The gay world is often reprented as some sort of monolhic whole that has the same culture. That is a lie. It is actually broken down to a handful of substrata to which each gay belongs. Here they are.
Contents:
- A BEGNER’S GUI TO GOG GAY
- HOW TO HAVE A GAY OR LBIAN RELATNSHIP
- A HANDY GUI TO ALL GAY MEN
- HOW TO GET A MAN (FOR GAY MEN)
- I LIKE GUYS BUT I DON’T WANT TO BE GAY. HOW DO I STOP BEG GAY?
- HOW TO ACCEPT THAT YOU ARE GAY
- STEP-BY-STEP INSTCTNS FOR SHOOTG YOUR SHOT WH GAY GUYS
A BEGNER’S GUI TO GOG GAY
Enterg to a gay relatnship is much the same as enterg to any relatnship. Two people meet and get to know each other. Some thgs never change, even if the partners are of the same genr. Date first. More than once. A mon... * how to be gay guide *
It’s been a hard 30 years for me as a non-bary homosexual on this cis, straight pla. Bee when you aren’t lookg, we gays are plottg and planng the Gay Agenda. The Gay Agenda which, to terrify all of my loyal nservative fans, always has been and always will be about makg as many people gay as possible.
And so this Pri month, as your agony nt here at Vogue, I am here to liver to you the LGBTQ+ msage: I’m here to tell you that ’s time to go gay. We get to wear leather whout lookg try-hard, we get to watch unhged drag queens fall over dive bars, and we get to holiday hom Tangier owned by “terr ratn gays.
HOW TO HAVE A GAY OR LBIAN RELATNSHIP
* how to be gay guide *
” We’re statistilly more likely to be chic and fashnable (although some gay men seem to want to actively exclu themselv om this one) and people—lerally, like, everyone—are sperate for our approval. Yep, you got —beg gay is better.
A HANDY GUI TO ALL GAY MEN
Of urse, try not to stay too reprsed and then let those bottled-up feelgs turn you to a psychopathic murrer, or perhaps worse, very very homophobic, but your sexualy and genr are all yours.
Instead, engage wh your muny—go to the gay bar, read about queer history, or host a book bnch for you and the ’s right, the days, you n lerally have all. ) But first, you have to simply take the plunge this Pri month: Get loser, we’re gog gay.
It's not enough that both of you are gay. How do you know if you’re gay?
HOW TO GET A MAN (FOR GAY MEN)
Don't leave your partner twistg the wd - particularly if you're not out, and 's a member of your fay makg a gay joke or sultg gays. If any such issue aris at your place of work, there may be anizatns is the area that you n ntact for advice, such as the Gay/Lbian Center or GLAAD (Gay/Lbian Alliance Agast Defamatn) the Uned Stat. |Intifyg as Gay.
I LIKE GUYS BUT I DON’T WANT TO BE GAY. HOW DO I STOP BEG GAY?
Gay dividuals are romantilly or sexually attracted to people who are the same genr as them.[3]. If you’re more aroed by people who are the same genr as you, you might be gay.
Keep md that experienc of sexual aroal are extremely nuanced, and aren’t ncrete proof that you’re gay.
For stance, you n be aroed by gay adult media whout necsarily beg gay yourself.[7]. If you tend to velop csh on people who are the same genr as you, uld be a sign that you’re gay.[9].
HOW TO ACCEPT THAT YOU ARE GAY
You n be gay even if you’ve had straight relatnships the past. If you felt unfortable wh physil ntact wh each girl, you may be gay.
If you often fantasize about relatnships volvg specific genrs, you may be queer or gay.[14]. You may be gay, but you uld also be pansexual or bisexual if you sometim thk about the other genr.
STEP-BY-STEP INSTCTNS FOR SHOOTG YOUR SHOT WH GAY GUYS
Don’t assume you’re gay based on how you walk, talk, or drs. You’ve probably heard stereotyp about what mak someone gay, but none of the are te.
Siarly, walkg or dancg a certa way don’t make you gay, eher. For stance, havg a high-pched voice as a guy don’t make you gay. If you enjoy flirtg wh the same genr, you might be gay or queer.
Keep md that even if you have a sexual experience wh someone of the same genr or another genr, that don’t necsarily mean that you’re gay. Thgs would be so simple if you uld jt label yourself as gay and be done wh , but may not be that easy.