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fill-le="nonzero"></path></svg></a><div data-orientatn="horizontal" role="separator" class="wpds-c-dbVHzF wpds-c-dbVHzF-hDkAcj-variant-flt"></div></div></div><div class="article-body" data-qa="article-body"><p data-ttid="drop-p-letter" data-el="text" class="wpds-c-cYdRxM wpds-c-cYdRxM-iPJLV-css overriStyl font-py" dir="null">“Celebrate what?” I asked.</p></div><div class="article-body" data-qa="article-body"><p data-ttid="drop-p-letter" data-el="text" class="wpds-c-cYdRxM wpds-c-cYdRxM-iPJLV-css overriStyl font-py" dir="null">He cked his head to one si. “You’re here!” he cheered. “You fally ma .”</p></div><div class="article-body" data-qa="article-body"><p data-ttid="drop-p-letter" data-el="text" class="wpds-c-cYdRxM wpds-c-cYdRxM-iPJLV-css overriStyl font-py" dir="null">I had been on a long, gelg b ri up om Washgton DC to his apartment New York. It was already 9:45 p.m on a Friday last summer. I felt sore and had jt taken a shower to rid the b experience om my sk. I lghed and, holdg the towel around my waist one hand and the shot glass the other, I looked at . “What’s ?”</p></div></div><div></div><div class="article-body" data-qa="article-body"><p data-ttid="drop-p-letter" data-el="text" class="wpds-c-cYdRxM wpds-c-cYdRxM-iPJLV-css overriStyl font-py" dir="null">“G!” I thought he said, more excedly than he should have. G mak me sick. “That’s not really my thg,” I said. Then he pouted, illy and even adorably: “But I ma jt for .”</p></div><div class="article-body" data-qa="article-body"><div class="cb dn db-ns" data-qa="article-body-ad" data-ttid="article-body-ad-sktop"><div aria-hidn="te" class="hi-for-prt relative flex jtify-center ntent-box ems-center b bh mb-md mt-none pt-lg pb-lg" style="m-height:250px;borr-top-lor:;borr-bottom-lor:"><div class="center absolute w-100 borr-box" style="top:"><div class="dib gray-dark pl-xs pr-xs font-sans-serif light font-xxxxs lh-md" style="--primary-borr-lor:"></div></div><div data-ttid="placeholr-box" class="w-100 h-100 absolute flex flex-lumn jtify-center borr-box bg-offwhe" style="width:300px;height:250px"><div class="flex flex-lumn jtify-center font-sans-serif center font-xxs light gray-dark lh-md"><div>Advertisement</div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="article-body" data-qa="article-body"><div class="cb db dn-ns" data-qa="article-body-ad" data-ttid="article-body-ad-mobile"><div aria-hidn="te" class="hi-for-prt relative flex jtify-center ntent-box ems-center b bh mb-md mt-sm pt-sm pb-sm" style="m-height:250px;borr-top-lor:;borr-bottom-lor:"><div class="center absolute w-100 borr-box" style="top:"><div class="dib gray-dark pl-xs pr-xs font-sans-serif light font-xxxxs lh-md" style="--primary-borr-lor:"></div></div><div data-ttid="placeholr-box" class="w-100 h-100 absolute flex flex-lumn jtify-center borr-box bg-offwhe" style="width:300px;height:250px"><div class="flex flex-lumn jtify-center font-sans-serif center font-xxs light gray-dark lh-md"></div></div></div></div></div><div class="article-body" data-qa="article-body"><p data-ttid="drop-p-letter" data-el="text" class="wpds-c-cYdRxM wpds-c-cYdRxM-iPJLV-css overriStyl font-py" dir="null">So I drank and was a b sharp but really lic, like tart watermelon. “You n hardly taste the g,” I said.</p></div><div class="article-body" data-qa="article-body"><p data-ttid="drop-p-letter" data-el="text" class="wpds-c-cYdRxM wpds-c-cYdRxM-iPJLV-css overriStyl font-py" dir="null">“What g?”</p></div><div class="article-body" data-qa="article-body"><p data-ttid="drop-p-letter" data-el="text" class="wpds-c-cYdRxM wpds-c-cYdRxM-iPJLV-css overriStyl font-py" dir="null">“You said there was g.”</p></div><div class="article-body" data-qa="article-body"><p data-ttid="drop-p-letter" data-el="text" class="wpds-c-cYdRxM wpds-c-cYdRxM-iPJLV-css overriStyl font-py" dir="null">He lghed. “I said G.” He meant GHB, gamma-hydroxybutyric acid, monly known as the date-rape dg. Later me several more dgggs, as he held Gatora up to my limp lips wh who-knows-what mixed . I spent the weekend — about 60 hours — semi-nsc and didn’t leave his apartment until Monday morng. Sometim I thk I never left his apartment, that someone who merely looks and sounds like me walked out.</p></div><div class="article-body" data-qa="article-body"><p data-ttid="drop-p-letter" data-el="text" class="wpds-c-cYdRxM wpds-c-cYdRxM-iPJLV-css overriStyl font-py" dir="null">I had received anal sex twice my life before that night. By weekend’s end, was 17 tim, acrdg to my fog-of-war unt. Ey squeezed shut, the tally was the only thg I foced on at tim — like a tickg clock a solary nfement cell. Every addn to the tally meant I was one moment closer to the end. He moved out soon afterward, which helped erase the existence of that place for me.