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","thumbnailUrl":["],"uploadDate":"2018-05-10T22:35:00Z","duratn":"PT00H02M50S"}</script><figure class="CneVioEmbedFigure-kCfJjN noFMx e-vio-embed"><div data-ttid="script-ntaer"></div></figure></div><div class="GridWrapper-cAzTTK hvFIAc grid grid-ems-1"><div class="GridItem-buujkM kHPPIF grid--em grid-layout__tails"><div><h1 class="BaseWrap-sc-gjQpdd BaseText-ewhhUZ GridDetailsHed-gvhQzS iUEiRd jsgzTv hed">Fay Matters: Mother's Day In A Lbian Fay</h1><div class="TabsWrapper-dIUrJy drZqub tabs-ponent TabAndTabSectnWrapper-fDshys bWpYHB align-left" role="tablist"><nav aria-label="Sendary" tabx="-1" class="NavigatnWrapper-bFftAs lflsIW" data-ttid="navigatn"><ul class="NavigatnListWrapper-gWXLVS xcFFY navigatn__list" data-ttid="navigatn__list"><li class="NavigatnListItemWrapper-cxLZKD eyFDxF navigatn__list-em" data-ttid="navigatn__list-em"><a tabx="0" role="lk" aria-selected="te" class="NavigatnInternalLk-cWEaeo imOljK watch-page--tab-lk watch-page--tab-lk--active 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kid?</p><p>I know exactly who you are.</p><p>(gentle mic)</p><p>This is a photo of my mom, and this is her high school</p><p>graduatn picture and this is one of my favor</p><p>bee I look like her this.</p><p>I first realized my moms were lbians</p><p>when I was, I believe the fourth gra,</p><p>and I walked to the kchen and saw</p><p>my mothers kissg, and I had never seen them be timate</p><p>wh each other, and I remember cryg.</p><p>I didn't unrstand, and then she said,</p><p>Well, do you know who we are, what we are?</p><p>And I said, Well, you're my moms.</p><p>And she said, Well, we are lbians.</p><p>I have affectn for a person who's like me.</p><p>It was a hard time grow' up, Harlem the 70s.</p><p>We moved around, like, 11 tim, bee the landlords</p><p>were homophobic and when they knew was two women</p><p>wh their children, they would do horrible thgs.</p><p>I remember one Christmas, we were ' home</p><p>and we had a betiful big apartment.</p><p>And we walked to the apartment</p><p>and our keyhole was pletely empty,</p><p>and our Christmas tree was gone,</p><p>all of our Christmas gifts were gone,</p><p>our furnure was gone, looked</p><p>like we had never lived there.</p><p>They broke down and my sister and I</p><p>jt looked pletely nfed,</p><p>and then they jt told , you know,</p><p>We have to move aga.</p><p>But our mothers always kept good spirs.</p><p>We never knew aga the homophobia</p><p>that we were volved , livg .</p><p>My mother and my sister, was the four of </p><p>agast the world, and I should've been able</p><p>to say my mother was a lbian</p><p> this mted relatnship for 24 years.</p><p>And I've always wanted to be able to stand up for my mom,</p><p>bee she didn't have that eedom as a person</p><p>to be out at that time.</p><p>By law, you uld be taken away om your mother</p><p>bee she was gay, and we were not allowed</p><p>to be open about who we were.</p><p>(sad mic)</p><p>This is probably the sadst picture I uld thk of,</p><p>bee 's the last photo that I had wh my mom</p><p>before she went to the hospice.</p><p>My mom was my bt iend.</p><p>If I uld talk to my mother right now this moment.</p><p>Mom, I have so much to tell you.</p><p>Oh gosh, first of all, I am engaged to the love of my life,</p><p>who I believe you sent to me.</p><p>I feel really blsed and I'm really really happy.</p><p>Probably the happit I've ever been my life,</p><p>and I jt wish you uld've been here.</p><p>Everythg is ol, I really uldn't want for anythg</p><p>more except to jt touch you, like one more time.</p><p>So mom, you be happy.</p></div></div></div></div></div></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="GridItem-buujkM fLDozG grid--em grid-layout__asi"><div data-ttid="CneVioWatchPageRightRail" class="CneVioWatchPageRightRail-EnLY dLWHbo"><button data-ttid="CneVioWatchPageButton" class="CneVioWatchPageButton-isQkXs kTvfGd">Hi</button><div class="BaseWrap-sc-gjQpdd BaseText-ewhhUZ CneVioWatchPageRightRailHeadg-kpouzA iUEiRd cVRJZQ 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