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If you're readg this, there's a good chance you thk your boyiend might be gay. No doubt you're also feelg pretty nfed and wonrg how to al wh the suatn. It's a very sensive suatn to al wh, and you need to make sure you rpect his feelgs. But at the same time, you n't

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HOW TO COPE WHEN YOU'RE GAY AND LONELY

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If I take him to gay events he be credibly nscendg sayg how everyone there works some medire job at starbucks or somethg and how they're all ugly and stupid and should try readg a book. Straight men who have engaged suatnal homosexualy (such as prison or the ary), what's your story? Part of realizg you're gay, or bi, or trans, or non-bary, or anythg other than cisgenr and heterosexual is acceptg you’re different—and somewhat separated—om the majory.

Here he shar his journey to overe the sense of isolatn he felt growg up gay a small U. At the time, there were no real gay role mols except for Graham Norton and Jack om Dawson's Creek—and I certaly didn't intify wh him bee I wasn't a football player. I felt like I was pletely on my rried on until I was 16, when I started gog out to gay bars my hometown.

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I ma one gay iend, who I'm actually close to now.

For the first time I've been able to form a good group of gay iends and create my own support work. I'd go on gay chatrooms but that was jt a facels nversatn wh someone who uld have been anyone. I thk if I'd had iends who were gay when I was growg up, my life would have been so different.

17 SIGNS YOUR BOYIEND IS SECRETLY GAY (& WHAT TO DO)

I now know there were other kids at my school who were gay, but they didn't e out till much later. Are the prcipl not applible to a scenar volvg homosexual mal beg the same locker room as straight mal?

A Gay man is not different than a straight man. So if sexual asslt is a legimate ncern to have of a straight man, then is as legimate a ncern to have of a Gay man. Now, you might say that a straight male n fend himself agast a Gay man.

That would be bigoted and gradg to Gay men. But even if the straight man uld fend himself agast any Gay man, is not right to put him a suatn where he would have to do so. The send scener, where women need a space where they don't get glared at and sexualized by creeps, is jt as valid for Gay and straight men.

AS A GAY MAN, I’LL NEVER BE NORMAL

I hear this all the time, "not every Gay guy is gog to check you out like that. And like we said, Gay men and straight men are the same. But havg the disfort should not be viewed as homophobic.

Are Gay men better at ntrollg their sexual urg or are straight mal sexually fueled maniacs?

So why is my disfort homophobic? This has nothg to do wh the moraly of homosexualy. "Nagpapakatotoo ka, pero ang nakika nila, pagkunwari."Kuma ang pelikulang o ng P190M sa takilya noong Metro Manila Film Ftival 2000 pero ang dami pa rg ignorante at homophobic makalipas ang dalawampung taon.

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