Opn | Why I oppose gay marriage - The Washgton Post

Contents:

• LET’S SAY GAY
• THE ANTI-GAY AGENDA
• GAY RIGHTS ARE CIVIL RIGHTS
• WHEN REAGAN SAID GAY
• OPN WHY I OPPOSE GAY MARRIAGE
• EDORIAL: GAY MARRIAGE IS ALL ABOUT EQUALY UNR THE LAW

LET’S SAY GAY

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THE ANTI-GAY AGENDA

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GAY RIGHTS ARE CIVIL RIGHTS

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WHEN REAGAN SAID GAY

About a week after DaBaby’s rant, Boosie Badazz, a hip-hop artist who me up the 1990s, went after Lil Nas X, one of the rare rappers who are openly, unapologetilly, explosns-of-glter gay, threateng to asslt me say first that the untry has quickly evolved on the acceptance of gayns, and that clus an evolutn among Black people.

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OPN WHY I OPPOSE GAY MARRIAGE

It is not the gay Black person who be an stment of a whe supremacist attack on Black masculy; is the Black homophobe who be the stment of opprsn agast his own is important to pot out that the racist and the homophobe often employ the same tactics. Homophob often e the same tactic, claimg that they are protectg children om is precisely the fense Boosie Badazz ed when appearg on “The Breakfast Club” rad show, at one pot seemgly exprsg a fear that if rappers didn’t speak out agast certa exprsns of gayns, an entire generatn of children uld be aga, to clarify: There is no amount of exposure that n make a straight man prefer a penis or a gay one prefer a vaga.

EDORIAL: GAY MARRIAGE IS ALL ABOUT EQUALY UNR THE LAW

Sexual attractn and sexualy jt don’t work that this simplistic notn of sexualy oms is that there are also gay children who have known they were different for as long as they have known anythg, and those children serve reprentatn and visibily; they need to know that there is nothg wrong, broken or evil about them, so that they, too, n feel normal and seen.

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Frank BniColumnist, The New York Tim@FrankBniFormerly the chief rtrant cric for The New York Tim, Bni ma history 2011 by beg the Grey Lady's first out gay lumnist. Kate FaganWrer, ESPN@KateFagan3ESPN ntributor and lumnist Kate Fagan wr about basketball (and genr and sexism and homophobia) om a place of knowledge and ep, personal appreciatn.

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