</p></div><div class="article-body" data-qa="article-body"><div class="cb dn db-ns" data-qa="article-body-ad" data-ttid="article-body-ad-sktop"><div aria-hidn="te" class="hi-for-prt relative flex jtify-center ntent-box ems-center b bh mb-md mt-none pt-lg pb-lg" style="m-height:250px;borr-top-lor:;borr-bottom-lor:"><div class="center absolute w-100 borr-box" style="top:"><div class="dib gray-dark pl-xs pr-xs font-sans-serif light font-xxxxs lh-md" style="--primary-borr-lor:"></div></div><div data-ttid="placeholr-box" class="w-100 h-100 absolute flex flex-lumn jtify-center borr-box bg-offwhe" style="width:300px;height:250px"><div class="flex flex-lumn jtify-center font-sans-serif center font-xxs light gray-dark lh-md"><div>Advertisement</div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="article-body" data-qa="article-body"><div class="cb db dn-ns" data-qa="article-body-ad" data-ttid="article-body-ad-mobile"><div aria-hidn="te" class="hi-for-prt relative flex jtify-center ntent-box ems-center b bh mb-md mt-sm pt-sm pb-sm" style="m-height:250px;borr-top-lor:;borr-bottom-lor:"><div class="center absolute w-100 borr-box" style="top:"><div class="dib gray-dark pl-xs pr-xs font-sans-serif light font-xxxxs lh-md" style="--primary-borr-lor:"></div></div><div data-ttid="placeholr-box" class="w-100 h-100 absolute flex flex-lumn jtify-center borr-box bg-offwhe" style="width:300px;height:250px"><div class="flex flex-lumn jtify-center font-sans-serif center font-xxs light gray-dark lh-md"></div></div></div></div></div><div class="article-body" data-qa="article-body"><p data-ttid="drop-p-letter" data-el="text" class="wpds-c-cYdRxM wpds-c-cYdRxM-iPJLV-css overriStyl font-py" dir="null">I was raped. I had met him a few weeks earlier at a hoe party, and we had h off. He was handsome: 30, well-built, tall wh long black hair, a surfer’s lgh, and great taste “X-Men” (Gamb). He was not some lechero old man. He was not a sexually reprsed loser. There was nothg about him that was “rapey” (a word I tt). The sex self was — I n’t really say was “good,” bee that’s far too moral of a word and far more than he serv, but was highly skilled. He knew exactly what he was dog, exactly how to stimulate me. What he didn’t know was when to listen to me sayg “no,” when to stop, when to realize that my kickg and punchg and shovg and screamg and wrhg was not jt some sick roleplay while he blasted Lady Gaga’s “I Like It Rough.” He vered my sobbg mouth wh his hands. He hhed me and lled me “sexy,” as “You got this, sexy.”</p></div><div class="article-body" data-qa="article-body"><p data-ttid="drop-p-letter" data-el="text" class="wpds-c-cYdRxM wpds-c-cYdRxM-iPJLV-css overriStyl font-py" dir="null">When I wrote about <a href=">men who are raped by women</a>, for Details magaze 2004, ught the eye of Bill O’Reilly, who discsed on his show. “If you’re lucky enough as a guy to have some girl e on to you that manner,” he said, “but you don’t want to reciprote, you stand up and you leave, unls the woman is 240 pounds and tackl you. The man is tradnally stronger and better equipped to leave the room.” There is a great disbelief out there, spe the numbers — om the CDC! the NIH! the Jtice Department! — about how <a href=">1 33 men</a> have experienced “a pleted or attempted rape,” or <a href=">12.9 percent</a> have been sexually asslted. Mostly ’s by men they know. (I have a uple dozen mutual Facebook iends wh my assailant.)</p></div><div class="article-body" data-qa="article-body"><p data-ttid="drop-p-letter" data-el="text" class="wpds-c-cYdRxM wpds-c-cYdRxM-iPJLV-css overriStyl font-py" dir="null">Some people still see rape acrdg to the old cliche: vile men draggg nocent women to dark alleys and then btalizg them. As we are fally learng, the realy is much more plited than the nventnal-wisdom rtoon. Sometim those women experience asm, which n be psychologilly vastatg. I was erect for much of my rape (at least the parts for which I was awake, but probably other parts, too); my assailant knew how to stimulate the physlogil rponse of an erectn — as opposed to the emotnal or psychologil rponse — even if I was cryg or actively tryg to thk about unsexy thgs. I wasn’t handcuffed or tied up, but was a versn of dissociated shock. The visible, immeasurable shackl of such a vlatn are immense.