Joe Kort, Ph.D., talks about his new book, "Is My Hband Gay, Straight, or Bi?"
Contents:
- HOW TO DEAL WHEN YOU FD OUT YOUR BOYIEND IS GAY
- 17 SIGNS YOUR BOYIEND IS SECRETLY GAY (& WHAT TO DO)
- IS YOUR MAN GAY, STRAIGHT, OR BISEXUAL?
- I FELT MY BOYIEND WAS GAY OR BI IMMEDIATELY, BUT HE FLATLY DENIED IT
- HOW TO TELL IF YOUR BOYIEND IS GAY
- FDG OUT YOUR SPOE IS GAY
HOW TO DEAL WHEN YOU FD OUT YOUR BOYIEND IS GAY
If you're readg this, there's a good chance you thk your boyiend might be gay. No doubt you're also feelg pretty nfed and wonrg how to al wh the suatn. It's a very sensive suatn to al wh, and you need to make sure you rpect his feelgs. But at the same time, you n't * just found out my boyfriend is gay *
But what do you do when your relatoship ends bee your boyiend out as gay? Did you make him gay? Do your feelgs really have to change jt bee he’s gay?
No matter what he might say, he didn’t jt wake up this morng and ci he was gay.
17 SIGNS YOUR BOYIEND IS SECRETLY GAY (& WHAT TO DO)
* just found out my boyfriend is gay *
So no, you didn’t make him gay.
It’s not his flt he’s gay.
IS YOUR MAN GAY, STRAIGHT, OR BISEXUAL?
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If you’re readg this, there’s a good chance you thk your boyiend might be gay.
So how n you tell if your boyiend is gay?
I FELT MY BOYIEND WAS GAY OR BI IMMEDIATELY, BUT HE FLATLY DENIED IT
If you see any of the signs below, your boyiend may be gay. He watch gay pornIf your boyiend watch a lot of gay porn, there’s a good chance he’s sexually terted men. He might not be fully gay, but he’s obvly cur enough to check out on a regular basis.
After all, most heterosexual guys have no tert watchg any porn unls there’s a woman your boyiend is tryg to hi his sexualy om you, ’s doubtful that he’ll openly watch gay porn while you’re around. The only way you’ll know is to look at his search history, which is a pretty big vasn of his do he react if you offer to watch gay porn wh him?
He’s been wh men beforeIf he’s been relatnships or hooked up wh men the past, ’s a pretty big ditor that he’s gay or bisexual. ”If you hear this kd of ment a lot, he might be attemptg to normalize his homosexual thoughts by makg them seem like nothg more than a joke. He’s homophobicIt sounds untertuive, but some gay or bisexual men will exprs homophobic sentiments.
HOW TO TELL IF YOUR BOYIEND IS GAY
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Do he make jok about beg gay that cross the le om good-natured teasg to offensive terrory?
FDG OUT YOUR SPOE IS GAY
If so, might be bee he’s secretly stgglg wh his own urse, there are plenty of heterosexual guys who e homophobic language as well.
He’s not terted sleepg wh youThere are lots of reasons why your boyiend might not want to have sex that don’t volve him beg secretly gay. Do he always want to know who is gay and who is straight?
His fantasi volve menA of heterosexual men have sexual fantasi volvg other men, and don’t mean they are gay.