How to Cope When Your Spoe Is Gay

Contents:

• HOW TO COPE WHEN YOUR SPOE COM OUT AS GAY
• 17 SIGNS YOUR BOYIEND IS SECRETLY GAY (& WHAT TO DO)
• I'M SRED THAT MY BOYIEND IS GAY?

HOW TO COPE WHEN YOUR SPOE COM OUT AS GAY

However, what I am ncerned about is that he is g me as a steppg stone to acknowledgg to himself that he is gay, or that he wants to be a heterosexual relatnship orr to reap the social benefs (havg kids, generally beg accepted society, etc. I’m worried bee (a) he’s never been wh a man before and beg wh me means he won't get that experience (assumg he don't cheat) and (b) he om an extremely relig fay the South who would likely not be able to accept his homosexualy (or even bisexualy).

I'm worried that we will spend years together, possibly get married, have kids, and then he will e to grips that he is fact actually gay. I have a very strong sneakg spicn that he’s bidg his time until his parents die or until he cis that he's gog to e out to them as I stay wh him and thk about a future, knowg full well that he uld tell me one day that he's actually gay and wants to be wh a man, or that he wants to transn, and leave me wh a bunch of baggage, such as gettg a divorce (sharg ctody of kids, fanc), and time/energy/effort lost?

Then you disver that your spoe or partner is, fact, gay.

17 SIGNS YOUR BOYIEND IS SECRETLY GAY (& WHAT TO DO)

How to Regnize Your Spoe Is Gay. Unls your spoe shar their sexual orientatn wh you, there is no way to know for sure if they are gay.

You notice pop-ups of gay pornography or gay datg s on their vic. You notice a new group of iends on their social media, many of whom are openly gay. You notice them talkg more about gay people nversatn, eher a posive light or rogatory manner.

Among the upl, when the gay, lbian, or bisexual partner out, a third of the upl break up immediately; another third stay together for one to two years and then spl; the remag third try to make their marriag work. There's no qutn that learng your partner is gay when you believed them to be straight n be extremely difficult. Some straight/gay marriag are happy unns.

I'M SRED THAT MY BOYIEND IS GAY?

Blame yourself for "turng" your partner gay. No one n turn someone else gay. The experience of disverg your partner is gay n be overwhelmg.

People do not choose who they are attracted to, so make sure to not direct homophobic backlash towards your partner. Secretly aaid of my boyiend beg gay, would really appreciate some advice. My boyiend (17/M) and I (18/F) have been together for close to 2 years now and I have been gettg very sred that he is secretly gay.