Joe Kort, Ph.D., talks about his new book, "Is My Hband Gay, Straight, or Bi?"
Contents:
- I'M A GUY TERTED RECEPTIVE ANAL SEX: DO THAT MEAN I'M GAY?
- NOT ALL GAY MEN HAVE ANAL SEX
- IS YOUR MAN GAY, STRAIGHT, OR BISEXUAL?
- 5 THGS STRAIGHT PEOPLE DON’T KNOW ABOUT GAY SEX
- THE BIGGT MYTH ABOUT GAY SEX
I'M A GUY TERTED RECEPTIVE ANAL SEX: DO THAT MEAN I'M GAY?
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NOT ALL GAY MEN HAVE ANAL SEX
* is it gay to like anal *
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IS YOUR MAN GAY, STRAIGHT, OR BISEXUAL?
For heterosexuals, gay sex might be somethg of an enigma. There may be many who have no clue as to how gay men actually have sex and the quirks that... * is it gay to like anal *
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5 THGS STRAIGHT PEOPLE DON’T KNOW ABOUT GAY SEX
Further, beg a gay man isn’t a mandate for enjoyg anal sex. In fact, oral sex and mutual masturbatn are more monly reported behavrs than anal stimulatn among gay men long-term relatnships.
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For stance, men who have sex wh men (MSM) may or may not intify as gay. In terms of anal sex specifilly, ’s good to reerate that not all gay men enjoy anal peratn, and many folks who don’t intify as gay men really enjoy anal sex. It’s also worth notg that bee there’s ls accsible rmatn out there about what queer sex looks like, young lbian, gay, bisexual, transgenr, and queer (LGBTQ+) people might have trouble imagg what sex might look like for them, outsi of stereotyp, porn, or other media reprentatns.
THE BIGGT MYTH ABOUT GAY SEX
Lucky for gay/bi men, there are que a number of who know exactly how that feels. It seems like every gay guy out there is a bottom, and when you thk you've met someone who's fely a He too is a bottom. Is he gay?
Many people mistakenly nsir a purely homosexual act, but the sire for anal sex is not necsarily related to one’s sexual inty. Myth: Only gay men have anal gay male upl have anal sex, but not all do.