Fathers and gay sons: A plited, vally important relatnship.
Contents:
- ‘A FAY LIKE OURS’: PORTRAS OF GAY FATHERHOOD
- THREE SGLE, GAY DADS REFLECT ON FATHERHOOD, SURROGACY JOURNEYS
- MOVG PORTRAS OF GAY FATHERS WH THEIR FAI ACROSS AMERI
- IS YOUR DAD GAY—OR ARE YOU A GAY DAD?
- GAY MEN AND THEIR FATHERS: HURT AND HEALG
- SGLE GAY DADS GIVE TIPS FOR FIRST-TIME PARENTS: ‘I CREATED THE VILLAGE AROUND MYSELF’
‘A FAY LIKE OURS’: PORTRAS OF GAY FATHERHOOD
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THREE SGLE, GAY DADS REFLECT ON FATHERHOOD, SURROGACY JOURNEYS
Photographer Bart Heynen set out across the untry to make a visual archive of gay fatherhood "Dads." * about gay dads *
It’s an unrstandable impulse, which he attribut to a sire among gay parents to feel “normal” after havg their pabili as parents ntually lled to qutn.
MOVG PORTRAS OF GAY FATHERS WH THEIR FAI ACROSS AMERI
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IS YOUR DAD GAY—OR ARE YOU A GAY DAD?
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GAY MEN AND THEIR FATHERS: HURT AND HEALG
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SGLE GAY DADS GIVE TIPS FOR FIRST-TIME PARENTS: ‘I CREATED THE VILLAGE AROUND MYSELF’
“I felt a ltle b lonely as a gay dad – although there are two of – but lonely the sense that all the other fai I knew were straight parents, ” Heynen said a vio ll, explag why he began photographg the seri. “I also thought was important for (my kids) to see other fai wh gay dads. “For many people, the book will be an troductn to gay fatherhood.
For Heynen, they reprent addnal love and re and help illtrate some of the cisn-makg that, though not exclive to them, all gay fathers mt ntend wh.