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A gay Royal Navy officer has won £47,000 after he was ma to feel 'sub-human' over a dispute over hog that end wh him beg outed.

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GAY ROYAL NAVY OFFICER AWARD £45,000 AFTER BEG FORCED TO E OUT ACMODATN ROW

A gay Royal Navy officer has been award more than £45,000 after beg outed to his lleagu followg a dispute over army acmodatn.  * gay royal navy *

A gay Royal Navy officer has been award £45, 000 after he was forced to e out followg a dispute over army anonymo serviceman told an employment tribunal he was discrimated agast by Navy guil on the provisn of hog for claimed that as a rult of the dispute he had to disclose his sexualy to succsfully argued that the Royal Navy breached the Equaly Act by cuttg the typ of acmodatn offered sgle men to jt one - while givg married upl the optn of two to choose tribunal found that the policy would have “a disproportnate effect on the group of Service Personnel who intify as gay” as members of the LGBT+ muny are “ls likely to be married or a civil partnership than heterosexual service personnel”. Royal Navy guil on the provisn of hog for officers were found by the tribunal to have “a disproportnate effect on the group of service personnel who intify as gay” as members of the LGBTQ+ muny are “ls likely to be married or a civil partnership than heterosexual service personnel, ” The Telegraph reported. He sent an email flaggg the hog issu to his superrs which was then circulated to other officers, revealg that he was gay agast his wish.

In 2019, retired litenant manr the Royal Navy, Mandy McBa MBE, opened up out about her experience as a gay woman the Brish armed forc, where she said she had to live a “double life”. READ MORE: 'I was given a crimal nvictn jt for beg gay and ed my life - a pardon is not enough' 'I thought was a phase but didn't end for me'.

He said: "I realised that if I wanted to have a reer the navy as well as beg gay that I was gog to have to work out how to keep two nflictg requirements apart.

GAY ROYAL NAVY OFFICER AWARD MORE THAN £45,000 AFTER BEG OUTED: ‘IT MA ME FEEL SUB-HUMAN’

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It took Patrick about two hours of circlg the venue and checkg he had not been followed before he had the nfince to walk through the door of the gay bar.

Patrick said: "I knew that if I was found out I would be chucked out but I didn't realise then that was also a crimal offence the ary to be gay.

'I HID BEG GAY THE ROYAL NAVY FOR 20 YEARS, THEN MY FIRST LOVE DIED OF AIDS 2 DAYS BEFORE I LEFT'BEFORE THE BAN 2000, BEG LGBTQ+ THE ARY WAS CRIMAL AND FORMER LITENANT COMMANR PATRICK LYSTER-TODD HAD TO HI HIS SEXUALY FOR S WHICH ALMOST LED HIM TO TAKE HIS OWN LIFEGETWTLONDONBOOKMARKSHARECOMMENTSNEWSBYMATT SPIVEYCONTENT EDOR11:05, 1 DEC 2022UPDATED11:35, 1 DEC 2022BOOKMARKPATRICK EXPLAS HOW LED A KD OF DOUBLE LIFE WHEN HE WAS YOUNGERSIGN UP FOR NEWS AND FEATUR OM OUR DIVERSE MUNI MORE NEWSLETTERS SUBSCRIBEINVALID EMAILSOMETHG WENT WRONG, PLEASE TRY AGA LATER.MORE NEWSLETTERSWE E YOUR SIGN-UP TO PROVI NTENT WAYS YOU’VE NSENTED TO AND IMPROVE OUR UNRSTANDG OF YOU. THIS MAY CLU ADVERTS OM AND THIRD PARTI BASED ON OUR KNOWLEDGE OF YOU. MORE THANK YOU FOR SUBSCRIBG!WE HAVE MORE NEWSLETTERSSHOW ME SEE OURPRIVACY NOTICE SEE OURPRIVACY NOTICE&TIM;GROUP 28 SIGN UP FOR NEWS AND FEATUR OM OUR DIVERSE MUNI INVALID EMAILSOMETHG WENT WRONG, PLEASE TRY AGA LATER.SIGN UPNO THANKS, CLOSEWE E YOUR SIGN-UP TO PROVI NTENT WAYS YOU’VE NSENTED TO AND IMPROVE OUR UNRSTANDG OF YOU. THIS MAY CLU ADVERTS OM AND THIRD PARTI BASED ON OUR KNOWLEDGE OF YOU. MORE &TIM;GROUP 28THANK YOU FOR SUBSCRIBG!

The ban on gay people servg the ary meant the litenant manr spent a fearg imprisonment. As soon as was lifted he sisted on speakg out – whatever the st * gay royal navy *

After leavg the ary Patrick set up Gay Men's Health Portsmouth, volunteered at the rintial un of London's first centre for people wh HIV/AIDs lled Lighthoe, where he provid palliative to the termally ill young men his re.

He worked rtrants, gay bars and even TV, all the while volunteerg and mpaigng for LGBTQ+ rights, Patrick chaired Rank Outsirs who worked wh Stonewall throughout the 1990s to get the ban of LGBTQ+ ary personnel the Armed Forc lifted.

I'M A BRISH ROYAL NAVY OFFICER — AND I'M GAY. I FEEL LIKE I'VE HAD TO WORK TWICE AS HARD AS MY STRAIGHT PEERS.

