Gay "Sis": How Language Fre Us to be Ourselv | Psychology Today

Contents:

• GAY NU RORT MT ALLOW WOMEN, JUDGE DECLAR
• GAY "SIS": HOW LANGUAGE FRE US TO BE OURSELV
• JAGUARS ASSOCIATE STRENGTH ACH OUT AS GAY A FIRST FOR US-BASED PRO LEAGU
• ACTIVISTS NMN VLENCE AGAST LGBTQ MUNY ST. VCENT, WHERE GAY SEX IS ILLEGAL
• IS SI GAY/LBIAN-IENDLY? - SI FOM
• LAS VEGAS GAY-FRIENDLY HOTELS AND RORTS GUI

GAY NU RORT MT ALLOW WOMEN, JUDGE DECLAR

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GAY "SIS": HOW LANGUAGE FRE US TO BE OURSELV

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JAGUARS ASSOCIATE STRENGTH ACH OUT AS GAY A FIRST FOR US-BASED PRO LEAGU

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ACTIVISTS NMN VLENCE AGAST LGBTQ MUNY ST. VCENT, WHERE GAY SEX IS ILLEGAL

The gay male datg app, Grdr, recently add the sexual preference I created beyond jt top, bottom, and vers when to gay men engagg terurse: "si.

That’s what happened 2013 when, an article I wrote for the Huffgton Post, “Guys on the Si, ” I created the term “si” for gay men who aren’t to beg a “top” or a “bottom” or practicg anal peratn.

IS SI GAY/LBIAN-IENDLY? - SI FOM

Bee up until that time the gay muny, havg “real sex” was only about peratn.

And most gay male circl, this is still the se.

LAS VEGAS GAY-FRIENDLY HOTELS AND RORTS GUI

The term “Si” was created when 2010, I was talkg wh some lleagu about “tops” (gay men who prefer the sertive role durg peratn) and “bottoms” (gay men who prefer the receptive role durg peratn) and outed myself for beg a gay man who don’t engage anal terurse at all.

Beg a “top, ” “bottom, ” or “vers” (short for "versatile, " or someone who uld go eher way) were the only acceptable mols the gay muny, and I felt dissed for not ftg to the mold. About a year and a half ago I formed a Facebook group lled “Si Guys” and some of the guys the group started a petn to Grdr, the gay datg app, to add “si” to their list of preferred posns and filters.

And now that Grdr has updated s settgs, gay men are addg as a sexual posn to their app self-intifyg as a si. It’s been around forever—but we jt didn’t have a snappy term to scribe the gay muny.