When so many gay men have spent their formative years the closet, ’s difficult to pe the feelg that you need to make up for lost time.
Contents:
- THE CURSE OF AN ATTRACTN TO OLR GAY MEN
- COMBATTG THE VISIBILY OF OLR GAY MEN
- HOW TO EMBRACE AGG AS A GAY MAN
- 6 - SEX AND OLR GAY MEN
- 100 YEARS OF PHOTOGRAPHS OF GAY MEN LOVE
- AGE DIFFERENC GAY COUPL
THE CURSE OF AN ATTRACTN TO OLR GAY MEN
is a muny for olr gay men and the men who love them. * older gay males *
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Photographs by Matthew MorrocLike many gay men searchg for timacy the morn day, the photographer Matthew Morroc has found his share of onle. Many of his panns had survived both the AIDS crisis and heights of homophobia unknown to younger generatns.
As his name suggts, Otterj draws his greatt spiratn om the slenr, hairy, beard, and often tattooed gay male subculture known as otters -- but not exclively. The men his photographs are unabashed exhibnists lookg for a place to f to a gay culture that has creasgly turned s back on a sexually aware world where leather and cisg are forms of liberatn. Posted Aug 22, 2019 10:48PM UTCI’ve add a fom so we n get to know each other, tch up on what’s new the “olr gay” world, etc.
COMBATTG THE VISIBILY OF OLR GAY MEN
* older gay males *
Gass is a gay man whose only sexual attractn is to men signifintly olr than he is. The younger men have more tert sports than their partners and their gay peers who are attracted to men their own age.
HOW TO EMBRACE AGG AS A GAY MAN
Hundreds of photographs om the 19th and 20th centuri offer a glimpse at the life of gay men durg a time when their love was illegal almost everywhere. * older gay males *
The younger men tend to be more mascule than their gay peers who are attracted to men their own age. He wrote, “I stggle more to expla my attractn to olr gay men to my gay iends than I do to my straight iends. ” No one has llected reliable statistics, but age dispary seems to occur more equently gay relatnships than heterosexual on.
But the se of a celebry, the tabloid headl the labels may be ed sensatnalistic ways, or even clu more vilently homophobic nam like pedophile and predatory pervert. ” I was once asked by a young gay man, “Why did you e out at 40? But the gay upl may be far more sexually active than many same-sex upl.
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6 - SEX AND OLR GAY MEN
Don’t this ntradict the ia that gay people are ‘born this way’?
I don’t believe we have a choice about our sexual attractns, but gay men and women—jt as any heterosexual person—have a choice about how they rpond to sexual sire. Sayg “I am gay” is a statement that our attractns, our behavr, and our self-inty are unison, and when that happens—if ever do— suggts a willgns to proclaim our sexualy regardls of the nsequenc. Hillsi Campground is a mpg statn that has been servg the gay male muny for over 30 years!
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100 YEARS OF PHOTOGRAPHS OF GAY MEN LOVE
WE ARE A GROUP OF GAY MEN, more or ls fifty-five or olr, who have assembled to support each other beg gay elrs. We e om a wi range of backgrounds and are uned our primary purpose of beg eful to younger gay men and of service to the gay and larger muny. The GAY ELDER CIRCLE is signed to assist gay men and others to make the transn om adult to elr, the procs nscly assumg a new role the muny—a life of ntug efulns to to others wh the ntext of group support, enuragement, and genue brotherhood.
Why are gay men over 50 beg erased by our culture? About a year ago, after five years work, endls rewr and table readgs, a film-ftival award, and put om gay iends the dtry, I fally took a ep breath and sent my queer-themed s pilot, “Life After Death, ” to agents and producers.
The reactns were swift and mercils, one (gay) agent wrg me that, although the show was funny, the characters were praved, the language vile, the sexual referenc unthkable for a mastream, albe ble TV, dience. The show, about a fifty-year-old gay man stgglg to overe alholism, narcissism, and a sex-addicted past, and set agast the backdrop of his tumblg L.
AGE DIFFERENC GAY COUPL
Wrg reer, wasn’t meant to be the next “This Is Us” or even “Lookg, ” a rare age-iendly dramedy filled wh gay sex scen.
Although I’ve been wrg forever—wh all the sults such a reer volv—and have penned four screenplays the past two years, the cricisms for this piece h me like bricks bee they were a direct afont to the last generatn of unbridled, yet rtricted, gay men who’ve survived spe a former panmic’s sire to kill every last one.
Wh the rise of TV anti-hero like Tony Soprano and Walter Whe, and a fondns for darker, more plited characters general, I thought, naively, that a mature, gay male lead would be weled the same manner.