What’s Good about Beg Gay?: Perspectiv om Youth - PMC

Contents:

• HERE'S WHAT FLORIDA'S 'DON'T SAY GAY' BILL WOULD DO AND WHAT WOULDN'T DO
• IT'S GAY BASHG SCENE SERV NO PURPOSE EXCEPT AS PORN FOR HOMOPHOB
• HOW TO ACCEPT THAT YOU ARE GAY
• THE GAY VOICE
• GAY RIGHTS MOVEMENT
• THE SOLUTN TO "GAY" INSULTS: FREEDOM OF SPEECH
• THE EVOLUTNARY PARADOX OF HOMOSEXUALYBEG GAY NO LONGER HOLDS THE STIGMA ONCE DID, BUT EVOLUTN, WHY DO A NON-REPRODUCTIVE TRA PERSIST?TOM WHIPPLEPUBLISHED: MAY 8, 2018 AT 11:00 PMTHE EVOLUTNARY PARADOX OF HOMOSEXUALY
• WHAT’S GOOD ABOUT BEG GAY?: PERSPECTIV OM YOUTH

HERE'S WHAT FLORIDA'S 'DON'T SAY GAY' BILL WOULD DO AND WHAT WOULDN'T DO

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Th, is not surprisg that lbians and gay men who feel they mt nceal their sexual orientatn report more equent mental health ncerns than do lbians and gay men who are more open; they may even have more physil health problems. Lbian, gay, and bisexual youth who do well spe strs—like all adolcents who do well spe strs—tend to be those who are socially petent, who have good problem-solvg skills, who have a sense of tonomy and purpose, and who look forward to the future.

If they are a heterosexual relatnship, their experienc may be que siar to those of people who intify as heterosexual unls they choose to e out as bisexual; that se, they will likely face some of the same prejudice and discrimatn that lbian and gay dividuals enunter.

IT'S GAY BASHG SCENE SERV NO PURPOSE EXCEPT AS PORN FOR HOMOPHOB

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HOW TO ACCEPT THAT YOU ARE GAY

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THE GAY VOICE

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GAY RIGHTS MOVEMENT

But Florida’s Parental Rights Edutn act — which crics have dubbed the “Don’t Say Gay” bill — has sudnly sparked a natnal war of recent weeks, lears of global rporatns, edorial boards of major newspapers and Hollywood actors have all weighed on the proposed legislatn, wh some llg “eply disturbg” and others “nonntroversial. The bill, which passed Florida’s Senate last week and the state’s Hoe of Reprentativ Febary, do, however, nta the terms “sexual orientatn” and “genr inty, ” each legal experts say that whether the bill prohibs the word “gay” self is a “distractn.

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THE SOLUTN TO "GAY" INSULTS: FREEDOM OF SPEECH

Mark Robson spoke at Berean Baptist Church Wston-Salem, North Carola, earlier this month, where he once aga went on an anti-LGBTQ rant while preachg, openly clarg that straight relatnships are “superr” to gay relatnships.

THE EVOLUTNARY PARADOX OF HOMOSEXUALYBEG GAY NO LONGER HOLDS THE STIGMA ONCE DID, BUT EVOLUTN, WHY DO A NON-REPRODUCTIVE TRA PERSIST?TOM WHIPPLEPUBLISHED: MAY 8, 2018 AT 11:00 PMTHE EVOLUTNARY PARADOX OF HOMOSEXUALY

“Somebody asked me the classroom one time, this fella was a homosexual [and he] looked at me and said, ‘Oh, so you thk your wife and you, you thk your heterosexual relatnship is superr to my hband and our homosexual relatnship?

WHAT’S GOOD ABOUT BEG GAY?: PERSPECTIV OM YOUTH

Robson said that if you put a gay uple one room and a straight uple another room and then wa ne months, there will still be two people the gay uple’s room whereas there will be three people the heterosexual uple’s room. Most people the LGBTQ+ muny know om experience that acceptg your sexualy will lead to your beg a happier, more open this gui, the term gay has been ed to clu all forms of non-heterosexual attractn, whether that be people who are lbian, gay, bisexual, queer, pansexual, or otherwise not straight.

In an rmative and entertag book, tled “Homo Myster”, evolutnary blogist and psychologist David Barash offers a number of different scenars for the evolutn of predomantly male homosexualy, which is nsired a more stable tra. Yet, rearch tradnal societi such as on the island of Samoa found that male homosexuals vt signifintly more than male heterosexuals to support their extend fay and that they are fully accepted members of their societi.

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