Joe Kort, Ph.D., talks about his new book, "Is My Hband Gay, Straight, or Bi?"
Contents:
- IS FLIRTG BETWEEN GAY AND STRAIGHT MEN OKAY?
- IS YOUR MAN GAY, STRAIGHT, OR BISEXUAL?
- GAY MEN AND STRAIGHT MEN AS FRIENDS
- CAN GAY AND STRAIGHT MEN REALLY BE FRIENDS?
- IS IT POSSIBLE TO SYSTEMATILLY TURN GAY PEOPLE STRAIGHT?
IS FLIRTG BETWEEN GAY AND STRAIGHT MEN OKAY?
Could gay guys be the ultimate wg men for their straight, male iends? * straight guy being gay *
Of urse, some intify as straight but are realy closeted bisexuals or gays by sexual orientatn—perhaps likely to e out at a later age (if ever).
IS YOUR MAN GAY, STRAIGHT, OR BISEXUAL?
* straight guy being gay *
The differenc between gay and straight men are much harr to discern the days, cludg the ways that affectn is shown. It simply don’t matter so much who is gay and who isn’t ( most quarters), and hangg out wh gay men when you are straight is no big al. Asi om the grooms and me, I didn’t know, nor uld I tell after many enunters, who was gay and who was straight.
” It mak sense, a shrewd nice-lookg younger man his charm and don’t happen to re if the teractn is wh a gay man.
GAY MEN AND STRAIGHT MEN AS FRIENDS
Many young men intify as mostly straight — a sexual orientatn that is not que straight but also, they say, ls gay than bisexualy * straight guy being gay *
Several gay male iends and I somehow started talkg about how gay and straight men teract so differently than they once did (not so long ago).
The lson is that everyone n loosen up, pecially gay men who, for so long, have had to be reful about lettg others really know them.
CAN GAY AND STRAIGHT MEN REALLY BE FRIENDS?
Heterosexual and gay men n heal and grow as a rult of their iendships. * straight guy being gay *
For a long time, iendships between gay men and straight men – what some now ll “bromosexual” iendships – were unmon. Homophobia was likely one reason; another was that straight men probably assumed they didn’t have much mon wh gay men.
Specifilly, we’re terted lookg at the reasons gay men and straight men bee iends (or rema iends after the gay iend out).
IS IT POSSIBLE TO SYSTEMATILLY TURN GAY PEOPLE STRAIGHT?
We currently have a survey vtigatn unrway that explor some of the posive out of “bromosexual” iendships, cludg our theory that gay men and straight men n be optimal wg men for one another. Many straight men hated to beiend gay men, fearg harassment, rejectn om their straight iends or beg lled gay. Gay men – particularly those nservative and ral environments – rema wary about tryg to beiend straight men, fearg prejudice-fueled rejectn.
At the same time, many straight men still doubt that they’ll be able to relate to gay men any meangful way and, for this reason, may not try to iate a iendship. Of urse, the tradnal notn that gay men and straight men nnot be close iends is herently homophobic and unte.
We propose gay-straight male iendships are not only possible, but that they n grow to be extremely rewardg.