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Contents:
- GAY MEN AND THEIR FATHERS: HURT AND HEALG
- JAGUARS ASSOCIATE STRENGTH ACH OUT AS GAY A FIRST FOR US-BASED PRO LEAGU
- ‘A FAY LIKE OURS’: PORTRAS OF GAY FATHERHOOD
- ‘GAY BEE OF ABSENT FATHER’ THEORY MAK HEADL
GAY MEN AND THEIR FATHERS: HURT AND HEALG
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JAGUARS ASSOCIATE STRENGTH ACH OUT AS GAY A FIRST FOR US-BASED PRO LEAGU
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‘A FAY LIKE OURS’: PORTRAS OF GAY FATHERHOOD
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A boy growg to a gay man will get the msage loud and clear that he is weak, dirty, and, perhaps worst of all, ls than a man.
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‘GAY BEE OF ABSENT FATHER’ THEORY MAK HEADL
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