</p></div><div class="article-body" data-qa="article-body"><div class="cb dn db-ns" data-qa="article-body-ad" data-ttid="article-body-ad-sktop"><div aria-hidn="te" class="hi-for-prt relative flex jtify-center ntent-box ems-center b bh mb-md mt-none pt-lg pb-lg" style="m-height:250px;borr-top-lor:;borr-bottom-lor:"><div class="center absolute w-100 borr-box" style="top:"><div class="dib gray-dark pl-xs pr-xs font-sans-serif light font-xxxxs lh-md" style="--primary-borr-lor:"></div></div><div data-ttid="placeholr-box" class="w-100 h-100 absolute flex flex-lumn jtify-center borr-box bg-offwhe" style="width:300px;height:250px"><div class="flex flex-lumn jtify-center font-sans-serif center font-xxs light gray-dark lh-md"><div>Advertisement</div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="article-body" data-qa="article-body"><div class="cb db dn-ns" data-qa="article-body-ad" data-ttid="article-body-ad-mobile"><div aria-hidn="te" class="hi-for-prt relative flex jtify-center ntent-box ems-center b bh mb-md mt-sm pt-sm pb-sm" style="m-height:250px;borr-top-lor:;borr-bottom-lor:"><div class="center absolute w-100 borr-box" style="top:"><div class="dib gray-dark pl-xs pr-xs font-sans-serif light font-xxxxs lh-md" style="--primary-borr-lor:"></div></div><div data-ttid="placeholr-box" class="w-100 h-100 absolute flex flex-lumn jtify-center borr-box bg-offwhe" style="width:300px;height:250px"><div class="flex flex-lumn jtify-center font-sans-serif center font-xxs light gray-dark lh-md"></div></div></div></div></div><div class="article-body" data-qa="article-body"><p data-ttid="drop-p-letter" data-el="text" class="wpds-c-cYdRxM wpds-c-cYdRxM-iPJLV-css overriStyl font-py" dir="null">From the bed, I uld see the ont door, but was away and I thought, <em>No, I won’t be able to get to the door, unlock , open and pe before he beats the hell out of me</em>. And what was my optn, anyway? To n naked and groggy through his halls and down Nth Avenue? It’s amazg how much fear n make you want — really want — to appease a ptor.</p></div><div class="article-body" data-qa="article-body"><p data-ttid="drop-p-letter" data-el="text" class="wpds-c-cYdRxM wpds-c-cYdRxM-iPJLV-css overriStyl font-py" dir="null">Rape may be as bad as murr, but, like murr, there are many kds of rape. War-crime rape, date rape, rape as a rual for pledgg a aterny, spoal rape, ct, rape wh known assailants, rape wh unknown assailants, police officers sodomizg a man wh a broomstick. Rape ntas multus. Any discsn of rape is gog to require as a culture to get much more imagative about . (Helpfully, the Jtice Department jt <a href=">expand s fn</a> to clu men.) Every time we discs rape as if ’s only men draggg women to alleys, we make the act of reportg all the more unfortable, burnsome and alienatg for women beg raped by their boyiends, or stunts beg raped by their teachers, or men beg raped by women, or men beg raped by men. It is an act of theft on top of an act of rape.</p></div><div class="article-body" data-qa="article-body"><p data-ttid="drop-p-letter" data-el="text" class="wpds-c-cYdRxM wpds-c-cYdRxM-iPJLV-css overriStyl font-py" dir="null">* * *</p></div><div class="article-body" data-qa="article-body"><div class="cb dn db-ns" data-qa="article-body-ad" data-ttid="article-body-ad-sktop"><div aria-hidn="te" class="hi-for-prt relative flex jtify-center ntent-box ems-center b bh mb-md mt-none pt-lg pb-lg" style="m-height:250px;borr-top-lor:;borr-bottom-lor:"><div class="center absolute w-100 borr-box" style="top:"><div class="dib gray-dark pl-xs pr-xs font-sans-serif light font-xxxxs lh-md" style="--primary-borr-lor:"></div></div><div data-ttid="placeholr-box" class="w-100 h-100 absolute flex flex-lumn jtify-center borr-box bg-offwhe" style="width:300px;height:250px"><div class="flex flex-lumn jtify-center font-sans-serif center font-xxs light gray-dark lh-md"><div>Advertisement</div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="article-body" data-qa="article-body"><div class="cb db dn-ns" data-qa="article-body-ad" data-ttid="article-body-ad-mobile"><div aria-hidn="te" class="hi-for-prt relative flex jtify-center ntent-box ems-center b bh mb-md mt-sm pt-sm pb-sm" style="m-height:250px;borr-top-lor:;borr-bottom-lor:"><div class="center absolute w-100 borr-box" style="top:"><div class="dib gray-dark pl-xs pr-xs font-sans-serif light font-xxxxs lh-md" style="--primary-borr-lor:"></div></div><div data-ttid="placeholr-box" class="w-100 h-100 absolute flex flex-lumn jtify-center borr-box bg-offwhe" style="width:300px;height:250px"><div class="flex flex-lumn jtify-center font-sans-serif center font-xxs light gray-dark lh-md"></div></div></div></div></div><div class="article-body" data-qa="article-body"><p data-ttid="drop-p-letter" data-el="text" class="wpds-c-cYdRxM wpds-c-cYdRxM-iPJLV-css overriStyl font-py" dir="null"><strong>What’s shockg about this limed perspective is, sadly, how much opportuny there is to see the full spectm of rape our culture.