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","thumbnailUrl":["],"uploadDate":"2018-05-10T22:35:00Z","duratn":"PT00H02M50S"}</script><figure class="CneVioEmbedFigure-kCfJjN noFMx e-vio-embed"><div data-ttid="script-ntaer"></div></figure></div><div class="GridWrapper-cAzTTK hvFIAc grid grid-ems-1"><div class="GridItem-buujkM kHPPIF grid--em grid-layout__tails"><div><h1 class="BaseWrap-sc-gjQpdd BaseText-ewhhUZ GridDetailsHed-gvhQzS iUEiRd jsgzTv hed">Fay Matters: Mother's Day In A Lbian Fay</h1><div class="TabsWrapper-dIUrJy drZqub tabs-ponent TabAndTabSectnWrapper-fDshys bWpYHB align-left" role="tablist"><nav aria-label="Sendary" tabx="-1" class="NavigatnWrapper-bFftAs lflsIW" data-ttid="navigatn"><ul class="NavigatnListWrapper-gWXLVS xcFFY navigatn__list" data-ttid="navigatn__list"><li class="NavigatnListItemWrapper-cxLZKD eyFDxF navigatn__list-em" data-ttid="navigatn__list-em"><a tabx="0" role="lk" aria-selected="te" class="NavigatnInternalLk-cWEaeo imOljK watch-page--tab-lk watch-page--tab-lk--active 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kid?</p><p>I know exactly who you are.</p><p>(gentle mic)</p><p>This is a photo of my mom, and this is her high school</p><p>graduatn picture and this is one of my favor</p><p>bee I look like her this.</p><p>I first realized my moms were lbians</p><p>when I was, I believe the fourth gra,</p><p>and I walked to the kchen and saw</p><p>my mothers kissg, and I had never seen them be timate</p><p>wh each other, and I remember cryg.</p><p>I didn't unrstand, and then she said,</p><p>Well, do you know who we are, what we are?</p><p>And I said, Well, you're my moms.</p><p>And she said, Well, we are lbians.</p><p>I have affectn for a person who's like me.</p><p>It was a hard time grow' up, Harlem the 70s.</p><p>We moved around, like, 11 tim, bee the landlords</p><p>were homophobic and when they knew was two women</p><p>wh their children, they would do horrible thgs.</p><p>I remember one Christmas, we were ' home</p><p>and we had a betiful big apartment.</p><p>And we walked to the apartment</p><p>and our keyhole was pletely empty,</p><p>and our Christmas tree was gone,</p><p>all of our Christmas gifts were gone,</p><p>our furnure was gone, looked</p><p>like we had never lived there.</p><p>They broke down and my sister and I</p><p>jt looked pletely nfed,</p><p>and then they jt told , you know,</p><p>We have to move aga.</p><p>But our mothers always kept good spirs.</p><p>We never knew aga the homophobia</p><p>that we were volved , livg .</p><p>My mother and my sister, was the four of </p><p>agast the world, and I should've been able</p><p>to say my mother was a lbian</p><p> this mted relatnship for 24 years.</p><p>And I've always wanted to be able to stand up for my mom,</p><p>bee she didn't have that eedom as a person</p><p>to be out at that time.</p><p>By law, you uld be taken away om your mother</p><p>bee she was gay, and we were not allowed</p><p>to be open about who we were.</p><p>(sad mic)</p><p>This is probably the sadst picture I uld thk of,</p><p>bee 's the last photo that I had wh my mom</p><p>before she went to the hospice.</p><p>My mom was my bt iend.</p><p>If I uld talk to my mother right now this moment.</p><p>Mom, I have so much to tell you.</p><p>Oh gosh, first of all, I am engaged to the love of my life,</p><p>who I believe you sent to me.</p><p>I feel really blsed and I'm really really happy.</p><p>Probably the happit I've ever been my life,</p><p>and I jt wish you uld've been here.</p><p>Everythg is ol, I really uldn't want for anythg</p><p>more except to jt touch you, like one more time.</p><p>So mom, you be happy.</p></div></div></div></div></div></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="GridItem-buujkM fLDozG grid--em grid-layout__asi"><div data-ttid="CneVioWatchPageRightRail" class="CneVioWatchPageRightRail-EnLY dLWHbo"><button data-ttid="CneVioWatchPageButton" class="CneVioWatchPageButton-isQkXs kTvfGd">Hi</button><div class="BaseWrap-sc-gjQpdd BaseText-ewhhUZ CneVioWatchPageRightRailHeadg-kpouzA iUEiRd cVRJZQ 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‘TRMATIZED’ DGHTER OF LGBT PARENTS: ‘MY GAY MOMS OPPRSED ME’

