Joe Kort, Ph.D., talks about his new book, "Is My Hband Gay, Straight, or Bi?"
Contents:
- IS YOUR MAN GAY, STRAIGHT, OR BISEXUAL?
- HOW TO DISCREETLY FD OUT IF SOMEONE YOU KNOW IS GAY
- HOW TO KNOW IF YOU ARE GAY
IS YOUR MAN GAY, STRAIGHT, OR BISEXUAL?
* how do you tell if a guy is gay and into you *
If you're a woman, you may have noticed thgs about your boyiend that lead you to believe he's gay or terted men. Keep readg for a thorough list of potential signs that your boyiend might be gay. There are many reasons why someone might act this way, so this by self is not a surefire sign that he’s gay.
If you believe your boyiend lov and r for you but he "seems to be gay," keep md that he uld be bisexual, pansexual, or terted men. There are several inti which someone n be terted more than one genr, so don't thk he's "jt gay". If you stumble upon evince of gay porn on his puter or phone, though, that may be a ltle different.
HOW TO DISCREETLY FD OUT IF SOMEONE YOU KNOW IS GAY
You fd pop-ups of gay porn on your/his puter or stored vio fil.
HOW TO KNOW IF YOU ARE GAY
He aggrsively ni searchg for or watchg gay scen. If he’s gay, he might thrive on other men’s attentn, equently touch or hug them, or exchange flirty ments wh them (pecially about their physil appearance).[6]. He may surround himself wh gay panns to fill an unrequed need.
Notice if he equently hangs out wh his gay iends, or jos them on nights out at LGBTQ+ bars and clubs. They thk, “If I act like I don’t like gay men, no one will thk I am one.” Notice if he acts unfortable around gay men, regularly mak homophobic ments or jok, or liberately never talks about anythg remotely gay.[10].
This is often referred to as ternalized homophobia. If his relativ are highly anti-gay, he may not feel safe or wele to e out to them. He might also be wrtlg wh ternalized homophobia or self-loathg bee of the nflict between his inty and his upbrgg.[12].