This week BEL MOONEY advis a man who is still livg wh his wife, even though they both know he is gay.
Contents:
- ‘I DON’T WANT TO LIKE OTHER MEN’: MY WIFE’S TAKEN ME BACK BUT I N’T STOP BEG GAY
- BEL MOONEY: CAN I STAY WH MY WIFE NOW I KNOW THAT I'M GAY?
- HOW TO COPE WHEN YOUR SPOE COM OUT AS GAY
‘I DON’T WANT TO LIKE OTHER MEN’: MY WIFE’S TAKEN ME BACK BUT I N’T STOP BEG GAY
In our weekly sex lumn, experts solve datg dilemmas. This week is all about a gay man who lov his wife but wants to stop wantg men. * i love my wife but i'm gay *
In time, I disvered that I am gay. Even though I accept I am gay, I have tried so hard to make the marriage work. Bee you are gay I thk is even harr for you, and for your wife, sounds as if she fds impossible to addrs this issue serly, which is why you feel so lonely.
Are you terrified of the social nsequenc of leavg your wife to bee a fully functng gay man? There is a good sectn about this issue, lled bi/gay heterosexually married men. Do you intify as gay or bi?
I'm gay. Sometim a woman may have been a heterosexual relatnship for years and yet feel somethg is somehow "off;" and she may fd herself askg, "Is my hband gay? " Many women fd this qutn unthkable but acrdg to Bonnie Kaye,, an expert women married to gay men, is timated that 4 ln women have been, or are, married to gay men.
BEL MOONEY: CAN I STAY WH MY WIFE NOW I KNOW THAT I'M GAY?
* i love my wife but i'm gay *
If a hband is gay, n vastate not only the relatnship but the straight wife as well. Signs of a Gay Hband – Is My Man Gay?
The cleart way to know if your hband is gay is if he tells you. If the hband is hont wh both you and wh himself (read: How Do I Know If I Am Gay?
HOW TO COPE WHEN YOUR SPOE COM OUT AS GAY
Signs You Are Gay), that is when you n tly know that he is gay. Unfortunately, is timated that 50% of gay hbands hi their homosexualy om their wiv and don't reach this place of honty on their own. In many s, is the wife, who after spectg that somethg is wrong, mt nont the gay hband wh the evince, and only then n hontly be achieved.
But if you're wonrg, "Is my man gay, " might be helpful to know that there are signs to look for, acrdg to Kaye. Kaye has veloped the Official Gay Hband Checklist to help women know if their hbands are gay.