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Contents:

• LGBTQ PROVCETOWN – A GAY GUY’S WEEKEND GUI TO PTOWN
• GAY PROVCETOWN TRAVEL GUI
• TOP 11 GAY FRIENDLY HOTELS PROVCETOWN, MASSACHETTS
• A UNIQUE GAY PTOWN VENUE... - CREW'S QUARTERS BOARDG HOE
• HERRG COVE BEACHPROVCETOWNMENUHOTELSGUTHO & B&BSON TODAYBARSDANCE CLUBSCISE CLUBSBEACHCULTURECY GUIGAY MAPHERRG COVE BEACH
• PROVCETOWN GAY SHOPS
• GAY CISG PROVCETOWN

LGBTQ PROVCETOWN – A GAY GUY’S WEEKEND GUI TO PTOWN

” The Dick Dock is an open secret; for years and years, gay, bisexual and cur men have gathered here unr the ver of like a bathhoe, the sex is often anonymo.

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And ’s a magic that’s eply terwoven to our such, I sat down wh Brad Amberheart, a tantric sex ach om North Carola, to talk about the Dick Dock and how gay men n fe a ltle b of that magic to the sex which they engage.

UnsplashUnsplashProvcetown, Massachetts, is one of the most popular LGBTQ holiday statns the US—cherished by gay and straight travelers alike—and ’s no wonr why. Consir this your gui to disverg why to choose P-town, when to vis; and where to stay, eat, drk, dance, and fd the bt queer events all mak so specialIt’s so gay: P-town is arguably the olt and most accepted place to be if you’re LGBTQ. Even though the town has a populatn of only 3, 000 people, 's home to 10 gay bars, two gay beach, and over a dozen annual LGBTQ events.

TOP 11 GAY FRIENDLY HOTELS PROVCETOWN, MASSACHETTS

Provcetown also holds the tle for the olst gay bar the US (the A-Hoe), the gayt ma street (Commercial Street), and one of the top 10 gay beach the world (Herrg Cove Beach)’s Pri all year: Most of the nightlife and activy occurs durg the summer months, but celebrat queer culture—clive and welg of any genr and sexual orientatn—year-round. JulyGirl Splash: A weeklong summer event jt for women cludg danc, stand-up edy, and other Week: The largt annual gatherg of lbian, gay, bisexual, transgenr, and queer-intifyg fai the world. MaySgle Women’s Weekend: A three-day event wh plenty of parti and activi signed to help sgle gay women meet other lbians.

Mistralo (133 Bradford Street): A sophistited Italian rtrant, n by a gay to partyIf you want to dance the night away, there are a few spots you’ll want to h durg your stay:Crown and Anchor (247 Commercial Street): A historic gay bar wh nightly entertament rangg om drag shows to baret to themed parti. A-Hoe (6 Masonic Place #4): Atlantic Hoe is the only year-round dance club Provcetown, wh dance parti seven nights a Purgatory (11 Carver Street): A gay nightclub the basement of the Gifford Hoe Inn wh theme nights such as "The Popular Unrwear Party. The plex, loted directly on Commercial Street, has seven different gay bars and club spac on s premis, cludg a hotel and pool!

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Other gay bars Provcetown clu Club Purgatory (one of the bigger nightclubs and one that hosts weekly parti such as an unrwear party every Thursday and Saturday night).

Arsh Raziudd, The History Project: Documentg LGBTQ Boston; Luciano Marqu/ShutterstockCisg the Age of ConsentGay men once veloped s to ensure safety the hunt for sex.

Edor’s Note: This article is part of a seri about the gay-rights movement and the 50th anniversary of the Stonewall uprisg.

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Huntg for answers to one of life’s great qutns, the lbian wrer Ra Mae Brown pasted on a mtache 1975 and walked to a bathhoe for gay men. Even so, 50 years after a police raid on the Stonewall Inn talyzed the mastream LGBTQ movement, gay people still mata spher of separatn om the wir world: nightclubs, vatn spots, and datg apps where like n meet like.