</strong> Not only are dozens of lleg currently embroiled sex asslt vtigatns — cludg Jam Madison Universy, which jt punished three rapists wh <a href=">“expulsn after graduatn”</a> (or, as a iend noted, jt “graduatn”). There are the tw revulsns of <a href=">Dov Charney</a> and Terry Richardson. New York magaze put Richardson on s ver last month wh the qutn “<a href=">Is Terry Richardson an Artist or a Predator?</a>” as if a person nnot be both. There’s self-scribed “Ve star” Brtany Furlan on the red rpet for Soap Opera Network’s Daytime Emmys verage tellg a male actor “We’re gog to get you away om before we rape you.” It’s a world where Gee Will realistilly n fend <a href=">wrg</a> that sexual asslt survivors “make victimhood a veted stat that nfers privileg.” The Web se <a href="></a>, which tracks Republin blunrs on rape, is now s eighth edn.</p></div><div class="article-body" data-qa="article-body"><p data-ttid="drop-p-letter" data-el="text" class="wpds-c-cYdRxM wpds-c-cYdRxM-iPJLV-css overriStyl font-py" dir="null">When male victims are discsed, ’s almost always about children — the Sandky stori and all their perverse variants. For adults, or out of prison, male-on-male rape is mostly thought of as an attack on a heterosexual victim, rape addg homophobic sult to jury. Yet rape is, ironilly, always on the tongu of men. “I’m gonna rape you Halo!” “This Monday morng is rapg me.” “Paper jam? Ugh, I wanna rape this prter.”</p></div><div class="article-body" data-qa="article-body"><p data-ttid="drop-p-letter" data-el="text" class="wpds-c-cYdRxM wpds-c-cYdRxM-iPJLV-css overriStyl font-py" dir="null">The terrible thg about beg a gay man is that is pennt on exprsn. If you’re straight and have never had sex, you’re a virg. If you’re gay and have never had sex, you’re nfed. <em>How n you know you’re gay unls you’ve tried ?</em> In the wake of my nightmare — and all the subsequent nightmar and daymar that have e wh — I wanted nothg to do wh sex. But what is a gay man who don’t have sex? I wasn’t even sure what I beme.</p></div><div class="article-body" data-qa="article-body"><div data-qa="article-image" class="hi-for-prt"><div style="m-height:358px"></div></div></div><div class="article-body" data-qa="article-body"><p data-ttid="drop-p-letter" data-el="text" class="wpds-c-cYdRxM wpds-c-cYdRxM-iPJLV-css overriStyl font-py" dir="null">When I fally eed myself om that apartment — I flatter myself; the tth is, he was done wh me — I took the next tra out of town. I wanted to be as far away as I uld. From the lobby of Unn Statn D.C., I sobbed to my phone and told a iend what happened. He might have saved my life by urgg me to a b to Whman-Walker Clic, where <a href=">I began a 30-day anti-HIV dg regimen</a> (I am HIV-negative, thank God). In the exam, when the nurse asked me to exhale eply, I uld smell his sweat and semen on my breath, and I began cryg all over aga, bee I didn’t remember givg — or beg forced to give — fellat, and sudnly I realized there was a whole extra circle of Hell, hidn horrors done to my unnsc body wh no way of ever knowg fully what happened.</p></div><div class="article-body" data-qa="article-body"><div class="cb dn db-ns" data-qa="article-body-ad" data-ttid="article-body-ad-sktop"><div aria-hidn="te" class="hi-for-prt relative flex jtify-center ntent-box ems-center b bh mb-md mt-none pt-lg pb-lg" style="m-height:250px;borr-top-lor:;borr-bottom-lor:"><div class="center absolute w-100 borr-box" style="top:"><div class="dib gray-dark pl-xs pr-xs font-sans-serif light font-xxxxs lh-md" style="--primary-borr-lor:"></div></div><div data-ttid="placeholr-box" class="w-100 h-100 absolute flex flex-lumn jtify-center borr-box bg-offwhe" style="width:300px;height:250px"><div class="flex flex-lumn jtify-center font-sans-serif center font-xxs light gray-dark lh-md"><div>Advertisement</div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="article-body" data-qa="article-body"><div class="cb db dn-ns" data-qa="article-body-ad" data-ttid="article-body-ad-mobile"><div aria-hidn="te" class="hi-for-prt relative flex jtify-center ntent-box ems-center b bh mb-md mt-sm pt-sm pb-sm" style="m-height:250px;borr-top-lor:;borr-bottom-lor:"><div