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class="BaseWrap-sc-gjQpdd BaseText-ewhhUZ ContentHearHed-NCyCC iUEiRd dBIeWW kctZMs">17 Subtle Signs of Cheatg to Watch Out For </h1><span class="ContentHearContentDivir-liIxwf jCxpJX"></span></div><div class="ContentHearAccredatn-lfctVB etVsnJ ntent-hear__accredatn" data-ttid="ContentHearAccredatn"><div class="ContentHearDek-bIqFFZ ddIDdC">The ditors aren't meant to be alarmist, but if your gut is tryg to tell you somethg, they uld prove eful.</div><div class="ContentHearByle-kmPyCa emiglw"><div class="ContentHearByleContent-dpPmNn DRFq"><div data-ttid="BylWrapper" class="BylWrapper-KIudk irTIfE byl ContentHearByl-cZqgyJ bHLeKI"><p class="ByleWrapper-jWHrLH fnINOd byle byl__byle" data-ttid="ByleWrapper" emProp="thor" emType="><span emProp="name" class="ByleNamWrapper-jbHncj fuDQVo"><span data-ttid="ByleName" class="ByleName-kwmrLn cYaBaU byle__name"><span class="BaseWrap-sc-gjQpdd BaseText-ewhhUZ BylePreamble-iJolpQ iUEiRd dvgOmM gnILss byle__preamble">By </span><a 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That's bee most of , <a href=" target="_blank">Ariana Madix</a> clud, tend to give our partners the benef of the doubt as far as fily go. Tst is important any healthy relatnship, right?</p><p>But acrdg to a 2016 survey, one four married and habg young adults <a href=" target="_blank">admted to cheatg</a>, while only half nfsed. In other words, knowg how to tch a cheater has largely fallen—unfairly—on the jured party. (Case pot: It was Madix who found the crimatg vio on her ex's phone.)</p><div><div class="ConsumerMarketgUnThemedWrapper-iUTMTf jssHut nsumer-marketg-un nsumer-marketg-un--article-mid-ntent" role="prentatn" aria-hidn="te"><div class="nsumer-marketg-un__slot nsumer-marketg-un__slot--article-mid-ntent nsumer-marketg-un__slot---ntent"></div><div class="journey-un"></div></div></div><p>So people cheat. But how you n you protect yourself? You probably know the obv signs of cheatg, like always g home late whout a solid exce or fdg datg apps on their phone long after you had <a href=" target="_blank">the “what are we” nversatn</a>. In orr to really ID a cheater, pays to follow your gut feelgs and watch for signs that aren't as overt. </p><div class="Contaer-bkChBi byNLHx"></div><p>The followg red flags aren't meant to be alarmist—almost all of them n have alternate explanatns, so there are no guaranteed signs of cheatg—but if your gut is really tryg to tell you somethg, they uld prove eful. And if you read the below and fd yourself wonrg <a href=" target="_blank">how to break up</a> wh your partner, we have a gui to that too.</p><h2><strong>They regularly acce</strong> <em><strong>you</strong></em> <strong>of cheatg.</strong></h2><p>Beyond beg classic projectn, this gaslightg tactic serv two purpos, says relatnship expert and fily ach <a data-offer-url=" class="external-lk" data-event-click="{"element":"ExternalLk","outgogURL":"" href=" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">Carole Madn</a>, LMFT. It puts you on the fensive so you don't have the chance to nsir the oppose possibily, and mak your partner look so anticheatg that they uldn't possibly do to you. It uld also be a genue reactn to them realizg that sce they got away wh cheatg, you probably uld too.</p><h2><strong>They’re takg out a lot of sh whdrawals.