”Sex spac such as the ll back to when queer life had to be furtive, for fear of danger, but also when, almost paradoxilly, gay men found safety and eroticism by surrenrg privacy together. To dance on a summer night at Provcetown’s Atlantic Hoe, one of the untry’s olst gay bars, is to feel the loss of bodily tonomy that any crowd supercharged by the wi prumptn of flirtg. It was also lghed off as “gays beg gays, ” as my somewhat rattled iend put after he phed his way out om unr the beg gays sounds a lot like the boys will be boys exce-makg that the #MeToo movement has discreded.

In tth, gay male spac—physil, digal, cultural—reflect a long and imperfect procs of managg what happens when masculy, homosexualy, and an often hostile wir society tersect.

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But the male genr is the one that is most urgently beg lled to acunt lately—and a room full of gay men is a room full of enough, gay men joed the reckong almost as soon as #MeToo went supernova, late 2017. Yet as alarm has tensified about dnken, horny subcultur of straight folks—nightclubs, at parti, mic ftivals where women report rampant ab—some gay men have begun to wonr whether their own nfabs are nsent tastroph.

Broachg that ia public risks revivg old imag of gay promiscuy and predatn at jt the moment when such stereotyp are losg their be, thanks to the growg visibily of the queer experience all s variety. Vis a gay bar wh me, ” the journalist Marc Ambr wrote a 2017 USA Today lumn about the way queer guys grd and grope on the dance floor. Gay men, he wrote, “n eher start the work now, makg clear-munited nsent a foundatn of our teractns, or we n wa for a sndal to igne.

Acrdg to a CDC survey based on self-reports, the share of gay men who have experienced sexual vlence other than rape is almost as great as the share of straight and lbian women who have. Gay men often don’t report attacks to thori out of fear of beg outed, mistreated by homophobic ps, and subjected to stigmas that st male victims as petg explanatns for the particular malens of predatn, one theory rts heavily on blogy, and the gay cisg mentaly n serve as a prop for that se.

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” Plenty of gay scen are ed steeped machismo: Jt check out self-proclaimed “Masc4Masc” Grdr ers who sneer at lisps and loose wrists. By this logic, ’s not behavr that most urgently needs reformg, but sire portrayal of gay men as a lab-pure rctn of malens—whether born or socially nstcted—is too simple. Safety hasn’t typilly meant eedom om rnal pursu; safety has meant the possibily of is to say that gay men have long need to balance the ee, equal, and even crass seekg of sex agast the possibily of s abe.

“It’s evable that durg this cultural shift, gay men should qutn their leniency regardg the grope, ” the wrer and dancer Rennie McDougall observed Slate. ” Many fear that treatg gay people’s #MeToo issu as intil to straight people’s will end up equatg safety wh, to e McDougall’s term, the “sex-phobic propriety” that gays have battled battle over the past half century has led to a radil cultural achievement.

) On display is the wi range of gay male life—the variety of ways which a group of people move past beg told that they’re not men, that they mt hi, that their sir are perverse. ” Such s of nduct were often “an import om the wir homosexual culture, ” which is to say that how people cised appeared to be learned behavr. “By the late 1970s, men were lg up to get to the baths and arrivg at the baths upl, ” atttg to a new “tersectn of private liv and public personas” for gay men, he wrote.

”The Eros 1 theater feels a long way away om 21st-century gentrified gay bars, where a vodka-soda n st $10 and a too-sloppy make-out ssn n rult expulsn. ” But wh gay men, “half the time, when somebody says ‘What are you to?, ’ they jt want to do oral, or mutually masturbate, or some fantasy thg. Bathho terg to women of all sexuali, though rare, have cropped up to offer experienc that, by reputatn, seem aligned wh Brown’s dream: “Our Xanadu would be ls petive than the gay men’s baths, more lghter would rg the sna, and you’d touch not only to fuck but jt to touch.

If participants, and pecially men, turn out to need some tamg, the goal is not to chasten them but to enable more gay guys, the choreography of cisg—the nod of enuragement, the weled touch, the ascertag of who wants what—will keep evolvg as people bee eer to talk about the ways which n go wrong. In Provcetown, gay and lbian events go all summer long, but you don’t have to be here between Memorial Day and Labor Day to experience some lor. Lk Top WHERE TO SHAKE YOUR ASS (AND CRUISE) Atlantic Hoe (6 Masonic Pl) Leather is always wele at the A-Hoe, the olst gay nightclub the Stat.