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Contents:
- HOW TO DISCREETLY FD OUT IF SOMEONE YOU KNOW IS GAY
- CAN SOMEONE BE HOMOSEXUAL AND NOT GAY?
- I LIKE GAY MALE PORN, BUT GAY MEN REAL LIFE EAK ME OUT.
HOW TO DISCREETLY FD OUT IF SOMEONE YOU KNOW IS GAY
Someone's sexualy is personal, so 's important to rpect their privacy. However, you might want to know if a person is gay bee you're terted datg them or want to support them as a iend. Beg open wh them n be... * someone who looks gay but isn't *
So when we therapists are nonted wh male clients, often married on, who e to wh ep nflicts about their sexual attractn to other men, we often fd that they are willg to e the word “homosexual, ” but chew the “gay” label. Bee “gay” impli an embracg of the gay liftyle — gay bars, gay pri paras, perhaps multiple sex partners, or even anonymo sex. Unfortunately, much of our natn’s polics have long exacerbated the problem as well, shamg and vilifyg homosexualy, leadg legns of men stgglg wh sexual inty to ternalize their homophobia.
For example, gay men the Mormon fah are moral nflict. Durg the’90s, I beme a “gay-affirmative therapist. I warned them of the pfalls of keepg their sexual orientatn secret: a life of creased prsn, pursug a secret life the gay unrground wh the danger of beg ught, how attemptg to supprs urg n often e them to bee even more obssed wh them.
Beg a gay man, I was tryg to brg them to where I was at.
CAN SOMEONE BE HOMOSEXUAL AND NOT GAY?
Durg this time, a man don’t see himself as gay, only homosexual.
I LIKE GAY MALE PORN, BUT GAY MEN REAL LIFE EAK ME OUT.
The term gay is too affirmative, and they are not ready to accept .