</strong></h2><p>Another telltale sign: Cheaters often e sh when they take their secret partners out so that their SO's n't track where they've been via cred rd, says Rhonda Milrad, founr and chief relatnship advisor of <a data-offer-url=" class="external-lk" data-event-click="{"element":"ExternalLk","outgogURL":"" href=" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">Relatnup</a>. But if you share a fancial acunt, what you n follow is an unual spike ATM whdrawals.</p><div class="ExternalLkEmbedWrapper-hNDkqw gWJwIs" data-ttid="external-lk-embed--le"><div class="ExternalLkEmbedText-glBTSy kAxHEA"><div class="BaseWrap-sc-gjQpdd BaseText-ewhhUZ ExternalLkEmbedRubric-hYBGeO dQqwqj lnkUoq">Read more</div><a attribut="[object Object]" class="external-lk-embed__hed-lk button" href="/story/what-unts-as-cheatg-now"><span class="BaseWrap-sc-gjQpdd BaseText-ewhhUZ ExternalLkEmbedHed-dSIMOS iUEiRd jUMHnB gsZLZF">What It’s Really Like to Cheat and Be Cheated On, Acrdg to 10 Women</span></a><p class="BaseWrap-sc-gjQpdd BaseText-ewhhUZ ExternalLkEmbedDek-btrWcN iUEiRd hsVlFO jwHNCY">We asked real women how they fe cheatg their relatnships. Spoiler alert: there are a lot of gray areas.</p><div data-ttid="BylWrapper" class="BylWrapper-KIudk irTIfE byl ExternalLkEmbedByl-fFFaGd eNAzyl"><p class="ByleWrapper-jWHrLH hQstQI byle byl__byle" data-ttid="ByleWrapper" emProp="thor" emType="><span emProp="name" class="ByleNamWrapper-jbHncj fuDQVo"><span data-ttid="ByleName" class="ByleName-kwmrLn cYaBaU byle__name"><span class="BaseWrap-sc-gjQpdd BaseText-ewhhUZ BylePreamble-iJolpQ iUEiRd dvgOmM gnILss byle__preamble">By </span><a class="BaseWrap-sc-gjQpdd BaseText-ewhhUZ BaseLk-eNWuiM ByleLk-gEnFiw iUEiRd jAcLDI rPnfn eErqIx byle__name-lk button" href="/ntributor/ira-gonzalez">Ira Gonzalez</a></span></span></p></div></div><a attribut="[object Object]" class="external-lk-embed__image-lk" href="/story/what-unts-as-cheatg-now"><picture class="RponsiveImagePicture-cWuUZO dUOtEa ExternalLkEmbedRponsiveImage-iGydLQ dGzCDw rponsive-image"><img alt="Two women embracg wh one lookg away. " class="RponsiveImageContaer-eybHBd fptoWY rponsive-image__image" src=" srcSet=" 120w, 240w, 320w, 640w" siz="100vw"/></picture></a></div><h2><strong>They’ve got new sex mov.</strong></h2><p>Of urse, 's possible they've jt been dog their rearch— which se, great if you're to —but other signs of cheatg bed wh a very noticeable sudn change your sex life uld mean they're pickg up those new techniqu om someone else and disverg new thgs they like, says Milrad.</p><h2><strong>They’re sudnly hypercril of you.</strong></h2><p>Cheaters will sometim try to jtify their actns by makg their relatnship out to be so bad that they had no choice, explas Madn. She typilly se this happen suatns which the cheater feels they're <a href=" target="_blank">fallg love</a> wh their cheatg partner, sce they have a sense that their affair is happier than their relatnship wh their signifint other. </p><h2><strong>Your typil relatnship issu seem to disappear whout an obv answer for why.</strong></h2><p>Madn's clients are often surprised to fd their partners are cheatg bee they thought everythg was gog well around the time the fily started. But sometim the reason thgs seem to be lookg up after a rocky perd is bee the cheater cid to stop puttg the work to your relatnship and have their “needs,” however ridiculo that sounds, met elsewhere.</p><h2><strong>They’re payg more attentn to their looks.