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NOW WE CAN DANCE: THE STORY OF THE HAYWARD GAY PROM” DOCUMENTARY FILM PRODUCED BY HAYWARD LIBRARY

* prom is gay *

“Why do no gay people look like me? The tradn beme mastream by the end of the super blah 1950s, and wasn't until 1979 that the first openly gay uple me to prom Sux Falls, South Dakota. The first "gay prom" happened almost 20 years later Los Angel, California.

Aaron Fricke, a gay stunt who sought a urt orr to allow him to brg a male iend to his high school prom. "A uple of years ago, there was a big mystery about how we n support youth who intify as gay and lbian, " Lyl said. While his school has a "huge muny" of queer kids, he "didn't even know what the word trans meant" until his sophomore year high school.

The Netflix versn is a straight person’s imagg of a gay love story for a straight dience … ma by a gay person?

APRIL SHOWERS BRG GAY PROMS

Now We Can Dance: The Story of the Hayward Gay Prom is a short documentary film produced by Hayward Public Library 2013. The film celebrat Hayward’s long-standg Gay Prom event. It chronicl the ntroversy surroundg the 1995 creatn of the gay prom and the signifince of havg a tradnal high school dance for lbian, gay, bisexual, and transgenr teenagers. * prom is gay *

” In , Corn sgs to the mother of a queer teenager, urgg her to accept her gay dghter and see that “love is simply love.

) He’s playg Barry Glickman, a flamboyantly gay Broadway has-been who, along wh a hort of other actors whose reputatns need rehabbg, head to Indiana. ) On actual Broadway, his role was played by Brooks Ashmanskas, a gay actor who would would go on to receive a Tony nomatn for his performance the short-lived show.

FABULO PHOTOS FROM ONE OF AMERI’S LONGT-RUNNG GAY PROMS

It’s a funny song wh dry lyrics about poppg Xanax and movg to San Francis to be among the gays, but all that gets lost behd the never-endg sg.

Beg the only out gay kid at a nservative high school would likely be paful. Alyssa is closeted, aaid of how her “gay is a liftyle choice” mother will react if she adms she’s been datg Emma secret. Greene turns her homophobic self around rerd time.

(Murphy, cintally, was once himself a gay teenager Indiana. That her mother’s vol homophobia was such a temporary state of hatred renrs much of the movie’s central tensn potls.

