My roommate is straight and I'm gay. He keeps teasg me to do thgs and I don't know what to do. Should I sleep wh my straight llege roommate?
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GAY 15 YEAR OLD SLEEP OVER
We're two gay men, each stable relatnships, but when we went on vatn together, he cly me on to me * gay sleeping boy *
We are both gay men and have traveled many tim together over the years wh few problems and a hell of a lot of fun. Like many gay men, our platonic iendship began wh a roll the hay.
And every time two male teenagers sleep the same bed, 's not bee they're gay - jt may be about a ep, unspoken need for a iend. While you might not see que the same way as here the statKeep md Many 14 year old boys are too by tryg to Unrstand why they get 200 random erectns a day They have no tert Girls or Boys and when they do Fally get any nerve up to "b agast another kid" Most arent gog to even try for fear of Gettg ridiculed and Ma out to be Gay... I didn't thk you were worried about what if some day if your son tells you he is gay.
What I was sayg is that gay is not ntag, and evintly your social circle is aware of that too. ( other words, why is *he* not aware that someone might brand him gay, or that he might get an erectn and b agast his iend, or whatever) -- I have some thoughts on this. If you would love a child who is gay, why is so not-OK to sleep wh a man that every child mt learn that there is somethg wrong wh ?
MOM, I’M GAY. CAN MY FRIENDS SLEEP OVER?
* gay sleeping boy *
You might have been raised a macho culture where you have to pull away om your iends more and more as you get olr bee you might accintally touch, or be brand as gay, but that is not the culture where you are (and I don't remember a homophobic culture as beg a very helpful one for kids to grow up anyway). And my ncern about this has nothg to do wh any fear of him been gay at all.
I don't thk sleepg the same bed is mon at sleepovers, most kids do have somethg like an air mattrs or foam pad for iends to sleep on, but please don't worry that sleepg the same bed will give a kid gay ias. (If a kid is gay might, but if he is straight won't. ) Gay is herent, not learned.
I also happen to be gay. I uldn’t tell you if your roomie is [closeted] gay, bi or simply cur. The reason is that sometim, gay men end up fallg for guys who are emotnally unavailable.