</strong></h2><p>If your SO is once aga htg the gym after a hiat or buyg new cloth outsi of their ual style, they uld be an early stage wh someone else or even <a href=" target="_blank">datg more than one person</a>, says Madn.</p><div class="ExternalLkEmbedWrapper-hNDkqw gWJwIs" data-ttid="external-lk-embed--le"><div class="ExternalLkEmbedText-glBTSy kAxHEA"><div class="BaseWrap-sc-gjQpdd BaseText-ewhhUZ ExternalLkEmbedRubric-hYBGeO dQqwqj lnkUoq">Read more</div><a attribut="[object Object]" class="external-lk-embed__hed-lk button" href="/story/vanrpump-l-tom-sandoval-ariana-madix-raquel-leviss-cheatg-sndal-timele"><span class="BaseWrap-sc-gjQpdd BaseText-ewhhUZ ExternalLkEmbedHed-dSIMOS iUEiRd jUMHnB gsZLZF">Raquel Leviss Has Broken Her Silence Followg Stay Mental Health Facily</span></a><p class="BaseWrap-sc-gjQpdd BaseText-ewhhUZ ExternalLkEmbedDek-btrWcN iUEiRd hsVlFO jwHNCY">The Sndoval saga ntu.</p><div data-ttid="BylWrapper" class="BylWrapper-KIudk irTIfE byl ExternalLkEmbedByl-fFFaGd eNAzyl"><p class="ByleWrapper-jWHrLH hQstQI byle byl__byle" data-ttid="ByleWrapper" emProp="thor" emType="><span emProp="name" class="ByleNamWrapper-jbHncj fuDQVo"><span data-ttid="ByleName" class="ByleName-kwmrLn cYaBaU byle__name"><span class="BaseWrap-sc-gjQpdd BaseText-ewhhUZ BylePreamble-iJolpQ iUEiRd dvgOmM gnILss byle__preamble">By </span><a class="BaseWrap-sc-gjQpdd BaseText-ewhhUZ BaseLk-eNWuiM ByleLk-gEnFiw iUEiRd jAcLDI rPnfn eErqIx byle__name-lk button" href="/ntributor/glamour">Glamour</a></span></span></p></div></div><a attribut="[object Object]" class="external-lk-embed__image-lk" href="/story/vanrpump-l-tom-sandoval-ariana-madix-raquel-leviss-cheatg-sndal-timele"><picture class="RponsiveImagePicture-cWuUZO dUOtEa ExternalLkEmbedRponsiveImage-iGydLQ dGzCDw rponsive-image"><img alt="Vanrpump Rul Cheatg Sndal" class="RponsiveImageContaer-eybHBd fptoWY rponsive-image__image" src=" srcSet=" 120w, 240w, 320w, 640w" siz="100vw"/></picture></a></div><h2><strong>They fet what stori they’ve told you.</strong></h2><p>If your partner equently starts stori wh, "Did I tell you this already?" uld mean they're havg trouble keepg track of multiple nfidants, says psychologist <a data-offer-url=" class="external-lk" data-event-click="{"element":"ExternalLk","outgogURL":"" href=" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">Colleen Long</a>, PsyD.</p><h2><strong>They’re nfidg you ls.</strong></h2><p>Beg ls cled to discs problems wh you uld be a warng sign that your partner's been ventg to someone else, says Long. Even if they're not sleepg wh anyone else, this uld pot toward <a href=" target="_blank">emotnal cheatg</a> a relatnship.</p><h2><strong>They keep strict tabs on your schle.</strong></h2><p>Lren, 33, says her ex started to ask when she was g home om work more often when he was cheatg. Now she se he was tryg to figure out when he and his cheatg partner would have the place to themselv.</p><h2><strong>They have random new hobbi or terts.</strong></h2><p>“My ex had been ntent to listen to about eight songs, <em>total</em>, durg our entire time together,” Julie remembers. “A bunch of new CDs whout any wrg to intify their ntents—and a sudn tert a whole host of new mic—was due to the fluence of this new partner.” Attachment to a particular place n pecially be a giveaway: Julie's ex sisted on jog a gym bee of a climbg wall when he didn't even climb. It turned out his secret girliend was a member.