Gay Men and Their Mothers: Is There a Special Closens? | Psychology Today

Contents:

• DEAR PARENT OF A GAY CHILD
• HOW ONE MOTHER’S LOVE FOR HER GAY SON STARTED A REVOLUTN
• A LETTER TO HER GAY SON: SPREADG LR MAYENO'S PROFOUND MSAGE
• JT BEE HE BREATH: LEARNG TO TLY LOVE OUR GAY SON
• GAY MEN AND THEIR MOTHERS: IS THERE A SPECIAL CLOSENS?

DEAR PARENT OF A GAY CHILD

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HOW ONE MOTHER’S LOVE FOR HER GAY SON STARTED A REVOLUTN

Tori Spellg & Dean McDermott are no strangers to parentg an LGBTQ+ child — McDermott’s olst son, Jack, is gay. Durg a film screeng of his movie My Fake Boyiend  June, McDermott posted an Instagram Story which said, part, “The thg I love about this movie is I got to share wh my 15-year-old, who intifi as trans, and my gay son.

A LETTER TO HER GAY SON: SPREADG LR MAYENO'S PROFOUND MSAGE

In December 2021, By Philipps announced on her podst, By Philipps is Dog Her Bt, that her child Birdie is gay and prefers they/them pronouns.

JT BEE HE BREATH: LEARNG TO TLY LOVE OUR GAY SON

“As a parent, I wanted EJ to know that we loved him and would always love him, ” Magic Johnson told the New York Tim of his reactn when his son, makp artist EJ Johnson, me out to him as gay when he was a teenager. “As long as I am upright, I will fight [so] that Sam and everyone’s children and grandchildren and sisters and brothers will be protected every state of the Uned Stat, ” Sally Field said of her son, Sam Greisman, who is gay — and why she’s a part of the Human Rights Campaign’s work towards the Equaly Act.

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GAY MEN AND THEIR MOTHERS: IS THERE A SPECIAL CLOSENS?

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