class="center absolute w-100 borr-box" style="top:"><div class="dib gray-dark pl-xs pr-xs font-sans-serif light font-xxxxs lh-md" style="--primary-borr-lor:"></div></div><div data-ttid="placeholr-box" class="w-100 h-100 absolute flex flex-lumn jtify-center borr-box bg-offwhe" style="width:300px;height:250px"><div class="flex flex-lumn jtify-center font-sans-serif center font-xxs light gray-dark lh-md"></div></div></div></div></div><div class="article-body" data-qa="article-body"><p data-ttid="drop-p-letter" data-el="text" class="wpds-c-cYdRxM wpds-c-cYdRxM-iPJLV-css overriStyl font-py" dir="null">I wasn’t gog to wre any of this. But even given all those statistics, I’ve never heard a story told om my perspective, and certaly never expected to be the one tellg . I had e to accept my life as a kd of ongog closet: a secret room which a playthg lled Richard — lled “sexy” — broken by some zealo child. But the untold stori are precisely the most important stori to tell. The more stori that are told, the ls they n all be the same.</p></div><div class="article-body" data-qa="article-body"><p data-ttid="drop-p-letter" data-el="text" class="wpds-c-cYdRxM wpds-c-cYdRxM-iPJLV-css overriStyl font-py" dir="null">* * *</p></div><div class="article-body" data-qa="article-body"><p data-ttid="drop-p-letter" data-el="text" class="wpds-c-cYdRxM wpds-c-cYdRxM-iPJLV-css overriStyl font-py" dir="null"><strong>I know how dumb and selfish and even endangerg this n sound, but I don’t want to charge my attacker (not everyone do)</strong><strong>.</strong> After the JMU asslt, the survivor <a href=">told</a> the Huffgton Post that “It was kd of hard for me to al wh. I jt tried to dimish the suatn. I didn’t want to brg up, didn’t want to talk about .” That ronated wh me. I don’t want anythg to do wh him. I don’t want him my life, even a urtroom. I kept imagg, perhaps too cematilly, that he’d toss off some hntg quip as he was hled away. I won’t let him. I won’t even let him have a name now. He’s a namels mon who has taken so much that I don’t want to give him even the possibily of takg more.</p></div><div class="article-body" data-qa="article-body"><div class="cb dn db-ns" data-qa="article-body-ad" data-ttid="article-body-ad-sktop"><div aria-hidn="te" class="hi-for-prt relative flex jtify-center ntent-box ems-center b bh mb-md mt-none pt-lg pb-lg" style="m-height:250px;borr-top-lor:;borr-bottom-lor:"><div class="center absolute w-100 borr-box" style="top:"><div class="dib gray-dark pl-xs pr-xs font-sans-serif light font-xxxxs lh-md" style="--primary-borr-lor:"></div></div><div data-ttid="placeholr-box" class="w-100 h-100 absolute flex flex-lumn jtify-center borr-box bg-offwhe" style="width:300px;height:250px"><div class="flex flex-lumn jtify-center font-sans-serif center font-xxs light gray-dark lh-md"><div>Advertisement</div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="article-body" data-qa="article-body"><div class="cb db dn-ns" data-qa="article-body-ad" data-ttid="article-body-ad-mobile"><div aria-hidn="te" class="hi-for-prt relative flex jtify-center ntent-box ems-center b bh mb-md mt-sm pt-sm pb-sm" style="m-height:250px;borr-top-lor:;borr-bottom-lor:"><div class="center absolute w-100 borr-box" style="top:"><div class="dib gray-dark pl-xs pr-xs font-sans-serif light font-xxxxs lh-md" style="--primary-borr-lor:"></div></div><div data-ttid="placeholr-box" class="w-100 h-100 absolute flex flex-lumn jtify-center borr-box bg-offwhe" style="width:300px;height:250px"><div class="flex flex-lumn jtify-center font-sans-serif center font-xxs light gray-dark lh-md"></div></div></div></div></div><div class="article-body" data-qa="article-body"><p data-ttid="drop-p-letter" data-el="text" class="wpds-c-cYdRxM wpds-c-cYdRxM-iPJLV-css overriStyl font-py" dir="null">Beg asslted changed sex for me. The total absence of timacy durg that horrible weekend rtored my need for . In the world of hook-up apps, where you n know the size of a paramour’s penis before you know his name — if you ever learn his name — sex be worse than sual, worse than rnal; be transactnal. Usg Grdr and s ilk, men orr guys over to their apartments as if they were specialty pizzas.</p></div><div class="article-body" data-qa="article-body"><p data-ttid="drop-p-letter" data-el="text" class="wpds-c-cYdRxM wpds-c-cYdRxM-iPJLV-css overriStyl font-py" dir="null">Afterward, the 30-day anti-HIV dg regimen weirdly helped thgs. I was certaly not about to be sexually active that time. It enabled a kd of monasticism. My new le beme that I didn’t want to have sex wh anyone I wouldn’t brg to a dner party. I recently spent an eveng wh a guy that peaked wh hand-holdg. 