Thomas Lloyd: Why am I "so gay?" | TED Talk

Contents:

• AM I GAY?
• I LIKE GUYS BUT I DON’T WANT TO BE GAY. HOW DO I STOP BEG GAY?
• HOW TO COPE WHEN YOU'RE GAY AND LONELY
• "THAT'S SO GAY" IS JT SO WRONG
• WHY AM I "SO GAY?"
• WHY ARE U SO GAY​​​​​​​​​​​​KKBUTTERFLY27XXFEATURGSAWDU PLHIAPRODUCED BYDOM ALAIMOJUN. 2, 20231 VIEWER5 CONTRIBUTORSWHY ARE U SO GAY LYRICS[CHOS: KKBUTTERFLY27XX, SAWDU PLHIA]LET'S KILL THIS OPP(GRAH, GRAH) BUTTERFLY, I'MA TAKE THE FUCKG MICKSHANK A MAN DOWN, SHANK HIS BCHNAH, I A'T FIGHTG OVER DICKCOME AROUND HERE, YOU'RE GETTG NICKEDPICK ME GIRL, YOU'RE GETTG PICKEDDON'T BE A DICK OR YOU'RE GETTG LICKEDWA, WA, WA, HOLD UP, HOLD UPARE YOU A FUCKG FAGGOT?[VERSE 1: KKBUTTERFLY27XX]WHY ARE YOU SO GAY?YOU'RE A GUY, YOU TAKE UP THE BATTI DRYCAME OUT, MA YOUR DADDY CRYHAD HIM ON HIS KNE, BEGGG 'S A LIETHK, THK, THK YOU FLY, BUT YOU'RE STILL A LTLE MAGGOTI'M LLG MILLIE BOBBY BROWN ON YOU, FAGGOTWHY ARE YOU SO GAY?PAT YA NAILS, DO MAKP TOOA'T NO MAN WANNA BE YOUR BOOLIKE LLG EVERY GIRL "GE"YOU THK YOU'RE REGA, BUT YOU GEEYOU A MAN, BH, NEED YOU GONE LIKE MADLE MCCANN, BHMA-MA-MA-MADLE MCCANN, BHWHY ARE YOU SO GAY?YOU MIGHT ALSO LIKE[CHOS: KKBUTTERFLY27XX, SAWDU PLHIA]LET'S KILL THIS OPP(GRAH, GRAH) BUTTERFLY, I'MA TAKE THE FUCKG MICKSHANK A MAN DOWN, SHANK HIS BCHNAH, I A'T FIGHTG OVER DICKCOME AROUND HERE, YOU'RE GETTG NICKEDPICK ME GIRL, YOU'RE GETTG PICKEDDON'T BE A DICK OR YOU'RE GETTG LICKEDWA, WA, WA, HOLD UP, HOLD UPARE YOU A FUCKG FAGGOT?[VERSE 2: SAWDU PLHIA, KKBUTTERFLY27XX]WHY ARE YOU SO GAY?I'M NOT GAY, I JT LOVE THE FEELG OF CK MY MOUTH 'TIL I STOP BREATHGIT'S NOT GAY IF YOU STILL GOT YOUR SOCKS ONIT'S NOT GAY IF YOU GOT THE XBOX ONIT'S NOT GAY IF I LL A GAMEI GET WET LIKE A WATER TANKMY FAVORE GAME'S WHEN HIS FEET'S ON MY WOOD, AND HE STROK GOODIT'S LLED "WALK THE PLANK", GET ?IT'S NOT GAY, I SWEAR, I WAS JT SNIFFG HIS UNRWEAR TO SEE IF NEED A WASHI N WASH BY LICKG OFF (DICK CHEE)HOLD ON, I NEED A BIG FAT CK I N HOLD ONAND I TALKG 'BOUT BGT WHEN I SAY "I NEED A MAN TO HOLD ON"AYE (GET , 'E I WANNA HOLD ON)WHY ARE YOU SO GAY?[CHOS: KKBUTTERFLY27XX, SAWDU PLHIA]LET'S KILL THIS OPP(GRAH, GRAH) BUTTERFLY, I'MA TAKE THE FUCKG MICKSHANK A MAN DOWN, SHANK HIS BCHNAH, I A'T FIGHTG OVER DICKCOME AROUND HERE, YOU'RE GETTG NICKEDPICK ME GIRL, YOU'RE GETTG PICKEDDON'T BE A DICK OR YOU'RE GETTG LICKEDWA, WA, WA, HOLD UP, HOLD UPARE YOU A FUCKG FAGGOT?EMBEDCANCELHOW TO FORMAT LYRICS:TYPE OUT ALL LYRICS, EVEN REPEATG SONG PARTS LIKE THE CHOSLYRICS SHOULD BE BROKEN DOWN TO DIVIDUAL LUSE SECTN HEARS ABOVE DIFFERENT SONG PARTS LIKE [VERSE], [CHOS], ETC.USE ALICS (<I>LYRIC</I>) AND BOLD (<B>LYRIC</B>) TO DISTGUISH BETWEEN DIFFERENT VOLISTS THE SAME SONG PARTIF YOU DON’T UNRSTAND A LYRIC, E [?]TO LEARN MORE, CHECK OUT OUR TRANSCRIPTN GUI OR VIS OUR TRANSCRIBERS FOMABOUTTHIS SONG B IS UNREVIEWEDGENI ANNOTATN1 NTRIBUTORWHY ARE U SO GAY IS THE FOURTH TRACK OF KKBUTTERFLY27 XX’S ALBUM, KKB27XX3. IN THE SONG, SHE ACTS VERY HOMOPHOBIC TOWARDS SAWDU UPON THE REALISATN THAT HE’S GAY, SPE BOTH OF THE SGERS BEG QUEER. JOKGLY, IT WAS RELEASED AT THE START OF PRI MONTH.EXPAND SHAREASK A QUTN ABOUT THIS SONGASK A QUTN *‌WHO PRODUCED “WHY ARE U SO GAY” BY ​​​​​​​​​​​​KKBUTTERFLY27XX?WHEN DID ​​​​​​​​​​​​KKBUTTERFLY27XX RELEASE “WHY ARE U SO GAY”?WHO WROTE “WHY ARE U SO GAY” BY ​​​​​​​​​​​​KKBUTTERFLY27XX?CREDSFEATURGSAWDU PLHIAPRODUCED BYDOM ALAIMOWRTEN BYSAWDU PLHIA & KALILA MONTANARELEASE DATEJUNE 2, 2023TAGSRAPUK DRILLEXPAND COMMENTSADD A MENTSIGN UP AND DROP KNOWLEDGE ?GENI IS THE ULTIMATE SOURCE OF MIC KNOWLEDGE, CREATED BY SCHOLARS LIKE YOU WHO SHARE FACTS AND SIGHT ABOUT THE SONGS AND ARTISTS THEY LOVE.SIGN UPGENI IS THE WORLD’S BIGGT LLECTN OF SONG LYRICS AND MIL KNOWLEDGE

