Joe Kort, Ph.D., talks about his new book, "Is My Hband Gay, Straight, or Bi?"
Contents:
- HOW TO TELL IF YOUR BOYIEND IS GAY
- DO HE LIKE YOU? (FOR GAY OR BI BOYS)
- HOW TO TELL IF YOUR GUY FRIEND IS GAY
- IS YOUR MAN GAY, STRAIGHT, OR BISEXUAL?
- IS HE GAY?
HOW TO TELL IF YOUR BOYIEND IS GAY
If you're a woman, you may have noticed thgs about your boyiend that lead you to believe he's gay or terted men. Sexualy is highly plex and sensive, and there are a lot of accurate stereotyp out there that don't tly... * does he like me or is he gay *
If you're a woman, you may have noticed thgs about your boyiend that lead you to believe he's gay or terted men. Keep readg for a thorough list of potential signs that your boyiend might be gay. There are many reasons why someone might act this way, so this by self is not a surefire sign that he’s gay.
If you believe your boyiend lov and r for you but he "seems to be gay, " keep md that he uld be bisexual, pansexual, or terted men. There are several inti which someone n be terted more than one genr, so don't thk he's "jt gay".
If you stumble upon evince of gay porn on his puter or phone, though, that may be a ltle different.
DO HE LIKE YOU? (FOR GAY OR BI BOYS)
There are lots of reasons why you might want to know if your iend is gay. There are some important thgs that you have to unrstand about this suatn before gog forward, however. Someone's sexualy is highly plex and highly... * does he like me or is he gay *
You fd pop-ups of gay porn on your/his puter or stored vio fil. He aggrsively ni searchg for or watchg gay scen. If he’s gay, he might thrive on other men’s attentn, equently touch or hug them, or exchange flirty ments wh them (pecially about their physil appearance).
He may surround himself wh gay panns to fill an unrequed need.
HOW TO TELL IF YOUR GUY FRIEND IS GAY
Notice if he equently hangs out wh his gay iends, or jos them on nights out at LGBTQ+ bars and clubs.
They thk, “If I act like I don’t like gay men, no one will thk I am one. ” Notice if he acts unfortable around gay men, regularly mak homophobic ments or jok, or liberately never talks about anythg remotely gay.
IS YOUR MAN GAY, STRAIGHT, OR BISEXUAL?
This is often referred to as ternalized homophobia.
If his relativ are highly anti-gay, he may not feel safe or wele to e out to them. He might also be wrtlg wh ternalized homophobia or self-loathg bee of the nflict between his inty and his upbrgg. This is the biggt sign your boyiend may be gay.
A prev gay relatnship or enunter n be a major ditor.
IS HE GAY?
An enunter his teen or llege years is more likely to mean he’s gay or queer than an experience later life, which uld have more plex explanatns. Remember, sexualy is highly plex and clus more than jt gay and straight.
Don’t rely on gay stereotyp like an effemate voice or walk, flashy or tight clothg, his TV and mic preferenc, or beg a neat eak to terme your boyiend’s sexualy. There are many gay men that exhib none of the tras, as well as many straight men that do.