‎The Good the Gay and the Ugly on Apple Podsts

Contents:

• GAY AND UGLY
• GAY, MIDDLE-AGED, AND LONELY AS HELL
• IS THERE ANYTHG WORSE THAN BEG GAY AND UGLY?
• GAY VS UGLY - WHAT'S THE DIFFERENCE?GAY | UGLY |AS NOUNS THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN GAY AND UGLYIS THAT GAY IS NAPE WHILE UGLY IS (SLANG|UNUNTABLE) UGLS.AS A VERB GAYIS TO CROW.AS AN ADJECTIVE UGLY ISDISPLEASG TO THE EYE; NOT ATHETILLY PLEASG.GAYENGLISHPROPER NOUN(EN PROPER NOUN), ORIGALLY A NICKNAME FOR A CHEERFUL OR LIVELY OM THE WORD GAY, "JOYFUL"; RARE TODAY.. ALSO A SHORTENED FORM OF GABRIEL, GAYLORD AND SIAR NAM, OR TRANSFERRED OM THE SURNAME.* 1992 , UNTO THE SONS , BALLANTE BOOKS 1993, ISBN 0804110336, PAGE 15- - - MY FATHER'S FATHER, GAETANO TALE ( WHOSE NAME I HERED AFTER MY BIRTH 1932, THE ANGLICIZED OM OF "GAY "), WAS AN ATYPILLY FEARLS TRAVELER,* 2004 , BAD DIRT , FOURTH ESTATE, ISBN 0007196911, PAGE 32"MR GAY BRAWLS. WHAT A NAME.""IT DIDN'T E TO MEAN WHAT MEANS NOW. PLENTY WERE NAMED GAY'. EVEN NEVADA. WAS OLD ' GAY PCH HAD A GAS STATN WNEMUC. NOBODY THOUGHT NOTH ABOUT AND HE RAISED A RAILROAD R OF KIDS.- - -ANAGRAMS*UGLY
• GAY CULTURE HAS GROWN TOXIC WH UNCHECKED PRIVILEGE. IT'S TIME FOR TO RET
• I LIKE GUYS BUT I DON’T WANT TO BE GAY. HOW DO I STOP BEG GAY?
• GAY UGLY AND HARD TO UNDERSTANDBLACK DRSTRACK 7 ON FET YOUR OWN FACE PRODUCED BYDEVI MCCALLN & ADA ROOKFEB. 14, 20221 VIEWER14 CONTRIBUTORSGAY UGLY AND HARD TO UNDERSTAND LYRICS[DEVI]UM, SHOUTOUT TO BIG FREEDIANEW ORLEANS BOUNCE MICUHH, EVERY BCH TRACK EVER MA FORNYC DRAG BALLS THE 90'S BEFORE RUPL MA BEG GAY UNOLGAY, UGLY, AND HARD TO UNRSTANDI THOUGHT THAT PEOPLE ULD HANDLE BUT THEY- BUT THEY N’TBUT THEY N'T! HAHA!I DON'T WANT TO LET YOU HAVE (HAVE )I DON’T WANT TO LET YOU HAVE (HAVE )I DON'T WANT TO LET YOU HAVE (HAVE )YOU N'T EARN THIS SH IS NOT ON TREND (ON TREND)THIS SH IS NOT ON TREND (ON TREND)THIS SH IS NOT PRETEND (PRETEND)IT'S A- (AHH AHH!)YEAH, I'M JT DOG MY SH (MY SH)I'M JT DOG MY SH (MY SH)YOU ULD NEVER DO LIKE THIS (LIKE THIS)EVEN THOUGHI'LL KEEP MOVG BUT YOU STAY SLOWI'LL KEEP MOVG BUT YOU DON’T KNOWI’LL KEEP MOVG AND YOU N FOLLOW BEHD ME, BEHD MEYOU MIGHT ALSO LIKEOFF MY OLD CDYOU ULD PY A TRACKSELL TO ROADNNERMAKE YOUR MONEY BACKIT'S THE RNIT SH, PUT TRAVIS BARKER ON OH MY GOD, WHAT THE FUCK IS YOUR PROBLEM?[ROOK]IT IS HAPPENG AGA (AGA)YOU WANNA MS WH I AM POSSSED WH I’M FUCKG AD OM I AM A REVENANTBUT I WANT EVERYTHG THAT I N NEVER HAVEYOU WANT MY SUFFERG? WHY DO YOU WANT SO BAD?YOU THK 'S HARD SH?I WANT SOFTNSI WANT THE GENTLENS THAT ONLY YOU WERE OFFEREDI WANT A PEACEFUL LIFEEVERYTHG I WANT IS FICTNWHAT I NEED DO NOT EXISTEVERYTHG YOU WANT IS RIGHT HERE WAGFOR YOU TO TAKE WHAT I NEED DO NOT EXISTEMBEDCANCELHOW TO FORMAT LYRICS:TYPE OUT ALL LYRICS, EVEN REPEATG SONG PARTS LIKE THE CHOSLYRICS SHOULD BE BROKEN DOWN TO DIVIDUAL LUSE SECTN HEARS ABOVE DIFFERENT SONG PARTS LIKE [VERSE], [CHOS], ETC.USE ALICS (<I>LYRIC</I>) AND BOLD (<B>LYRIC</B>) TO DISTGUISH BETWEEN DIFFERENT VOLISTS THE SAME SONG PARTIF YOU DON’T UNRSTAND A LYRIC, E [?]TO LEARN MORE, CHECK OUT OUR TRANSCRIPTN GUI OR VIS OUR TRANSCRIBERS FOMABOUTHAVE THE SI SOP ON THIS SONG?SIGN UP AND DROP SOME KNOWLEDGESTART THE SONG BASK A QUTN ABOUT THIS SONGASK A QUTN *‌WHO PRODUCED “GAY UGLY AND HARD TO UNDERSTAND” BY BLACK DRS?WHEN DID BLACK DRS RELEASE “GAY UGLY AND HARD TO UNDERSTAND”?WHO WROTE “GAY UGLY AND HARD TO UNDERSTAND” BY BLACK DRS?FET YOUR OWN FACE (2022)BLACK DRS1. ​U_U22. LET’S BE3. ​EARTH WORM4. NO NORMAL5. ​DOOMSPIRAL6. MONEY MAKES YOU STUPID7. GAY UGLY AND HARD TO UNDERSTAND8. ​NIGHTWISHCREDSPRODUCED BYDEVI MCCALLN & ADA ROOKWRTEN BYDEVI MCCALLN & ADA ROOKRELEASE DATEFEBARY 14, 2022TAGSPOPINDTRIALELECTRO-INDTRIALNOISE POPEXPAND COMMENTSADD A MENTSIGN UP AND DROP KNOWLEDGE ?GENI IS THE ULTIMATE SOURCE OF MIC KNOWLEDGE, CREATED BY SCHOLARS LIKE YOU WHO SHARE FACTS AND SIGHT ABOUT THE SONGS AND ARTISTS THEY LOVE.SIGN UPGENI IS THE WORLD’S BIGGT LLECTN OF SONG LYRICS AND MIL KNOWLEDGE