AM I GAY?

Gay - While this adjective has historilly scribed men who are attracted to other men, the term now is ed to refer to anyone who experienc romantic, emotnal, or physil attractn to people of the same genr. Sce genr inty and sexual orientatn are separate, transgenr people n intify as straight, gay, lbian, bisexual, etc.

I like guys but I don’t want to be gay.

I LIKE GUYS BUT I DON’T WANT TO BE GAY. HOW DO I STOP BEG GAY?

How do I stop beg gay?

You don’t need to be certa you are gay before talkg to someone or attendg an LGBTQ+ meetg. I am a gay male.

HOW TO COPE WHEN YOU'RE GAY AND LONELY

I have been out nearly 7 years now (age 16, sophomore year of HS). That week I told my iends and fay I was gay.

"THAT'S SO GAY" IS JT SO WRONG

It is very homogeneo/ hetero-normative and beg a tholic stutn is not the easit environment for queer stunts. It’s not pletely known why someone might be lbian, gay, straight, or bisexual.

WHY AM I "SO GAY?"

You also n’t “turn” a person gay. For example, exposg a boy to toys tradnally ma for girls, such as dolls, won’t e him to be gay. Many people say that they knew they were lbian, gay, or bisexual even before puberty.

” Many people, cludg sex rearchers and scientists, believe that sexual orientatn is like a sle wh entirely gay on one end and entirely straight on the other. LGBTQ stands for Lbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgenr, and Queer/Qutng. Sexual inty is how you label yourself (for example, g labels such as queer, gay, lbian, straight, or bisexual).

