This is how I really reacted when my son told me he was gay – SheKnows

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• YOUR CHILD JT TOLD YOU HE'S GAY. NOW WHAT?
• IS MY SON GAY OR IS A PHASE?
• THIS IS HOW I REALLY REACTED WHEN MY SON TOLD ME HE WAS GAY

YOUR CHILD JT TOLD YOU HE'S GAY. NOW WHAT?

For straight parents, havg a child reveal that he is gay n be a jolt. You might ask how long he or she has known, and why he feels he is gay, bi, or trans, suggts Jonathan Tobk, M.

D., a psychiatrist private practice New York Cy and the -thor of When Your Child Is Gay: What You Need to Know. You n fd one through the Associatn of Gay and Lbian Psychiatrists. Take the extra step and show your child that you are terted beg the parent of a gay child.

Edute yourself on what means to be gay, lbian, bisexual or transgenr. PFLAG, or Parents for Lbians and Gays, which now has a group for transgenr youth, and holds natnwi chapters and meetgs;. My 17-year-old son and I got to a b of a heated argument this weekend and the midst of my son said he's gay.

IS MY SON GAY OR IS A PHASE?

My hband says that he has always thought that our son is gay and that if he's gay, he's gay. There are no other gays our fay as far as I know. It is highly unlikely that your son told you that he is gay simply to upset you.

Gay kids often tell their parents about their sexualy the middle of a fight bee they feel that they have nothg left to lose sce you are already upset wh them. It is probably more likely that he has known that he is gay for some time.

I suggt that you and your hband talk to your son durg a lm moment and ask him how he is pg wh beg a gay teen. Also, please keep md that gay teens need the opportuny to talk to their parents about relatnship issu jt as straight kids do. The nversatn wh gay teens do not end after an acceptance of their sexual choic.

THIS IS HOW I REALLY REACTED WHEN MY SON TOLD ME HE WAS GAY

“I’m gay. I have had gay iends (and been eply hurt and disappoted when beme obv.

He never wanted to be gay. To iends of me who may have gay children, or be gay themselv, please five me for my ignorance. I don’t know if I’ll ever be “okay” wh the gay liftyle, but right now, I am okay wh my son beg gay, and right now, that is all that matters.

What would you do if your child told you they were gay? How Olr Brothers Influence HomosexualyHomosexualy might be partly driven by a mother’s immune rponse to her male fet—which creas wh each son she MacGregor / RtersHere’s what we know: Homosexualy is normal.