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That's pretty easy to wrap our mds around that ia, but when (get ?) to our <a href=" target="_blank">genalia</a>, not so much. Anyone who's sexually active or <a href=" target="_blank">masturbat</a> knows that every asm is like a snowflake — each one feels a b different. While some may feel so tensely Earth-shatterg that they qualify as a seven-pl on the sexual Richter sle, others n feel short and sweet — and both are totally normal. </p><div><div class="ConsumerMarketgUnThemedWrapper-iUTMTf jssHut nsumer-marketg-un nsumer-marketg-un--article-mid-ntent" role="prentatn" aria-hidn="te"><div class="nsumer-marketg-un__slot nsumer-marketg-un__slot--article-mid-ntent nsumer-marketg-un__slot---ntent"></div><div class="journey-un"></div></div></div><p>Chanc are, somewhere your sexual history, you may have experienced an tense <a href=" target="_blank">asm</a> that lasted longer than ual. Well, there's a name for that more drawn-out extreme feelg of sexual energy, and 's lled an <strong>extend asm</strong>. Not to be nfed wh <a data-offer-url=" class="external-lk" data-event-click="{"element":"ExternalLk","outgogURL":"" href=" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">multiple asms</a> durg one sexual experience, this elongated feelg of climaxg qualifi as one credibly sensual, long asm.</p><p>Though may sound timidatg, havg an extend asm don't require much om you or your <a href=" target="_blank">partner</a> beyond unrstandg your body's <a data-offer-url=" class="external-lk" data-event-click="{"element":"ExternalLk","outgogURL":"" href=" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">sexual pleasure pots</a> a ltle better. To get the full spe of how to accs this whole-body sensatn, we tapped a few sexual wellns experts on everythg there is to know about extend asms — you're wele.</p><div role="headg" aria-level="3" class="headg-h3"><strong>In This Story:</strong></div><ul><li><a href="#what-is-extend-asm">What Is an Extend Orgasm?</a></li><li><a href="#who-n-have-extend-asm">Who Can Have an Extend Orgasm?</a></li><li><a href="#how-to-have-extend-asm">How to Achieve an Extend Orgasm</a></li></ul><hr/><div role="headg" aria-level="3" class="headg-h3"><strong>Meet the Experts</strong></div><ul><li><a data-offer-url=" class="external-lk" data-event-click="{"element":"ExternalLk","outgogURL":"" href=" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank"><strong>Lee Phillips</strong></a>: A New York-based psychotherapist and <a data-offer-url=" class="external-lk" data-event-click="{"element":"ExternalLk","outgogURL":"" href=" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">Amerin Associatn of Sexualy Edutors, Counselors, and Therapists-certified</a> sex and upl therapist.</li><li><a data-offer-url=" class="external-lk" data-event-click="{"element":"ExternalLk","outgogURL":"" href=" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank"><strong>Casey Tanner</strong></a>: A Chigo-based, AASECT-certified sex therapist, founr of <a data-offer-url=" class="external-lk" data-event-click="{"element":"ExternalLk","outgogURL":"" href=" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">The Expansive Group</a>, and sexual wellns expert for <a data-offer-url=" class="external-lk" data-event-click="{"element":"ExternalLk","outgogURL":"" href=" rel="sponsored" target="_blank">Lelo</a>.</li><li><a data-offer-url=" class="external-lk" data-event-click="{"element":"ExternalLk","outgogURL":"" href=" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank"><strong>Moni Grover, MD</strong></a>: A New York Cy-based, double board-certified obstetrician-gynelogist and chief medil officer at <a data-offer-url=" class="external-lk" data-event-click="{"element":"ExternalLk","outgogURL":"" href=" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">VSPOT</a>.</li></ul><hr/><div style="outle:none" id="what-is-extend-asm" tabx="-1"><h2><strong>What Is an Extend Orgasm?</strong></h2></div><p>Simply put, extend asms have a slow build that leads to passnate, head-to-toe sensatns and a climactic "peak" that lasts longer than the typil asm. For reference, the typil female asm lasts anywhere om 20 sends to two mut, acrdg to rearch published <a href=" target="_blank"><em>Ckoslovenska Psychiatrie</em></a><em>,</em> a Czech Republic-based amic journal. "Extend asms do not peak and release quickly," says New York-based psychotherapist and Amerin Associatn of Sexualy Edutors, Counselors, and Therapists-certified sex and upl therapist <a data-offer-url=" class="external-lk" data-event-click="{"element":"ExternalLk","outgogURL":"" href=" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">Lee Phillips</a>. "The person holds off reachg asm for an extend amount of time by beg creative and buildg up to climax."