WHY ARE U SO GAY​​​​​​​​​​​​KKBUTTERFLY27XXFEATURGSAWDU PLHIAPRODUCED BYDOM ALAIMOJUN. 2, 20231 VIEWER5 CONTRIBUTORSWHY ARE U SO GAY LYRICS[CHOS: KKBUTTERFLY27XX, SAWDU PLHIA]LET'S KILL THIS OPP(GRAH, GRAH) BUTTERFLY, I'MA TAKE THE FUCKG MICKSHANK A MAN DOWN, SHANK HIS BCHNAH, I A'T FIGHTG OVER DICKCOME AROUND HERE, YOU'RE GETTG NICKEDPICK ME GIRL, YOU'RE GETTG PICKEDDON'T BE A DICK OR YOU'RE GETTG LICKEDWA, WA, WA, HOLD UP, HOLD UPARE YOU A FUCKG FAGGOT?[VERSE 1: KKBUTTERFLY27XX]WHY ARE YOU SO GAY?YOU'RE A GUY, YOU TAKE UP THE BATTI DRYCAME OUT, MA YOUR DADDY CRYHAD HIM ON HIS KNE, BEGGG 'S A LIETHK, THK, THK YOU FLY, BUT YOU'RE STILL A LTLE MAGGOTI'M LLG MILLIE BOBBY BROWN ON YOU, FAGGOTWHY ARE YOU SO GAY?PAT YA NAILS, DO MAKP TOOA'T NO MAN WANNA BE YOUR BOOLIKE LLG EVERY GIRL "GE"YOU THK YOU'RE REGA, BUT YOU GEEYOU A MAN, BH, NEED YOU GONE LIKE MADLE MCCANN, BHMA-MA-MA-MADLE MCCANN, BHWHY ARE YOU SO GAY?YOU MIGHT ALSO LIKE[CHOS: KKBUTTERFLY27XX, SAWDU PLHIA]LET'S KILL THIS OPP(GRAH, GRAH) BUTTERFLY, I'MA TAKE THE FUCKG MICKSHANK A MAN DOWN, SHANK HIS BCHNAH, I A'T FIGHTG OVER DICKCOME AROUND HERE, YOU'RE GETTG NICKEDPICK ME GIRL, YOU'RE GETTG PICKEDDON'T BE A DICK OR YOU'RE GETTG LICKEDWA, WA, WA, HOLD UP, HOLD UPARE YOU A FUCKG FAGGOT?[VERSE 2: SAWDU PLHIA, KKBUTTERFLY27XX]WHY ARE YOU SO GAY?I'M NOT GAY, I JT LOVE THE FEELG OF CK MY MOUTH 'TIL I STOP BREATHGIT'S NOT GAY IF YOU STILL GOT YOUR SOCKS ONIT'S NOT GAY IF YOU GOT THE XBOX ONIT'S NOT GAY IF I LL A GAMEI GET WET LIKE A WATER TANKMY FAVORE GAME'S WHEN HIS FEET'S ON MY WOOD, AND HE STROK GOODIT'S LLED "WALK THE PLANK", GET ?IT'S NOT GAY, I SWEAR, I WAS JT SNIFFG HIS UNRWEAR TO SEE IF NEED A WASHI N WASH BY LICKG OFF (DICK CHEE)HOLD ON, I NEED A BIG FAT CK I N HOLD ONAND I TALKG 'BOUT BGT WHEN I SAY "I NEED A MAN TO HOLD ON"AYE (GET , 'E I WANNA HOLD ON)WHY ARE YOU SO GAY?