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When a male starts wearg the pk and illy stuff -- spe not beg gay or transng to female -- nf the ever-lovg fuck out of most people. Gay men tend to get annoyed and believe we don't know what their stggle is like, bisexuals seem to fd nfg bee many assume mixg genrs would mean likg both. Let me put this way: I'm a crossdrser who has no issu puttg myself out there on the terwebs or stttg about public om time to time, but to date, the most hostily I've enuntered has not been om the homophobic fuckws you'd expect, but om trans women.

And even they tend to make the assumptn we talked about earlier -- that if you're not gay or transng, then mt be a sexual kk. Sce my only ame of reference was bad jok or sexual fetish or gay men, I thought "Well I mt be at least bisexual, " so I spent a lot of time tryg to f a square peg a round hole before fally beg able to separate sexual orientatn om genr inty.

For stance, while uld be that your feelgs about genal sex wh men are fluenced by ternalized homophobia (and we all have some of , no matter how queer -- or not -- we are, believe me), on the other hand, you report havg enjoyable genal sex wh women whout those feelgs. There's also no need to be nfed or distrsed about a sire to crossdrs: 's not that unmon, pecially among heterosexual men -- but some bisexual and homosexual men have that sire, too -- and that may also be related to your sire to bottom, to boot, if you see the "feme" role as one of a bottom (somethg I'd perhaps obvly ask you to exame if that's the se overall, sce 's not so balanced to thk of any one sex, race or orientatn as somehow naturally beg on the bottom, but that don't mean that 's problematic for you to role play wh that your own bedroom, eher).