LGBT Foundatn is a natnal chary liverg advice, support and rmatn servic to lbian, gay, bisexual and trans (LGBT) muni.
Contents:
- THERE ARE SOME BEAUTIFUL FEME GAY MEN OUT THERE.
- WHY EFFEMATE GAYS ARE FABULO
- 6 STEPS TOWARDS WHOLE-HEARTEDLY LOVG YOURSELF AS A FEME GAY MAN
- THE ‘GAY GLASS CEILG’ IS REAL: HERE’S WHY FEME MEN GET OVERLOOKED FOR LEARSHIP ROL, REARCHERS SAY
- GAY MEN DISCRIMATE AGAST FEME GAY MEN, NEW STUDY FDS
- GAY AND STRAIGHT MEN PREFER MASCULE-PRENTG GAY MEN FOR A HIGH-STAT ROLE: EVINCE FROM AN ELOGILLY VALID EXPERIMENT
THERE ARE SOME BEAUTIFUL FEME GAY MEN OUT THERE.
A recent study om Brazil shows how gay and bisexual men’s attus toward masculy and femy affect their mental health. * feminine gay boys *
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Internalized homophobia also wh “elements of sexism, prejudice agast women and femy, ” acrdg to sum, the men who sired to be more mascule had the most negative attus toward effemacy, srg over 10 pots higher than their effemate peers.
WHY EFFEMATE GAYS ARE FABULO
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“Those who are not fortable wh how effemate they are and would like to be or appear more mascule (even if they publicly intify themselv as non-effemate) also tend to have higher rat of ternalized homophobia, ” Ramos told them. ”Rearchers are fdg that racism, petn, and a fixatn on sex wh the gay and bi muny are drivg anxiety and thors note that the study ntaed some bld spots, sce looked only at Brazilian men, and attus around genr n vary between cultur and ethnici.
In Lat Ameri and particularly Brazil, “ is very mon that, om the pot of view of those who exprs prejudice, social norms related to genr overlap norms related to sexualy, ” said Costa claimed the LGBTQ+ muny has done a “great job” at rcg prejudice around sexualy, has yet to grapple wh genr “hierarchi” that overvalue mascule exprsn and value those that are seen as feme, he explaed, addg that the stereotyp are often “reified” through media everyone, not jt queer people, needs to play a role rcg ternalized homophobia, acrdg to Ramos.
6 STEPS TOWARDS WHOLE-HEARTEDLY LOVG YOURSELF AS A FEME GAY MAN
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Problematic statements like “no fems, ” “no queens” or “masc4masc” equently ed on datg apps only foreground the need to challenge the prejudice faced by mp, feme gay men om members of their own muny. This n attract homophobic attentn, which is possibly part of the reason why many gay men feel the need to ‘pass’ as straight; to avoid beg sgled out as a target for abe, judgement and discrimatn.
Historilly, homosexualy has been reprented – and even ridiculed – as a illy mp cliché, and so, unrstandably, many gay men wanted to distance themselv om such rtrictive, rctive stereotyp. In an overwrought attempt to pe such negative nnotatns of femy appears that, many gay men (and ed men general) have ventured too far the oppose directn, supprsg the feme sis of their nature the procs.
THE ‘GAY GLASS CEILG’ IS REAL: HERE’S WHY FEME MEN GET OVERLOOKED FOR LEARSHIP ROL, REARCHERS SAY
Flamboyant gay men are overlooked for learship rol, ls likely to get terviews, and offered lower salari than their straight male unterparts. * feminine gay boys *
Once we realise that femy and mpns aren’t flaws or weakns, that homosexualy is not e for shame, that masculy isn’t exclive to straight men and femy isn’t exclive to straight women, that genr is more fluid than rigid bary norms lead to thk, we will stop discrimatg agast those we should be showg solidary towards stead.
GAY MEN DISCRIMATE AGAST FEME GAY MEN, NEW STUDY FDS
There is creased acceptance of gay men most Wtern societi. Neverthels, evince suggts that feme-prentg gay men are still disadvantage * feminine gay boys *
After all, my father's masculy is all she has ever known to expect om the male speci, and I'm sure my effemacy was strange to tly strange thg is my prized mascule father has never brought up my effemacy or gayns. I loathe g the word victim, but seems the most accurate terms of the young, feme gay male experience – an experience which we’re never even given a shot to love ourselv bee we’re told not to om the start.
Bee men are limed to a ually very toxic performance of masculy as the flt genr exprsn, they are prevented om explorg a full range of exprsns – which is where the non-unpacked jealoy of feme gay men om.
GAY AND STRAIGHT MEN PREFER MASCULE-PRENTG GAY MEN FOR A HIGH-STAT ROLE: EVINCE FROM AN ELOGILLY VALID EXPERIMENT
In the world of cis, gay mal this system promot, empowers, and otherwise glorifi those who are able to mimic heteronormative standards (as , folks AMAB should be mascule, mcular, and heterosexual). Unrstandg that homonormativy do not serve queer people, but rather discrimat and ps them agast one another, showed me that society wanted me to be more like them, which only ma me want to be more like myself. Meetg other feme gay men has allowed me to bee the most fully realized versn of myself – a person who wears their femy wh pri, a person who regniz how strong they are for growg up a “glass closet, ” and a person who is open to new people and new experienc – not jt those approved by a homonormative queer society.