliable signs of adult homosexualy.

HOW TO TELL IF YOUR SON IS GAY

In lookg refully at the childhoods of gay adults, rearchers are fdg an trigug set of behavral ditors that homosexuals seem to have mon. Curly enough, the age-old homophobic fears of many parents reflect some genue predictive currency.

Zucker, both psychologists, published a semal paper on childhood markers of homosexualy 1995.

WHAT TO DO WHEN YOUR CHILD SAYS: "I'M GAY"

So on the basis of some earlier, shakier rearch, along wh a good dose of mon sense, Bailey and Zucker hypothized that homosexuals would show an verted pattern of sex-typed childhood behavrs—ltle boys preferrg girls as playmat and beg fatuated wh their mother's makp k; ltle girls strangely enamored of field hockey or profsnal wrtlg—that sort of thg. Given that a small proportn of the populatn is homosexual, prospective studi require a large number of children. Although only 12 percent of the women grew up to be genr dysphoric (the unfortable sense that your blogil sex do not match your genr), the odds of the women reportg a bisexual or homosexual orientatn were up to 23 tim higher than would occur a general sample of young women.

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