Stori by, for, and/or about Gay and Bi Young People.
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GAY PERSONALS
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Up to this pot he did not know that I'm gay, and I have no reason to thk that he is anythg other than straight. him "Please tell me if you're gay or straight bee s really killg me". him "Okay but please be hont wh your self and go the way god tend, bee I don't thk I n handle havg a gay iend" (that basilly broke my heart).
me " what do you mean you n't take havg a gay bt iend? He's pretty relig and h been tght that beg gay is wrong.
I also wanted to say that I unrstand this person is your bt iend, and that is a special bond, but a uple of his words are worrisome (he don't thk he n handle havg a gay bt iend, llg straight people 'normal').
ARE YOU GAY? (FOR BOYS 11-16)
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He may be gay, he may be bi, he may be straight (and was jt experimentg, like many people do). Gay. If he nnot accept you as gay after what you guys did, then at that pot he is alg wh his own issu of not beg entirely straight.
As you know, there is nothg wrong wh beg gay, or LGBT for that matter. It n be a long journey to e to terms wh beg gay. He told me that my bt iend stggle wh gay feelgs for a long time, but he claims that god "fixed him".
If he really is gay or bi, he's ep nial. If you ever get a chance, talk to him about beg gay and Christian, 's pletely okay!!!! From what your mutual iend dited about his fah and stggle wh gay feelgs, seems to clarify some fairly nfg signs he was givg you, and seems to dite that he is stgglg to accept himself wh the ntext of his relig beliefs.
I'm sred that my iendship wh my btiend will fall apart after what happened. Up to this pot he did not know that I'm gay, and I have no... * gay boy forum *
I believe sexualy is one of the areas - a great number of guys are kd of bi, rather than totally straight or even totally gay!
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Can you image how hard would be to rencile his emergg gay feelgs wh his relig beliefs? Reparative therapy to "make gays straight" has long been discreded by mastream psychology, so his claim that he was "ma straight" would purely be a statement of his belief and not supported by profsnal psychology or current science.
I don't want to be unhelpfull but to me seems like he is the really gay one and he has stggl wh his relign, beliefs of what's right and wrong and how he really feels and what happens. And for what 's worth, I don't thk " I jt want to be normal wh normal iends" was necsarily a rejectn of you/gay people, 's more about ternalised homophobia.
Like you might well be bisexual or gay. If the only gay timacy I ever had was a group like this, or what you experienced, I uld fortably say I was pretty straight. Whout some sort of bond gay sex, or any sex, n be pretty mechanil.