DEAR DEIDRE: RECENTLY I found out my son is gay and I am stgglg to accept were always very close. He was my world and we did everythg toge
Contents:
- ‘MY HBAND TOLD ME HE WAS GAY AFTER 15 YEARS OF MARRIAGE’
- THIS IS HOW I FELT WHEN MY SON TOLD ME HE WAS GAY
- HOW TO COPE WHEN YOUR SPOE COM OUT AS GAY
- FDG OUT YOUR SPOE IS GAY
- MY SON TOLD ME HE’S GAY AND I’M STGGLG TO ACCEPT
- WHAT TO DO WHEN YOUR CHILD SAYS: "I'M GAY"
- HOW HELPG MY HBAND DISVER HE’S GAY HELPED ME LET GO
‘MY HBAND TOLD ME HE WAS GAY AFTER 15 YEARS OF MARRIAGE’
A woman has revealed that her hband me out to her 15 years after they married – and that he had known he was gay sce he was a teen. * my husband just told me he's gay *
My hband jt told me he's gay. Yterday when he told me he was gay I wasn't shocked, I thk bee I accepted he was bi. I don't re that he's gay, has no impact on how I re about him.
My boyiend jt told me he is gay and broke up wh me. Instead- he tells me he is gay and n only see himself wh a man the future.
I’m pro LGBTQ+, if my kids told me they were gay I’d be supportive x1000 but I jt don’t want this.
THIS IS HOW I FELT WHEN MY SON TOLD ME HE WAS GAY
Fdg out your partner is gay n turn your world upsi down and make you qutn everythg about your relatnship." emprop="scriptn * my husband just told me he's gay *
A woman has revealed that her hband me out to her 15 years after they married – and that he had known he was gay sce he was a teen. ”Carolyn explaed that beg 11 years olr than she, her hband had kept his sexualy a secret as he was brought up the 60s, when homosexualy was still illegal until 1967. If you’d like to jo the Fom, drop a le at do feel like to fd out that your son is gay?
HOW TO COPE WHEN YOUR SPOE COM OUT AS GAY
So my 19-year-old son told me he is gay last night. He don’t “act gay, ” but ’s not a huge leap to image him beg still put me to shock.
”“Don’t get stuck on thkg about the mechanics of gay sex. Bee I’m obvly the person who is gog to have trouble unrstandg that he’s gay. Then you disver that your spoe or partner is, fact, gay.
How to Regnize Your Spoe Is Gay. Unls your spoe shar their sexual orientatn wh you, there is no way to know for sure if they are gay.
FDG OUT YOUR SPOE IS GAY
You notice pop-ups of gay pornography or gay datg s on their vic.
You notice a new group of iends on their social media, many of whom are openly gay. You notice them talkg more about gay people nversatn, eher a posive light or rogatory manner.
MY SON TOLD ME HE’S GAY AND I’M STGGLG TO ACCEPT
Among the upl, when the gay, lbian, or bisexual partner out, a third of the upl break up immediately; another third stay together for one to two years and then spl; the remag third try to make their marriag work. There's no qutn that learng your partner is gay when you believed them to be straight n be extremely difficult.
Some straight/gay marriag are happy unns. Blame yourself for "turng" your partner gay.
No one n turn someone else gay. The experience of disverg your partner is gay n be overwhelmg. People do not choose who they are attracted to, so make sure to not direct homophobic backlash towards your partner.
WHAT TO DO WHEN YOUR CHILD SAYS: "I'M GAY"
But when the marriage is over bee your spoe turns out to be gay, there is a whole different layer of thoughts and emotns to ntend wh. Bonnie Kaye,, me to specialize helpg women face this unanticipated reason for the mise of their marriage after her own marriage llapsed by virtue of her hband beg gay.
Kaye reports that when a woman learns the reason for the problems her marriage-namely homosexualy, she go through a wi range of emotns om vastatn, shame, guilt, rponsibily, and perhaps even to repulsn. Acrdg to, there are over 4 ln women this untry who are married to, or have been married to gay men, and there are lns more throughout the world.
HOW HELPG MY HBAND DISVER HE’S GAY HELPED ME LET GO
"In almost all s, " Kaye stat, "women wh gay hbands are unaware of their hbands' homosexualy at the time of the marriage. The answers to the qutns pend on if the gay or lbian spoe knew and tried to reprs the homosexual attractns, whether he or she didn't know they were gay, or if they are bisexual (attracted to both genrs) or pansexual (attracted more to a person's spir or personaly rather than a person's anatomy) so the attractn to their spoe was real was real but not limed to one person or genr. The seems to be no shortage of support out there on this subject matter and I also me across several books on the topic that may be of help to both the gay and straight spoe.
My Hband Is Gay: A Woman's Survival Gui, by Carol Grever. Published: 17:25, 10 Jan 2022DEAR DEIDRE: RECENTLY I found out my son is gay and I am stgglg to accept .