The ary ban, which was lifted 2000, meant that gay people were dishonourably discharged and sometim, stripped of medals. * gay royal navy *

Followg the turbulent years Patrick's life, Craig Jon, a Litenant Commanr of the Navy who me out as gay on the day the ban was lifted, me up wh the ia of wrg an anthology of stori of the LGBTQ+ ary personnel who had been left behd. Craig Jon, a Litenant Commanr of the Navy who me out as gay on the day the ban was lifted, me up wh the ia of wrg an anthology of stori of the LGBTQ+ ary personnel who had been left behd.

GAY ROYAL NAVY OFFICER OUTED AND MA TO FEEL ‘SUB-HUMAN’ WS £47,000 PAYOUT

The Royal Navy and Royal Mar have been named as one of the UK’s top employers for their mment to lbian, gay, bi-sexual and transgenr staff. * gay royal navy *

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an aerial view of royal navy officers walkgThe wrer is gay and the Royal O'Connor - PA Imag / Getty ImagI joed the Royal Navy three years ago and me out as gay to my fellow officers. Dpe the Royal Navy's homophobic history, the other officers accepted I still felt the need to ph myself harr than most to prove gay men aren't 's note: Insir has verified the inty of the wrer, but they asked to rema anonymo to reta their my 25th birthday, I ma a life-changg cisn: I joed the Royal Navy as a warfare officer.

RISHI SUNAK APOLOGIS TO LGBT VETERANS FOR PAST ARMED FORC GAY BAN

A retired Royal Navy litenant manr has said that as a gay woman the Brish Armed Forc and she was forced to live a "double life".  * gay royal navy *

Not long after, I ma another bold cisn: I me out as gay to my fellow that, one thought repeated my head: "Don't let them thk gays are weak. As motivatg as the thought was, I later realized I was puttg myself a box that no one else out as gay the Royal Navy went surprisgly smoothlyWhen I joed the Navy three years ago, I already had a gree social scienc and secured my dream job.

Dpe 68% of the public opposg the ban 1999, a survey of ary personnel the mid-'90s found that 95% of rponnts said they would prefer not to serve alongsi homosexuals, the BBC ary has bee much more welg sce then.

GAY WOMAN SPEAKS OUT ABOUT HER ‘DOUBLE LIFE’ SERVG THE ROYAL NAVY

Royal Navy begs actively enuragg gays to enlist and pledg to make life easier when they do, five years after Bra lifted s ban on gays ary; navy says has asked Stonewall, group that lobbi for gay rights, to help velop better strategi for recg and retag gay men and lbians, possibly by advertisg gay mgaz and newspapers; new effort ntu pattern of changg official attus navy datg to 1999, when European urt led that Bra's ban on gays ary vlated European human-rights laws; gays Brish tary are subject to same l of sexual nduct as heterosexuals: no touchg, no kissg, no flntg of sexualy; spe change policy, relatively few gay men and lbians already ary have e out (M) * gay royal navy *

Origally, was feared that the arrival of gays to the ary would create an " vers them" mdset, disptg the uny required for operatnal effectivens. Rictor Norton, at his webse Homosexualy Eighteenth-Century England, has llected an imprsive number of primary sourc, though few reference sailors.

BRISH SOLDIERS SACKED FOR BEG GAY N GET THEIR MEDALS BACK

Somethg that be clear Norton's work is that there was ltle or no legal distctn at the time between those who engaged a sgle same-sex act, those who were exclively homosexual, and anyone who fell between. In his A Queer History of the Uned Stat, Michael Bronski pots out that the very term 'homosexual' wasn't vented until 1869 'to help nstct a narrative around a person fed by his or her same-sex sexual sir and actns.

NEW COURSE BY ROYAL NAVY: A CAMPAIGN TO REC GAYS

We nnot say that sailors who engaged homosexual acts intified as homosexual, nor n we say that others fed them as such before they were nvicted. Brish society believed that a lack of accs to women gave rise to homosexualy, and there was perhaps no place the eighteenth century so exclively male as the navy.

' Today we would regnize the facts as irrelevant to the act self, but eighteenth century law, a sgle homosexual act was equated wh beg exclively homosexual. Rodger argued his book The Woon World: An Anatomy of the Geian Navy that acts of homosexualy were not as mon the mid-eighteenth century Royal Navy as many assume:. Consirg that the navy oped up thoands of young men for months on end whout accs to women, is surprisg how few homosexual cints rulted prosecutn.

Wh the threat of ath hangg over their heads, the unlikelihood of fdg a man wh the same sexual clatns, and the very real chance of tectn, even those men wh homosexual leangs faced many obstacl to actually engagg the act.

NAVY CHIEFS ORRED SECRET PURGE OF GAY SAILORS

Early the eighteenth century, the famo Puranil preacher Cotton Mather ma the nnectn between an terveng God and homosexual acts among sailors:.

For what n be seen as a victim-ls crime (at least s of nsensual homosexual acts) officers would unrstandably be reluctant to prosecute seafarers.

Rodger argu that homosexualy and homosexual acts were almost entirely absent the navy and treated wh difference, while Gilbert believed to be unmon but unniably prent and treated wh dranian btaly. He believed that fear of beg pated as a homosexual stutn motivated officers to be overzealo punishments when they were forced to nont them urt.

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