“The ban is one of the most ncrete maniftatns of the fury that the right-wg majory is unleashg agast LGBTI people, ” Gabriele Piazzoni, secretary general of Arcigay, Italy’s largt LGBTQ+ rights group, told Rters. “My gay moms opprsed me, ” she scribed alongsi the TikTok, which racked up 631, 000 views and more than 100, 000 lik as the natn celebrat Pri month. “I was raised by gay moms growg up, and I want to tell you about the tim that they did not accept me for who I was.

In a separate clip posted earlier this month, Clemente humoroly “me out as straight” to her gay mom honor of Pri month via phone. Together for more than 25 years, they have raised four children, all now adults; two dghters who were adopted out of foster re, a third girl who me to live wh them as a teenager, and a boy they rmally took who had been kicked out of his home for beg gay.

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kid?</p><p>I know exactly who you are.</p><p>(gentle mic)</p><p>This is a photo of my mom, and this is her high school</p><p>graduatn picture and this is one of my favor</p><p>bee I look like her this.</p><p>I first realized my moms were lbians</p><p>when I was, I believe the fourth gra,</p><p>and I walked to the kchen and saw</p><p>my mothers kissg, and I had never seen them be timate</p><p>wh each other, and I remember cryg.</p><p>I didn't unrstand, and then she said,</p><p>Well, do you know who we are, what we are?</p><p>And I said, Well, you're my moms.</p><p>And she said, Well, we are lbians.</p><p>I have affectn for a person who's like me.</p><p>It was a hard time grow' up, Harlem the 70s.</p><p>We moved around, like, 11 tim, bee the landlords</p><p>were homophobic and when they knew was two women</p><p>wh their children, they would do horrible thgs.</p><p>I remember one Christmas, we were ' home</p><p>and we had a betiful big apartment.</p><p>And we walked to the apartment</p><p>and our keyhole was pletely empty,</p><p>and our Christmas tree was gone,</p><p>all of our Christmas gifts were gone,</p><p>our furnure was gone, looked</p><p>like we had never lived there.</p><p>They broke down and my sister and I</p><p>jt looked pletely nfed,</p><p>and then they jt told , you know,</p><p>We have to move aga.</p><p>But our mothers always kept good spirs.</p><p>We never knew aga the homophobia</p><p>that we were volved , livg .</p><p>My mother and my sister, was the four of </p><p>agast the world, and I should've been able</p><p>to say my mother was a lbian</p><p> this mted relatnship for 24 years.</p><p>And I've always wanted to be able to stand up for my mom,</p><p>bee she didn't have that eedom as a person</p><p>to be out at that time.</p><p>By law, you uld be taken away om your mother</p><p>bee she was gay, and we were not allowed</p><p>to be open about who we were.</p><p>(sad mic)</p><p>This is probably the sadst picture I uld thk of,</p><p>bee 's the last photo that I had wh my mom</p><p>before she went to the hospice.</p><p>My mom was my bt iend.</p><p>If I uld talk to my mother right now this moment.</p><p>Mom, I have so much to tell you.</p><p>Oh gosh, first of all, I am engaged to the love of my life,</p><p>who I believe you sent to me.</p><p>I feel really blsed and I'm really really happy.</p><p>Probably the happit I've ever been my life,</p><p>and I jt wish you uld've been here.</p><p>Everythg is ol, I really uldn't want for anythg</p><p>more except to jt touch you, like one more time.</p><p>So mom, you be happy.</p></div></div></div></div></div></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="GridItem-buujkM fLDozG grid--em grid-layout__asi"><div data-ttid="CneVioWatchPageRightRail" class="CneVioWatchPageRightRail-EnLY dLWHbo"><button data-ttid="CneVioWatchPageButton" class="CneVioWatchPageButton-isQkXs kTvfGd">Hi</button><div class="BaseWrap-sc-gjQpdd BaseText-ewhhUZ CneVioWatchPageRightRailHeadg-kpouzA iUEiRd cVRJZQ 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