LGBT PROM REVOLUTN TEXASLET’S DANCEWHEN TAYLOR RI’ PROM WAS NCELED AFTER A FIGHT OVER HER SIRE TO BRG A SAME-SEX DATE, SOME LOLS STEPPED TO HOLD — THE NAME OF LGBT CLN.SAMANTHA ALLENUPDATED MAY 09, 2017 1:10PM EDT / PUBLISHED MAY 03, 2017 1:03AM EDT PHOTO ILLTRATN BY KELLY CAMERO/THE DAILY BEASTLAST YEAR, TAYLOR RI DIDN’T GET TO BRG ANOTHER GIRL AS HER DATE TO THE CENTRAL HEIGHTS HIGH SCHOOL SENR PROM NAGDOCH, TEXAS.THAT’S WHY A GROUP OF MUNY ADVOT ARE THROWG A “LAVENR PROM” NAGDOCH LATER THIS MONTH, GIVG LGBT STUNTS AND THEIR PEERS RAL EAST TEXAS THE OPPORTUNY TO DANCE TOGETHER AT ONE CLIVE EVENT.IN THE SPRG OF 2016, WHEN RI WANTED TO BRG A GIRL TO THE PROM, SHE SAYS SHE WAS TOLD THAT SHE ULD EHER “ATTEND ‘STAG’ OR ATTEND WH A DATE OF THE OPPOSE SEX.” AFTER THE ACLU OF TEXAS WROTE A LETTER TO CENTRAL HEIGHTS INPENNT SCHOOL DISTRICT THAT SEPTEMBER, THE SCHOOL NCELED SENR PROM ALTOGETHER, AS LOL NEWS OUTLET KTRE REPORTED AT THE TIME.THE DISTRICT SUPERTENNT TOLD KTRE THAT THE EVENT WOULD “NOW BE THE HANDS OF PARENTS TO CI IF THEY WOULD LIKE TO PLAN SOMETHG,” CG “CREASED PRSURE AND LIABILI AND POTENTIAL LIGATN.” AND ALTHOUGH THE SUPERTENNT ADD THAT THE ACLU LETTER “WAS NOT THE PLETE REASON FOR THE NCELLATN”—CG “PRSURE, LIABILI, AND SAFETY NCERNS” ONCE AGA—RI SAYS SHE IS STILL SEEN THE MUNY AS THE TROUBLEMAKER WHO GOT SENR PROM SHUT DOWN.“I DON’T FEEL BLAMED, I KNOW I’M BLAMED,” RI TOLD THE DAILY BEAST. “EVERYONE KD OF KNOWS WAS BEE OF ME AND I GOT A LOT OF HATE BEE OF THAT—PECIALLY [OM] THE SENRS THIS YEAR BEE ’S THEIR SENR PROM. THEY WEREN’T TOO HAPPY ABOUT .”KTRE REPORTED THAT THERE WERE “EXPLIC SOCIAL MEDIA POSTS” LAST FALL BLAMG RI FOR THE NCELLATN. THE 18-YEAR-OLD STUNT, NOW GRADUATED OM CENTRAL HEIGHTS, TOLD THE DAILY BEAST THAT SHE “NEVER HEAR[S] ABOUT ANYMORE” AT LLEGE BUT SHE STILL WANTS HER CLASSMAT BACK HOME TO HAVE AN LGBT-CLIVE PROM EXPERIENCE.“IT’S JT NOT FAIR,” SHE SAID. “IT’S NOT ABOUT ME ANYMORE—’S ABOUT THE KIDS.”FORTUNATELY, RI’ STORY BEME A POT OF DISCSN LAST YEAR FOR A LOL GROUP OF ADVOT ON FACEBOOK, CLUDG CC CONN, A THEATER PROFSOR AT NEARBY STEPHEN F. AT STATE UNIVERSY. CONN AND HER GROUP REALIZED THAT THEY ULD DO MORE THAN JT MENT ON THE STORY THROUGH SOCIAL MEDIA—THEY ULD CREATE A NEW, MORE HOPEFUL STORY.“WE JT WONRED WHAT WE ULD DO,” SHE TOLD THE DAILY BEAST. “AND AT FIRST I THOUGHT, ‘WHY WOULD I HAVE ANYTHG TO DO THIS?’ BEE I DON’T HAVE A KID SCHOOL. AND THEN I REALIZED THAT FOR A STRAIGHT PERSON TO FIGHT FOR GAY RIGHTS IS AN IMPORTANT THG.”CONN AND IENDS ME UP WH THE IA TO HOST THEIR OWN LGBT-IENDLY PROM THE AREA WH ALL THE UAL PROM FIXS: A DJ, A PHOTOGRAPHER, RATNS, AND TERG.THIS MARCH, THEY STARTED A GOFUNDME FUNDRAISER TO VER THOSE EXPENS WH THE GOAL OF RAISG $1500. AS OF THIS WRG, THEY HAVE RAISED $3750. BUT EVEN THOUGH THE FUNDRAISG HAS BEEN A SUCCS, CONN HOP DON’T HAVE TO BE A RECURRG EVENT; SHE WANTS THE SCHOOL DISTRICT TO RENSIR THEIR PREV PROM POLICY.