[CHOS: KKBUTTERFLY27XX, SAWDU PLHIA]LET'S KILL THIS OPP(GRAH, GRAH) BUTTERFLY, I'MA TAKE THE FUCKG MICKSHANK A MAN DOWN, SHANK HIS BCHNAH, I A'T FIGHTG OVER DICKCOME AROUND HERE, YOU'RE GETTG NICKEDPICK ME GIRL, YOU'RE GETTG PICKEDDON'T BE A DICK OR YOU'RE GETTG LICKEDWA, WA, WA, HOLD UP, HOLD UPARE YOU A FUCKG FAGGOT?EMBEDCANCELHOW TO FORMAT LYRICS:TYPE OUT ALL LYRICS, EVEN REPEATG SONG PARTS LIKE THE CHOSLYRICS SHOULD BE BROKEN DOWN TO DIVIDUAL LUSE SECTN HEARS ABOVE DIFFERENT SONG PARTS LIKE [VERSE], [CHOS], ETC.USE ALICS (<I>LYRIC</I>) AND BOLD (<B>LYRIC</B>) TO DISTGUISH BETWEEN DIFFERENT VOLISTS THE SAME SONG PARTIF YOU DON’T UNRSTAND A LYRIC, E [?]TO LEARN MORE, CHECK OUT OUR TRANSCRIPTN GUI OR VIS OUR TRANSCRIBERS FOMABOUTTHIS SONG B IS UNREVIEWEDGENI ANNOTATN1 NTRIBUTORWHY ARE U SO GAY IS THE FOURTH TRACK OF KKBUTTERFLY27 XX’S ALBUM, KKB27XX3. IN THE SONG, SHE ACTS VERY HOMOPHOBIC TOWARDS SAWDU UPON THE REALISATN THAT HE’S GAY, SPE BOTH OF THE SGERS BEG QUEER. JOKGLY, IT WAS RELEASED AT THE START OF PRI MONTH.EXPAND SHAREASK A QUTN ABOUT THIS SONGASK A QUTN *‌WHO PRODUCED “WHY ARE U SO GAY” BY ​​​​​​​​​​​​KKBUTTERFLY27XX?WHEN DID ​​​​​​​​​​​​KKBUTTERFLY27XX RELEASE “WHY ARE U SO GAY”?WHO WROTE “WHY ARE U SO GAY” BY ​​​​​​​​​​​​KKBUTTERFLY27XX?CREDSFEATURGSAWDU PLHIAPRODUCED BYDOM ALAIMOWRTEN BYSAWDU PLHIA & KALILA MONTANARELEASE DATEJUNE 2, 2023TAGSRAPUK DRILLEXPAND COMMENTSADD A MENTSIGN UP AND DROP KNOWLEDGE ?GENI IS THE ULTIMATE SOURCE OF MIC KNOWLEDGE, CREATED BY SCHOLARS LIKE YOU WHO SHARE FACTS AND SIGHT ABOUT THE SONGS AND ARTISTS THEY LOVE.SIGN UPGENI IS THE WORLD’S BIGGT LLECTN OF SONG LYRICS AND MIL KNOWLEDGE

Some people may engage same genr sexual behavr but not intify themselv as bisexual, lbian, or gay.

5% intify as lbian, gay, or bisexual. Part of realizg you're gay, or bi, or trans, or non-bary, or anythg other than cisgenr and heterosexual is acceptg you’re different—and somewhat separated—om the majory.

Here he shar his journey to overe the sense of isolatn he felt growg up gay a small U. At the time, there were no real gay role mols except for Graham Norton and Jack om Dawson's Creek—and I certaly didn't intify wh him bee I wasn't a football player.