GAY AND UGLY

But now I meet all the handsome guys I grew up wh who are gay and livg their liv and jt stroys me--absolutely stroys me si. People claim that life gets so much better when you e out but for me only seemed to get worse and s purely om the gay muny ( my area at least). In our lifetime, the gay muny has ma more progrs on legal and social acceptance than any other mographic group history.

As recently as my own adolcence, gay marriage was a distant aspiratn, somethg newspapers still put sre quot.

GAY, MIDDLE-AGED, AND LONELY AS HELL

Still, even as we celebrate the sle and speed of this change, the rat of prsn, lonels and substance abe the gay muny rema stuck the same place they’ve been for s. Gay people are now, pendg on the study, between 2 and 10 tim more likely than straight people to take their own liv.

In a survey of gay men who recently arrived New York Cy, three-quarters suffered om anxiety or prsn, abed dgs or alhol or were havg risky sex—or some batn of the three. “Marriage equaly and the chang legal stat were an improvement for some gay men, ” says Christopher Stults, a rearcher at New York Universy who studi the differenc mental health between gay and straight men. In the Netherlands, where gay marriage has been legal sce 2001, gay men rema three tim more likely to suffer om a mood disorr than straight men, and 10 tim more likely to engage “suicidal self-harm.

IS THERE ANYTHG WORSE THAN BEG GAY AND UGLY?

TTravis Salway, a rearcher wh the BC Centre for Disease Control Vanuver, has spent the last five years tryg to figure out why gay men keep killg themselv. By the late 2000s, he was a social worker and epimlogist and, like me, was stck by the growg distance between his straight and gay iends. When the dispary first me to light the ’50s and ’60s, doctors thought was a symptom of homosexualy self, jt one of many maniftatns of what was, at the time, known as “sexual versn.

” As the gay rights movement gaed steam, though, homosexualy disappeared om the DSM and the explanatn shifted to trma.

