Eleanor A. Hubbard, Kriste De Wel, "I'm Glad I'm Not Gay!'": Heterosexual Stunts' Emotnal Experience the College Classroom wh a "Comg out" Assignment, Teachg Soclogy, Vol. 31, No. 1 (Jan., 2003), pp. 73-84
Contents:
- HOW DO I KNOW I’M NOT REALLY GAY/STRAIGHT?
- CAN SOMEONE BE HOMOSEXUAL AND NOT GAY?
- THE SOLUTN TO "GAY" INSULTS: FREEDOM OF SPEECH
- I LIKE GUYS BUT I DON’T WANT TO BE GAY. HOW DO I STOP BEG GAY?
- HOW TO KNOW IF YOU ARE GAY
- PEOPLE THK I'M GAY... BUT I'M NOT
- I’VE INTIFIED AS GAY FOR YEARS. NOT ANYMORE.
- YOU’RE NOT GAY: HOMOSEXUALY ANXIETY OCD
HOW DO I KNOW I’M NOT REALLY GAY/STRAIGHT?
Do we need laws forbiddg the "gay" sult? * i'm not even gay *
In orr to have doubts about one’s sexual inty, a sufferer need not ever have had a homo- or heterosexual experience, or any type of sexual experience at all.
If the sufferer is heterosexual, then the thought may be that they are homosexual. If on the other hand they happen to be homosexual they may obss about the possibily that they might really be straight. ” Some people’s doubts are further plited by havg such experienc as hearg other people talkg or lookg their directn and thkg that the people mt be analyzg their behavr or appearance and talkg about them – discsg how they mt be gay (or straight).
CAN SOMEONE BE HOMOSEXUAL AND NOT GAY?
For those wh thoughts of beg homosexual, part of the distrs mt surely be social orig.
THE SOLUTN TO "GAY" INSULTS: FREEDOM OF SPEECH
Let’s face , gay people have always been an opprsed mory wh our culture, and to sudnly thk of beg this posn, and to be stigmatized this way, n be ighteng. I have sometim wonred if those who experience the most distrs om such thoughts as the do so bee they were raised wh more strongly homophobic or anti-gay attus to beg wh, or if is simply bee one’s sexualy n be such a basic doubt.
I LIKE GUYS BUT I DON’T WANT TO BE GAY. HOW DO I STOP BEG GAY?
Lookg at attractive men or women, or pictur of them, or readg sexually oriented lerature or pornography (hetero- or homosexual), to see if they are sexually excg. Observg themselv for evince of “lookg, ” talkg, walkg, drsg, or gturg like someone who is eher gay or straight.
HOW TO KNOW IF YOU ARE GAY
Compulsively reviewg and analyzg past teractns wh other men or women to see if they have acted like a gay or straight person.
Readg articl on the ter about how an dividual n tell if they are gay or straight to see which group they might be most siar to.
PEOPLE THK I'M GAY... BUT I'M NOT
Do you thk I uld be gay (or straight)?
How n I tell if I’m really gay (or straight)? Can you sudnly turn to a homosexual (or heterosexual) even if you have never felt or acted that that way? Do I look (or act) gay (or straight) to you?
I’VE INTIFIED AS GAY FOR YEARS. NOT ANYMORE.
If I get sexual sensatns when viewg sexual material of an oppose orientatn do mean I am gay (or straight)?
A typil example would be a heterosexual man who experienc an erectn while lookg at gay eroti. This reactn is strengthened by the rrect belief that homosexual cu never stimulate heterosexuals. Avoidg standg close to, touchg or bshg agast members of the same sex (or oppose sex if the sufferer is gay).
YOU’RE NOT GAY: HOMOSEXUALY ANXIETY OCD
Not readg or lookg at vios news reports books or articl havg anythg to do wh gay people or other sexual subjects.
Never sayg the words “gay, ” “homosexual, ” (or “straight”) or any other related term. Tryg to not look or act effemately (if a man), or a mascule way (if a woman), (or vice versa if the sufferer is gay).