Merv Griff Was Gay and Everyone Is Freakg Out – Mother Jon

Contents:

• GAY HISTORY: MERV GRIFF’S BODYGUARD OF LI
• MERV GRIFF REPORTEDLY LED SECRET GAY LIFE SPE A WIFE & SON - MAN CLAIMED ENTERTAER FELL LOVE WH HIM
• PRIDE TV: THE QUIET GAY HEROES OF SIXTIES SITCOMS
• VILLAGE VOICE: ‘SHERMAN HEMSLEY WAS A GAY! DEAL WH IT!’
• MERV GRIFF WAS GAY AND EVERYONE IS FREAKG OUT
• 11 HISTORIL FIGUR YOU DIDN’T KNOW WERE GAY
• HOLLYWOOD REPORTER: MERV GRIFF WAS GAY
• WHO WAS MERV GRIFF, WAS HE GAY, WHAT WAS HIS NET WORTH, HOW DID HE DIE?
• WHERE IS MERV GRIFF TODAY? NET WORTH, WIFE, GAY. STILL ALIVE?

GAY HISTORY: MERV GRIFF’S BODYGUARD OF LI

”But how tremendoly sad is that a man of Merv’s renown, of his gregar nature and social xtery, would feel pelled to endure such a stealthy double life even as the gay muny’s clout, and s levels of acceptance and equaly, rose steadily om the ash of a powerful msage Griff might have sent had he squired his male panns around town rather than Eva Gabor, his longtime good iend and platonic public pal. Image the amount of good Merv uld have done as a well-rpected, hugely succsful, beloved and uncloseted gay man embodyg a posive image.

Around the office, Merv’s beg gay was unrstood but rarely discsed (and certaly never wh him). We knew nothg of his relatnships bee he guard his privacy fiercely, and we didn’t ’s secret gay life was wily known throughout showbiz culture, if not the wir Ameri. Then aga, Merv rved his niche the entertament world at a time when beg gay wasn’t OK, when disclosure was unthkable and the allegatn alone uld ep-six one’s you’re Griff, why would you thk a judgmental culture would be any more tolerant as you grew to middle and old age?

Even the pal of entertament -- a bs where homosexualy isn’t exactly a rare phenomenon -- ’s still spoken of hhed ton or, more often, not at all. " | Photo: Getty ImagGRIFFIN'S SEXUALITY AND DEATHMerv Griff was reportedly gay, and his sexualy was a well-known secret Hollywood. His fear of g out was ascribed to the possible effect on his reer when people did not accept homosexualy Hollywood.

MERV GRIFF REPORTEDLY LED SECRET GAY LIFE SPE A WIFE & SON - MAN CLAIMED ENTERTAER FELL LOVE WH HIM

Sger Luther Vandross, wrer San Sontag and film director Ismail Merchant had all been acrd the privilege of “ng” by the prs, however open a secret their homosexualy had been while they were alive. Nil nisi bonum appears to be the le for edors, and notg that a ceased famo person was gay certaly seems to unt as speakg evil. Still, the lawsus brought out to the open, if briefly, what had long been known Hollywood: namely, that the divorced father of one, and highly visible public rt of Eva Gabor, was also gay.

The New York gay magaze Outweek troduced the practice of outg closeted public figur, mostly policians and show bs celebri who were unwillg to enlist the e of fightg AIDS. When proment publisher Mallm Forb died Febary 1990, the exposure of his homosexual si was not long g.

PRIDE TV: THE QUIET GAY HEROES OF SIXTIES SITCOMS

The March 18, 1990, ver of OutWeek showed a photo of Mallm Forb on his motorcycle, wh the bold headle: “The Secret Gay Life of Mallm Forb.

VILLAGE VOICE: ‘SHERMAN HEMSLEY WAS A GAY! DEAL WH IT!’

” The article, by Michelangelo Signorile, begs wh Forb’ funeral, notg the prence among the mourners of many proment homophob — Richard Nixon, William F. First, he noted that, “All too often history is distorted, ” and the fact that one of the most fluential men Ameri was gay should be rerd. ” The third reason Signorile gave was that this story illumated a choice ma by many gay people.

In rearchg the story Signorile tried to terview a gay man who had been close to Forb and his fay, someone who uld have shed light on “the real ner workgs of Forb’ md.