</p><h2><strong>Your relatnship started as an affair.</strong></h2><p>For some people, there is some tth to the sayg “once a cheater, always a cheater.” John, 44, says he should've seen g when he got to a relatnship wh a married woman: “We were good bed together, but she enjoyed beg good bed wh others, too, apparently.”</p><div class="ExternalLkEmbedWrapper-hNDkqw gWJwIs" data-ttid="external-lk-embed--le"><div class="ExternalLkEmbedText-glBTSy kAxHEA"><div class="BaseWrap-sc-gjQpdd BaseText-ewhhUZ ExternalLkEmbedRubric-hYBGeO dQqwqj lnkUoq">Read more</div><a attribut="[object Object]" class="external-lk-embed__hed-lk button" href="/story/celebry-rebound-relatnships-2023"><span class="BaseWrap-sc-gjQpdd BaseText-ewhhUZ ExternalLkEmbedHed-dSIMOS iUEiRd jUMHnB gsZLZF">It's Time to Rethk the Rebound </span></a><p class="BaseWrap-sc-gjQpdd BaseText-ewhhUZ ExternalLkEmbedDek-btrWcN iUEiRd hsVlFO jwHNCY">Celebri have been gettg their fill of the time-honored, post-breakup rual this summer. They might be onto somethg.</p><div data-ttid="BylWrapper" class="BylWrapper-KIudk irTIfE byl ExternalLkEmbedByl-fFFaGd eNAzyl"><p class="ByleWrapper-jWHrLH hQstQI byle byl__byle" data-ttid="ByleWrapper" emProp="thor" emType="><span emProp="name" class="ByleNamWrapper-jbHncj fuDQVo"><span data-ttid="ByleName" class="ByleName-kwmrLn cYaBaU byle__name"><span class="BaseWrap-sc-gjQpdd BaseText-ewhhUZ BylePreamble-iJolpQ iUEiRd dvgOmM gnILss byle__preamble">By </span><a class="BaseWrap-sc-gjQpdd BaseText-ewhhUZ BaseLk-eNWuiM ByleLk-gEnFiw iUEiRd jAcLDI rPnfn eErqIx byle__name-lk button" href="/ntributor/hannaltig">Hanna Ltig</a></span></span></p></div></div><a attribut="[object Object]" class="external-lk-embed__image-lk" href="/story/celebry-rebound-relatnships-2023"><picture class="RponsiveImagePicture-cWuUZO dUOtEa ExternalLkEmbedRponsiveImage-iGydLQ dGzCDw rponsive-image"><img alt="celebry upl reboundg" class="RponsiveImageContaer-eybHBd fptoWY rponsive-image__image" src=" srcSet=" 120w, 240w, 320w, 640w" siz="100vw"/></picture></a></div><h2><strong>Cheatg was accepted their fay.</strong></h2><p>Lookg back, John thks his ex's parents should've been a clue. “She me om a fay where her mother and father both cheated on each other, and she told me that,” he says. “But her parents were still married. So they set an example for their dghter to follow.” Not every cheatg spoe will have children who cheat, of urse, but one <a href=" target="_blank">study</a> the <em>Journal of Fay Issu</em> found that children of cheaters were twice as likely to cheat themselv.</p><h2><strong>They get irate when you try to nont them.</strong></h2><p>Someone who hasn't cheated is more likely have a good explanatn for their spic behavr and do what tak for you to feel nfint. A cheater, however, may get fensive bee you've blown their ver, says Milrad: “It is very mon for cheaters to flect rponsibily and get irrated by your qutns. They often try and shut you down and even cricize you for beg too ntrollg or spic.”</p><h2><strong>They’re sudnly all lovey-dovey.