Why are straight women so drawn to havg gay men as iends?
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CAN SOMEONE BE HOMOSEXUAL AND NOT GAY?
Many young men intify as mostly straight — a sexual orientatn that is not que straight but also, they say, ls gay than bisexualy * not attracted to gay guys *
Men who have sex wh other men are gay or bisexual. We now know that many men are attracted to gay sex, but not to men.
I’ve wrten extensively about my book, Is My Hband Gay or Bi?
A Gui for Women Concerned About Their Men, but simply put, some men have no sire to be nnected wh gay culture, and scerely nsir themselv to not be gay or bisexual. In our culture, many people thk that bisexualy is jt a gateway to homosexualy, but is not.
WHAT'S THE SCIENCE BEHD STRAIGHT WOMEN LIKG GAY MEN?
It is te that some gay men thk at first that they are bisexual, but this is largely due to the cultural taboo agast beg gay. If a man wants anal sex means he is gay or bisexual. Our culture has cid that receivg anal sex equat to beg gay, but “gay” is more than jt a behavr.
This would be like sayg that gay men who don’t like anal sex are really straight but don’t know yet, and their butt will have to tell them at some pot. We hear a lot about the Big Three Sexuali — straight, bisexual and gay. If you’re a young man, you might assume that eher you’re straight or you’re not, meang you’re likely gay and maybe bisexual.
Yet the evince suggts that more young men intify or scribe themselv as mostly straight than intify as eher bisexual or gay bed.