“A LOT OF PEOPLE WERE REALLY EXCED ABOUT HOW THIS ULD HAPPEN EVERY YEAR AND THAT’S NOT MY TENT,” SHE EXPLAED. “MY TENT IS TO MAKE A STATEMENT THAT THIS MUNY SUPPORTS SAME-SEX UPL, TRANSGENR PEOPLE, ANYONE TO BE ABLE TO GO TO THEIR OWN PROM.”HEATHER OLSON BEAL, WHO WAS RPONSIBLE FOR THE FUNDRAISG, TOLD THE DAILY BEAST THAT HER VOLVEMENT WH THE LAVENR PROM WAS HER WAY OF NOT FEELG “POWERLS” DURG A HARROWG TIME FOR LGBT PEOPLE.“I N’T FIX HATEFUL BIGOTED LAWS EVEN THOUGH I’M TRYG,” SHE SAID. “BUT I N WORK ON PROJECTS LIKE THIS.”ON THE LOL LEVEL THE UNED STAT, RI’ EXPERIENCE OF BEG TOLD SHE ULDN’T BRG A SAME-SEX DATE TO PROM IS NOT UNMON.ACRDG TO THE 2015 NATNAL SCHOOL CLIMATE SURVEY, PREPARED BY THE LGBT TN ANIZATN GLSEN, OVER 15 PERCENT OF THEIR 10,000-PL RPONNTS SAID THEY ‘WERE PREVENTED OM ATTENDG A DANCE OR FUNCTN WH SOMEONE OF THE SAME GENR.” THAT’S OFTEN THE RULT OF LOL SCHOOL POLICI LIKE THE ONE THAT ED TO BE ON THE BOOKS THE CENTRAL HEIGHTS INPENNT SCHOOL DISTRICT.THE DISTRICT SUPERTENNT TOLD KTRE LAST SEPTEMBER THAT THE POLICY RI DISPUTED “WAS THE HANDBOOK, AND THAT WAS THE POLICY AT THE TIME” BUT ADD THAT “THAT HANDBOOK IS IRRELEVANT” NOW THAT THE PROM HAS BEEN NCELLED. (NEHER SUPERTENNT BRYAN LEE NOR CENTRAL HEIGHTS HIGH SCHOOL PRCIPAL DAVID RSELL RPOND TO THE DAILY BEAST’S EMAILED REQUTS FOR MENT ON MONDAY AND TUDAY.)POLICI EXCLUDG LGBT STUNTS OM SCHOOL DANC HAVE BEEN CHALLENGED THROUGH VAR LAWSUS, MOST NOTABLY RHO ISLAND WHERE A DISTRICT URT LED 1980 THAT GAY STUNT AARON FRICKE SHOULD BE ALLOWED TO BRG HIS MALE DATE TO HIS SENR PROM.ACLU OF TEXAS SENR STAFF ATTORNEY EDGAR SALDIVAR NFIRMED TO THE DAILY BEAST THAT THEY SENT A LETTER TO THE CENTRAL HEIGHTS INPENNT SCHOOL DISTRICT LAST SEPTEMBER BUT EXPLAED, “WE HAVE A POLICY OF NOT MENTG ON ONGOG VTIGATNS AND THIS IS ONE OF THEM.”“I N’T SPEAK TO THE NTENTS OF THE LETTER OR WHO I SPOKE WH REGARDG THAT,” HE NOTED.BUT MORE GENERAL TERMS, SALDIVAR ARTICULATED THE ACLU OF TEXAS POSN ON POLICI THAT PREVENT STUNTS OM BRGG SAME-SEX DAT TO SCHOOL DANC—NAMELY THAT THEY VLATE THE RIGHT TO EE EXPRSN THE FIRST AMENDMENT AS WELL AS THE EQUAL PROTECTN CLSE OF THE FOURTEENTH AMENDMENT.“IT IS, FOR , A PRETTY STRAIGHTFORWARD ISSUE,” HE SAID. “YOU’RE NOT ALLOWED TO DISCRIMATE AGAST SAME-SEX UPL BY NYG THEM THE RIGHT TO GO TO PROM WHEN YOU ALLOW FOR OTHER STUNTS.”BUT BEE THERE ARE STILL STTERED SCHOOL DISTRICTS THAT DO DISCRIMATE, RMAL “LAVENR PROMS” HAVE BEE A TREND RECENT YEARS—EVEN FOR SENR CIZENS WHO DIDN’T GET TO GO TO THEIR PROMS WH SAME-SEX DAT WHEN THEY WERE GROWG UP.RI TOLD THE DAILY BEAST THAT THE LAVENR PROM EAST TEXAS IS IMPORTANT BEE “ BRGS THE ISSUE TO LIGHT” AND “NOT A LOT OF PEOPLE REALIZE THIS IS HAPPENG SMALL SCHOOLS.”SHE ADD THAT SHE IS ED PLANNG TO ATTEND THE LAVENR PROM ON MAY 20.“I’M STILL 18 SO PROM’S STILL OL, RIGHT?” SHE JOKED.IN FACT, SHE MIGHT EVEN BRG HER OLD DATE. SAMANTHA ALLEN