</strong> </h2><p>Of urse, there's nothg wrong wh this ordarily, but sometim, if a partner is showg you tons of affectn out of the blue, they uld be tryg to make up for their fily. “The fear of gettg ught n e a cheatg partner to overpensate effort to mimize qutng of their love or mment,” says Lori Kret, a psychotherapist and founr of the <a data-offer-url=" class="external-lk" data-event-click="{"element":"ExternalLk","outgogURL":"" href=" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">Aspen Relatnship Instute</a>. “If the partner is feelg guilt, stead of endg the affair that is meetg a psychologil need, they may try to addrs the guilt by beg more prent the relatnship and puttg more effort.”</p><div class="ExternalLkEmbedWrapper-hNDkqw gWJwIs" data-ttid="external-lk-embed--le"><div class="ExternalLkEmbedText-glBTSy kAxHEA"><div class="BaseWrap-sc-gjQpdd BaseText-ewhhUZ ExternalLkEmbedRubric-hYBGeO dQqwqj lnkUoq">Read more</div><a attribut="[object Object]" class="external-lk-embed__hed-lk button" href="/story/2022-was-the-year-of-cheatg-sndals"><span class="BaseWrap-sc-gjQpdd BaseText-ewhhUZ ExternalLkEmbedHed-dSIMOS iUEiRd jUMHnB gsZLZF">2022 Was the Year of Cheatg Sndals</span></a><p class="BaseWrap-sc-gjQpdd BaseText-ewhhUZ ExternalLkEmbedDek-btrWcN iUEiRd hsVlFO jwHNCY">From <em>Whe Lot</em> to Adam Leve, we uldn't get enough.</p><div data-ttid="BylWrapper" class="BylWrapper-KIudk irTIfE byl ExternalLkEmbedByl-fFFaGd eNAzyl"><p class="ByleWrapper-jWHrLH hQstQI byle byl__byle" data-ttid="ByleWrapper" emProp="thor" emType="><span emProp="name" class="ByleNamWrapper-jbHncj fuDQVo"><span data-ttid="ByleName" class="ByleName-kwmrLn cYaBaU byle__name"><span class="BaseWrap-sc-gjQpdd BaseText-ewhhUZ BylePreamble-iJolpQ iUEiRd dvgOmM gnILss byle__preamble">By </span><a class="BaseWrap-sc-gjQpdd BaseText-ewhhUZ BaseLk-eNWuiM ByleLk-gEnFiw iUEiRd jAcLDI rPnfn eErqIx byle__name-lk button" href="/ntributor/le-wkie">Le Wkie</a></span></span></p></div></div><a attribut="[object Object]" class="external-lk-embed__image-lk" href="/story/2022-was-the-year-of-cheatg-sndals"><picture class="RponsiveImagePicture-cWuUZO dUOtEa ExternalLkEmbedRponsiveImage-iGydLQ dGzCDw rponsive-image"><img alt="article image" class="RponsiveImageContaer-eybHBd fptoWY rponsive-image__image" src=" srcSet=" 120w, 240w, 320w, 640w" siz="100vw"/></picture></a></div><h2><strong>They’re protective of their vic.</strong></h2><p>“Cheatg partners may beg keepg their cell phon out of view and leavg the room more equently wh them,” says Kret. “They may close their laptops more often and change screens when you enter the room. They will also make exc for why you n’t e their vic for monplace tasks like takg a photo or makg a rtrant rervatn.” The reason why is obv: They're cheatg on phone lls, social media, or texts and are hidg their munitns wh someone else. </p><h2><strong>They’re pullg back om you.</strong></h2><p>Another sign of fily marriage or a relatnship is that your partner isn't munitg wh you as often, don't have as much time to spend wh you, and/or has bee ls terted sex. “If your partner sudnly has ls tert physil or emotnal timacy, this n be a sign they’re gettg what they need elsewhere,” says <a data-offer-url=" class="external-lk" data-event-click="{"element":"ExternalLk","outgogURL":"" href=" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">marriage and fay therapist Kalley Hartman</a>. “Cheaters tend to spend ls time wh their partners than ual bee they are allotg more of their attentn to someone else.”</p><h2><strong>They’re reluctant about public outgs.</strong></h2><p>If your partner wants to spend all 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