Currently livg a closeted existence wh regard to his own fay and bs, he said, “My choice speakg to you is between myself and the greater gay muny.

MERV GRIFF WAS GAY AND EVERYONE IS FREAKG OUT

The day before Merv Griff’s funeral, the Hollywood Reporter, one of the dtry “bibl” read by everyone showbiz, ran a ont-page story by regular wrer Ray Richmond that began, “Merv Griff was gay. ” Richmond, who had worked for Griff the 1980s, went on to note that “Merv’s secret gay life was wily known throughout showbiz culture, if not the wir Ameri. Then aga, Merv rved his niche the entertament world at a time when beg gay wasn’t OK, when disclosure was unthkable and the allegatn alone uld ep-six one’s reer.

Even the pal of entertament — a bs where homosexualy isn’t exactly a rare phenomenon — ’s still spoken of hhed ton or, more often, not at all. ”In the se of homosexualy, we beg wh a topic that already puts a stra on the l of journalism.

Former New York Tim lumnist Roger Wilks, the first black wrer appoted to the paper’s edorial board, said that durg his two years as the urban affairs lumnist the late 1970s, only three of his lumns were killed — and two of them were on gay topics. Durg the outg furor of the early 1990s, gay journalist Randy Shilts, while not supportg outg, did scribe the system clearly:. Many of the ems are patently false and tend only to ver up the celebry’s homosexualy.

11 HISTORIL FIGUR YOU DIDN’T KNOW WERE GAY

Edors who would never reveal that a public figure was gay have no problem wh routely sayg that same person is straight.

The gossip wrers, many of them lbian or gay, who speculated about when Mallm Forb would marry Elizabeth Taylor, or when Merv Griff would marry Eva Gabor, knew what they were dog. When sger Luther Vandross died 2005, the media obuari polely ignored the wispread speculatn that he was gay. The real problem is that the news media, which has no problem reuntg the endls het romanc of stars (real or alleged), is squeamish about even askg a star whether or not they are gay — how is this journalism?

HOLLYWOOD REPORTER: MERV GRIFF WAS GAY

In Vandross’s suatn (as well as the posthumo media -gayg s of San Sontag and Ismail Merchant), the verage bends over backwards, strag any sense of credibily, to avoid any fact-fdg about the subject qutn that might reveal they were gay, even if the person was openly gay their social circl, but not to their fan base. In the age of Wikipedia, ’s a given that anyone terted enough to Google Merv would quickly get the gist of the story, if not the gory tails, or even the ls savory tails, such as those reunted by Michelangelo Signorile his 1993 book, “Queer Ameri, ” which an unnamed Hollywood “Mogul” is scribed as firg men om his pany for beg openly gay. I'm not gog to say they weren't extremely wild but was like most gay parti at the time jt wh...

A iend sang on his show a few tim when she was a kid (tho she never pursued show biz) and said even then she knew he was gay but he treated her like a dghter; very affectnate, lled to check on her, Christmas and birthday Anonymoreply 2June 18, 2015 8:23 PM. My elr gay uncle says the mors were started by those who hated Merv for beg a huge donatg Anonymoreply 21June 19, 2015 3:43 AM.

WHO WAS MERV GRIFF, WAS HE GAY, WHAT WAS HIS NET WORTH, HOW DID HE DIE?

I read that nnectn that closeted men wh power are much more likely to sexually molt than openly gays; I thk the closeted wh power are generally at a high risk to sexually molt, is an outlet for Anonymoreply 22June 19, 2015 3:43 AM. Ter had had plenty of gay male sex (that I know for sure) and that the harassment was more extortn. Ryan Gaycrt probably was kept by Anonymoreply 26June 19, 2015 4:24 AM.

WHERE IS MERV GRIFF TODAY? NET WORTH, WIFE, GAY. STILL ALIVE?

Tony is married, still hot, has several kids (that Merv adored) and his (gay) mom attend his dad's funeral wh he and his Anonymoreply 31June 19, 2015 4:40 AM. One of the most tratg thgs about Merv Griff is that some of the biggt idts the gay media like Darw Porter seized upon his closeted life and have produced such unbelievable "facts" about him that 's very hard to tell now what actually happened and what was vented.

Well, not sure about Gee but do believe he's gay as for Merv a iend told me that he was known as the Kg of ep throatg cks and drag them was obssed wh suckg ck dry to the bone!