GAY VS UGLY - WHAT'S THE DIFFERENCE?GAY | UGLY |AS NOUNS THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN GAY AND UGLYIS THAT GAY IS NAPE WHILE UGLY IS (SLANG|UNUNTABLE) UGLS.AS A VERB GAYIS TO CROW.AS AN ADJECTIVE UGLY ISDISPLEASG TO THE EYE; NOT ATHETILLY PLEASG.GAYENGLISHPROPER NOUN(EN PROPER NOUN), ORIGALLY A NICKNAME FOR A CHEERFUL OR LIVELY OM THE WORD GAY, "JOYFUL"; RARE TODAY.. ALSO A SHORTENED FORM OF GABRIEL, GAYLORD AND SIAR NAM, OR TRANSFERRED OM THE SURNAME.* 1992 , UNTO THE SONS , BALLANTE BOOKS 1993, ISBN 0804110336, PAGE 15- - - MY FATHER'S FATHER, GAETANO TALE ( WHOSE NAME I HERED AFTER MY BIRTH 1932, THE ANGLICIZED OM OF "GAY "), WAS AN ATYPILLY FEARLS TRAVELER,* 2004 , BAD DIRT , FOURTH ESTATE, ISBN 0007196911, PAGE 32"MR GAY BRAWLS. WHAT A NAME.""IT DIDN'T E TO MEAN WHAT MEANS NOW. PLENTY WERE NAMED GAY'. EVEN NEVADA. WAS OLD ' GAY PCH HAD A GAS STATN WNEMUC. NOBODY THOUGHT NOTH ABOUT AND HE RAISED A RAILROAD R OF KIDS.- - -ANAGRAMS*UGLY

“That was the ia I had, too, ” Salway says, “that gay suici was a product of a bygone era, or was ncentrated among adolcents who didn’t see any other way out. The problem wasn’t jt suici, wasn’t jt afflictg teenagers and wasn’t jt happeng areas staed by homophobia. He found that gay men everywhere, at every age, have higher rat of rdvascular disease, ncer, ntence, erectile dysfunctn, ⁠ allergi and asthma—you name , we got .

“We see gay men who have never been sexually or physilly asslted wh siar post-trmatic strs symptoms to people who have been bat suatns or who have been raped, ” says Alex Kroghlian, a psychiatrist at the Fenway Instute’s Center for Populatn Rearch LGBT Health. “When you ask them why they tried to kill themselv, ” he says, “most of them don’t mentn anythg at all about beg gay.

“The trma for gay men is the prolonged nature of , ” says William Elr, a sexual trma rearcher and psychologist. By the time he got to high school, Adam had learned to manage his mannerisms so well that no one spected him of beg gay. And I kept nyg was a problem bee I had always told myself, ‘I’ve e out, I moved to San Francis, I’m done, I did what I had to do as a gay person.

GAY CULTURE HAS GROWN TOXIC WH UNCHECKED PRIVILEGE. IT'S TIME FOR TO RET

For s, this is what psychologists thought, too: that the key stag inty formatn for gay men all led up to g out, that once we were fally fortable wh ourselv, we uld beg buildg a life wh a muny of people who’d gone through the same thg.

“It’s like you emerge om the closet expectg to be this butterfly and the gay muny jt slaps the ialism out of you, ” Adam says. It got so bad that I ed to go to the grocery store that was 40 mut away stead of the one that was 10 mut away jt bee I was so aaid to walk down the gay street. Every gay man I know rri around a mental portfol of all the shty thgs other gay men have said and done to him.

Several studi have found that livg gay neighborhoods predicts higher rat of risky sex and meth e and ls time spent on other muny activi like volunteerg or playg sports.

I LIKE GUYS BUT I DON’T WANT TO BE GAY. HOW DO I STOP BEG GAY?

A 2009 study suggted that gay men who were more lked to the gay muny were ls satisfied wh their own romantic relatnships. The first, and the one I heard most equently, is that gay men are shty to each other bee, basilly, we’re men.

Acrdg to Dane Whicker, a clil psychologist and rearcher at De, most gay men report that they want to date someone mascule, and that they wished they acted more mascule themselv.