</p><div class="Contaer-bkChBi byNLHx"></div><p>Acrdg to Chigo-based, AASECT-certified sex therapist <a data-offer-url=" class="external-lk" data-event-click="{"element":"ExternalLk","outgogURL":"" href=" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">Casey Tanner</a>, extend asms have longer-lastg physlogil and psychologil effects. "[One] goal of extend asms is to elongate the climax so as not to experience an energy crash as you might after a typil asm," she says.</p></div></div></div><div class="GridItem-buujkM fVLMby grid--em grid-layout__asi"><div class="StickyBoxWrapper-jfYB kNleGZ sticky-box"><div class="StickyBoxPrimary-dzWDWL cdhYoN sticky-box__primary"><div class="Contaer-bkChBi byNLHx"></div><div class="AdWrapper-dQtivb fZrssQ ad ad--rail"><div class="ad__slot ad__slot--rail" data-no-id="z4e"></div></div><div class="ConsumerMarketgUnThemedWrapper-iUTMTf jssHut nsumer-marketg-un nsumer-marketg-un--display-rail" role="prentatn" aria-hidn="te"><div class="nsumer-marketg-un__slot nsumer-marketg-un__slot--display-rail"></div><div class="journey-un"></div></div></div><div class="StickyBoxPlaceholr-grPmrg dxAvXx"></div></div></div></div><div class="RowWrapper-UmqTg HEhan full-bleed-ad row-mid-ntent-ad"><div class="StickyMidContentAdWrapper-fSBzwl drzyIa ad-stickymidntent"><div class="AdWrapper-dQtivb fZrssQ ad ad--mid-ntent should-hold-space"><div class="ad__slot ad__slot--mid-ntent" data-no-id="ijgdpt"></div></div></div></div><div class="GridWrapper-cAzTTK kHBDeH grid grid-margs grid-ems-2 ArticlePageChunksGrid-hfxa bjczjj grid-layout--adrail narrow wi-adrail"><div class="GridItem-buujkM stRKV grid--em grid-layout__ntent"><div class="BodyWrapper-kufPGa jWDLxT body body__ntaer article__body" data-journey-hook="client-ntent" data-ttid="BodyWrapper"><div class="body__ner-ntaer"><p>Tanner adds that this ia is often practiced more spirual sexual muni and ntexts, like <a href=" target="_blank">tantra</a>. That beg said, extend asms don't have to be tied to your spirualy, and you don't have to be a profsnal at tantric sex or other spirualy-foced asm techniqu orr to achieve one. A longer, stronger climax n easily be rporated to your sex life jt by experimentg (wh your boundari) wh foreplay, solo play, sexual terurse, or all of the above.</p><div style="outle:none" id="who-n-have-extend-asm" tabx="-1"><h2><strong>Who Can Have an Extend Orgasm?</strong></h2></div><p>New York Cy-based, double board-certified obstetrician-gynelogist <a data-offer-url=" class="external-lk" data-event-click="{"element":"ExternalLk","outgogURL":"" href=" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">Moni Grover, MD</a> says there isn't an exact answer to this qutn. "There is not enough rearch to know if everyone and anyone n have an extend asm but seems as though people of all genrs and sexuali n have extend asms," she says.</p><div class="AdWrapper-dQtivb fZrssQ ad ad---ntent"><div class="ad__slot ad__slot---ntent" data-no-id="3sk8kv"></div></div><p>We do have some good news: regardls of whether you have a penis or a <a href=" target="_blank">vulva</a>, all of our experts agree that most people n achieve an extend asm wh a b of practice (which we'll get to a send). However, Tanner do note that, overall, your body do e to play. "Some people may fd easier or more attaable to achieve extend asms than others," she says. Addnally, Tanner not that some people may not fd extend asms as pleasurable or excg as the "stant gratifitn" om a typil asm. "In fact, the energy crash (and subsequent rt or sleep) might actually be someone's motivatn to asm," she says.</p><div data-attr-viewport-monor="le-recirc" class="le-recirc-wrapper le-recirc-observer-target-1 viewport-monor-anchor"></div><p>Lee also pots out that those wh disabili may not be able to achieve asm. "Age, lack of sexual sire, and <a href=" target="_blank">mental health</a> may also play a signifint factor not beg able to have an extend asm," he adds.</p><div style="outle:none" id="how-to-have-extend-asm" tabx="-1"><h2><strong>How to Achieve an Extend Orgasm</strong></h2></div><p>Here's the thg: asms don't nfe to a "one size fs all" mentaly, so there isn't a sgular manver that'll always lead to an extend asm. There are, though, a few expert-approved sex tips you n implement to your next renzvo for a pleasure-enhanced experience that <em>uld</em> lead to one.