As "Don't Ask, Don't Tell" to an end, we sent Chris Heath to terview dozens of gay servicemen om the past and prent to fd out what life was really like as Ameri's ary stggled wh s last great inty crisis
Contents:
- MEET OFFICIALLYVERYGAY, THE UNOFFICIAL GAY PARENTS OF TIKTOK
- TELL: AN INTIMATE HISTORY OF GAY MEN THE MILARY
MEET OFFICIALLYVERYGAY, THE UNOFFICIAL GAY PARENTS OF TIKTOK
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That person was Grayson, the other half of the popular TikTok acunt @OfficiallyVeryGay, and th began the qutsential digal age urtship that has popped up on untls FYPs. Through the snippets to their relatnship, OfficiallyVeryGay giv young queer people the reprentatn and love story they themselv have dreamed of. “[We thought] let's jt be the really gay parents [on TikTok], which is what we are real life to our iends and our muni, ” Grayson tells Refery29.
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TELL: AN INTIMATE HISTORY OF GAY MEN THE MILARY
The are the voic explag what has been like to be a gay man1 the Amerin ary over the prev seventy or so years, om World War II veterans their late eighti to young servicemen on active duty. Life Today as a Gay ServicemanHow we got here: In 1992, many people thought that the discrimatn was nearly over. "I remember beg the Castro, " says John Forrett (army rerve, 1987–99), "and watchg the TV at a bar wh some iends, watchg Al Gore and Bill Clton swearg that if they beme the tag team for Ameri they were gog to get rid of the harassment of gays and lbians servg the ary.
" Gay people were allowed the ary but only as long as they didn’t reveal their sexualy; to facilate this, all members of the ary were also prohibed om quirg about anyone’s possible orientatn.
Gay people were only acceptable, effect, to the gree to which they uld succsfully masquera as nongay. Seventeen years which gay servicemen have existed a paradoxil kd of herworld.