GAY UGLY AND HARD TO UNDERSTANDBLACK DRSTRACK 7 ON FET YOUR OWN FACE PRODUCED BYDEVI MCCALLN & ADA ROOKFEB. 14, 20221 VIEWER14 CONTRIBUTORSGAY UGLY AND HARD TO UNDERSTAND LYRICS[DEVI]UM, SHOUTOUT TO BIG FREEDIANEW ORLEANS BOUNCE MICUHH, EVERY BCH TRACK EVER MA FORNYC DRAG BALLS THE 90'S BEFORE RUPL MA BEG GAY UNOLGAY, UGLY, AND HARD TO UNRSTANDI THOUGHT THAT PEOPLE ULD HANDLE BUT THEY- BUT THEY N’TBUT THEY N'T! HAHA!I DON'T WANT TO LET YOU HAVE (HAVE )I DON’T WANT TO LET YOU HAVE (HAVE )I DON'T WANT TO LET YOU HAVE (HAVE )YOU N'T EARN THIS SH IS NOT ON TREND (ON TREND)THIS SH IS NOT ON TREND (ON TREND)THIS SH IS NOT PRETEND (PRETEND)IT'S A- (AHH AHH!)YEAH, I'M JT DOG MY SH (MY SH)I'M JT DOG MY SH (MY SH)YOU ULD NEVER DO LIKE THIS (LIKE THIS)EVEN THOUGHI'LL KEEP MOVG BUT YOU STAY SLOWI'LL KEEP MOVG BUT YOU DON’T KNOWI’LL KEEP MOVG AND YOU N FOLLOW BEHD ME, BEHD MEYOU MIGHT ALSO LIKEOFF MY OLD CDYOU ULD PY A TRACKSELL TO ROADNNERMAKE YOUR MONEY BACKIT'S THE RNIT SH, PUT TRAVIS BARKER ON OH MY GOD, WHAT THE FUCK IS YOUR PROBLEM?[ROOK]IT IS HAPPENG AGA (AGA)YOU WANNA MS WH I AM POSSSED WH I’M FUCKG AD OM I AM A REVENANTBUT I WANT EVERYTHG THAT I N NEVER HAVEYOU WANT MY SUFFERG? WHY DO YOU WANT SO BAD?YOU THK 'S HARD SH?I WANT SOFTNSI WANT THE GENTLENS THAT ONLY YOU WERE OFFEREDI WANT A PEACEFUL LIFEEVERYTHG I WANT IS FICTNWHAT I NEED DO NOT EXISTEVERYTHG YOU WANT IS RIGHT HERE WAGFOR YOU TO TAKE WHAT I NEED DO NOT EXISTEMBEDCANCELHOW TO FORMAT LYRICS:TYPE OUT ALL LYRICS, EVEN REPEATG SONG PARTS LIKE THE CHOSLYRICS SHOULD BE BROKEN DOWN TO DIVIDUAL LUSE SECTN HEARS ABOVE DIFFERENT SONG PARTS LIKE [VERSE], [CHOS], ETC.USE ALICS (<I>LYRIC</I>) AND BOLD (<B>LYRIC</B>) TO DISTGUISH BETWEEN DIFFERENT VOLISTS THE SAME SONG PARTIF YOU DON’T UNRSTAND A LYRIC, E [?]TO LEARN MORE, CHECK OUT OUR TRANSCRIPTN GUI OR VIS OUR TRANSCRIBERS FOMABOUTHAVE THE SI SOP ON THIS SONG?SIGN UP AND DROP SOME KNOWLEDGESTART THE SONG BASK A QUTN ABOUT THIS SONGASK A QUTN *‌WHO PRODUCED “GAY UGLY AND HARD TO UNDERSTAND” BY BLACK DRS?WHEN DID BLACK DRS RELEASE “GAY UGLY AND HARD TO UNDERSTAND”?WHO WROTE “GAY UGLY AND HARD TO UNDERSTAND” BY BLACK DRS?FET YOUR OWN FACE (2022)BLACK DRS1. ​U_U22. LET’S BE3. ​EARTH WORM4. NO NORMAL5. ​DOOMSPIRAL6. MONEY MAKES YOU STUPID7. GAY UGLY AND HARD TO UNDERSTAND8. ​NIGHTWISHCREDSPRODUCED BYDEVI MCCALLN & ADA ROOKWRTEN BYDEVI MCCALLN & ADA ROOKRELEASE DATEFEBARY 14, 2022TAGSPOPINDTRIALELECTRO-INDTRIALNOISE POPEXPAND COMMENTSADD A MENTSIGN UP AND DROP KNOWLEDGE ?GENI IS THE ULTIMATE SOURCE OF MIC KNOWLEDGE, CREATED BY SCHOLARS LIKE YOU WHO SHARE FACTS AND SIGHT ABOUT THE SONGS AND ARTISTS THEY LOVE.SIGN UPGENI IS THE WORLD’S BIGGT LLECTN OF SONG LYRICS AND MIL KNOWLEDGE

Or maybe ’s ternalized homophobia: Feme gay men are still stereotyped as bottoms, the receptive partner anal sex. A two-year longudal study found that the longer gay men were out of the closet, the more likely they were to bee versatile or tops. Rearchers say this kd of trag, liberately tryg to appear more mascule and takg on a different sex role, is jt one of the ways gay men prsure each other to atta “sexual pal, ” the equivalent of gog to the gym or pluckg our eyebrows.