</p><div role="headg" aria-level="3" class="headg-h3">Break a sweat. </div><p>Before you h the bedroom, Phillips not that an overall healthy liftyle n also impact your sexual well-beg, cludg the tensy of your climax. Rearch om the <a href=" target="_blank">Universy of Texas</a> prov that 20 mut of walkg or nng on a treadl creas heart rate and blood flow all ans, cludg the genals. Many of may associate creased blood flow as beneficial for those wh penis orr to have an erectn, but se you didn't know, the cloris works a siar way. "The cloris swells up wh blood, which helps stimulate the nerve endgs," says Dr. Grover.</p><div role="headg" aria-level="3" class="headg-h3">Relieve strs.</div><p>On top of regular exercise, Phillips suggts rporatg strs management orr to boost your libido, as chronic strs n lead to a lowered sex drive and negative effects on sexual functn, acrdg to rearch published by the <a href=" target="_blank"><em>Journal of Sex and Maral Therapy</em></a><em>.</em> He also remends avoidg <a href=" target="_blank">tobac</a> and lowerg your nsumptn of alhol, both of which n lower blood flow and, therefore, sex drive.</p><div role="headg" aria-level="3" class="headg-h3">Practice edgg solo. </div><p>When to actually <em>havg</em> an extend asm durg sex, both Phillips and Dr. Grover are fans of practicg edgg to build sexual tensn. "Let your partner touch and tantalize you until you're at the brk of climax whout lettg you tip over the edge," says Dr. Grover. 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ad-stickymidntent"><div class="AdWrapper-dQtivb fZrssQ ad ad--mid-ntent should-hold-space"><div class="ad__slot ad__slot--mid-ntent" data-no-id="jmugq"></div></div></div></div><div class="GridWrapper-cAzTTK kHBDeH grid grid-margs grid-ems-2 ArticlePageChunksGrid-hfxa bjczjj grid-layout--adrail narrow wi-adrail"><div class="GridItem-buujkM stRKV grid--em grid-layout__ntent"><div class="BodyWrapper-kufPGa jWDLxT body body__ntaer article__body" data-journey-hook="client-ntent" data-ttid="BodyWrapper"><div class="body__ner-ntaer"><p>Phillips adds that those wh a penis n practice edgg while masturbatg by strokg until they get to the pot of asm and then backg off before ejaculatg. "Do this for however long you like," he says. "This builds the anticipatn for a stronger asm." Folks wh a vulva n also practice edgg while masturbatg — jt stimulate your cloral area, G-spot, or both until you're about to asm, and then stop before you get there.</p><div role="headg" aria-level="3" class="headg-h3">Try kegal exercis. </div><p>Phillips also suggts rporatg pelvic floor mcle exercis, also known as kegel exercis, to your route. The <a data-offer-url=" class="external-lk" data-event-click="{"element":"ExternalLk","outgogURL":"" href=" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">Universy of Chigo</a> reports that the exercis n improve blood circulatn to the pelvic floor and vaga, which is helpful for creasg aroal for both penis and vulvas as well as lubritn for vulva owners. "The pelvic floor mcl, notably the puboccygs the pelvis are the mcl rponsible for ntractns durg asm," says Phillips. "As the mcl bee stronger, and when you clench and relax, you may have the abily to elongate the sensatn asms, and this is wh all genrs."</p><div role="headg" aria-level="3" class="headg-h3">Breathe.</div><p>Whether this is your first time tryg to have an extend asm or you've been down this road before, Tanner says the bt way to have md-blowg sex is to relax and stay prent at the moment." The typil asm is characterized by a physil tensn build-up and release, but an extend asm is characterized by tense sensatns, voluntary mcle ntractns, and a relaxed md and body," she says. As you feel like you're approachg asm, Tanner suggts practicg a ntrolled, slower breathg pattern and "focg your energy wards" by tung to bodily sensatns.</p><div data-attr-viewport-monor="le-recirc" class="le-recirc-wrapper le-recirc-observer-target-2 viewport-monor-anchor"></div><p>No matter what your sexual scenars look like, the bt way to have a great time is to simply have nsensual fun wh your partner(s). Don't beat yourself up if you don't have the most tense asm of your life after tryg the tips, bee everybody is different and we all cum at our own pac. Pl, you'll get to practice aga until you get right — that's a pretty sweet al if you ask .</p><hr/><p><strong>Want more? 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