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SCHOOL BANNED GAY PROM DAT: LAWSUIT’S 2017 PEOPLEA STUNT IS SUG A BUFFALO-AREA HIGH SCHOOL FOR ALLEGEDLY BLOCKG LGBTQ STUNTS OM BRGG A SAME-SEX DATE TO THE PROM.KATE BRIQUELETSENR REPORTERUPDATED MAY 12, 2017 12:02AM EDT PHOTO ILLTRATN BY SARAH ROGERS/THE DAILY BEASTA WEEK BEFORE PROM, A BUFFALO HIGH SCHOOLER IS SUG HIS PRCIPAL FOR ALLEGEDLY POLICG SAME-SEX UPL AT SCHOOL DANC.BYSHOP ELLTT SAYS MCKLEY HIGH SCHOOL HAS A HISTORY OF POLICI THAT EXCLU LGBTQ STUNTS—CLUDG THE PRCIPAL’S ALLEGED NIAL OF HIS AND FELLOW STUNTS’ REQUT FOR A GAY-STRAIGHT ALLIANCE.IN A FERAL LAWSU, THE 18-YEAR-OLD JUNR SAYS STUNTS BUYG “UPL” TICKETS FOR DANC ARE ASKED FOR THE NAM OF THEIR DAT. THOSE NAMG SAME-SEX PARTNERS AREN’T PERMTED TO PURCHASE THE “UPL” PASS, HE CLAIMS.THE NEW YORK CIVIL LIBERTI UNN FILED THE PLAT AGAST PRCIPAL CRYSTAL BOLG-BARTON THIS WEEK. THE BUFFALO SCHOOL DISTRICT IS ALSO A FENDANT. BOLG-BARTON, THROUGH HER SECRETARY, CLED MENT AND REFERRED A DAILY BEAST REPORTER TO THE SCHOOL DISTRICT’S LEGAL PARTMENT.NATE KUZMA, THE DISTRICT’S GENERAL UNSEL, TOLD THE DAILY BEAST HE WAS REVIEWG ELLTT’S PLAT. “WE TAKE THE ALLEGATNS VERY SERLY… AND WE ARE VTIGATG AS WE SPEAK TO GET TO THE BOTTOM OF THIS,” KUZMA SAID.WHILE ELLTT WON’T ATTEND PROM THIS YEAR—’S ONLY FOR SENRS—HE WANTS TO STAND UP FOR LGBTQ CLASSMAT WHO MAY BE NIED A CHANCE TO DANCE WH THEIR DAT.MOST OF ALL, HE SAYS, HE WANTS BOLG-BARTON TO APPROVE HIS REQUT FOR A GAY-STRAIGHT ALLIANCE (GSA).“WE ARE SUCH A DIVERSE SCHOOL. WE HAVE 1,000 STUNTS OM ALL OVER BUFFALO. [BUT] NOT EVERYONE FEELS FORTABLE,” ELLTT TOLD THE DAILY BEAST.“THE GSA IS NOT JT FOR LGBTQ ALLI AND PEOPLE WHO INTIFY,” HE ADD. “IT’S A SAFE SPACE, JT TO HAVE SOMEWHERE TO GO.”NYCLU ATTORNEY BOBBY HODGSON SAID THE ALLEGED NIALS OF THE GSA DON’T SQUARE WH THE LAW, OR THE DISTRICT’S OWN POLICI.“DISCRIMATN G OM THE VERY PEOPLE WHO ARE CHARGED WH PROTECTG STUNTS AND PROTECTG THEIR RIGHTS IS A PERNIC AND HARMFUL FORM OF DISCRIMATN,” HODGSON TOLD THE DAILY BEAST.“ANY TIME THAT HAPPENS, SENDS A MSAGE TO PEOPLE THE SCHOOL THAT NOT EVERYONE IS BEG TREATED EQUALLY. IT CREAT REAL HARM AND REAL FEAR.”THE LAWSU AT A TIME WHEN MANY STUNTS WHO INTIFY AS LGBTQ—OR LBIAN, GAY, BISEXUAL, TRANSGENR, QUEER, AND QUTNG—MIGHT FEEL ANX AND NFED AS PRINT TMP’S ADMISTRATN HAS MA MOV TO ROLL BACK FERAL PROTECTNS, HODGSON SAID.IN FEBARY, THE DEPARTMENT OF EDUTN AND THE DEPARTMENT OF JTICE ISSUED A LETTER RCDG OBAMA-ERA GUIDANCE ON TRANSGENR STUNTS.“WHEN THERE IS THAT TYPE OF MSAGE G OM OUR FERAL ERNMENT, IS PARTICULARLY IMPORTANT TO REMD LOL ADMISTRATORS AND LOLI THAT THE PROTECTNS EXIST AND THEY’RE NOT GOG ANYWHERE,” HODGSON SAID.THE LAWSU ACC THE PRCIPAL AND BUFFALO SCHOOL DISTRICT OF VLATG ELLTT’S RIGHTS UNR THE EQUAL ACCS ACT AND THE FIRST AMENDMENT.MCKLEY HIGH SCHOOL LGBTQ STUNTS “ARE REMD EVERY DAY THAT THEY ARE SEND-CLASS CIZENS,” THE LAWSU STAT.ACRDG TO THE PLAT, BOLG-BARTON ALLEGEDLY IMPOS POLICI THAT DISCRIMATE AGAST STUNTS WHO INTIFY AS LGBTQ.THE SCHOOL’S LOUDSPEAKER ANNOUNCEMENTS ALLEGEDLY HAVE WARNED THAT STUNTS WEREN’T ALLOWED TO BRG SAME-SEX DAT TO PROM AND THAT “UPL” TICKETS ARE FOR OPPOSE-SEX PAIRS. IF A GIRL DANC WH HER GIRLIEND, THE PLAT CLAIMS, THE PRCIPAL SEPARAT THEM.FOR YEARS, STUNTS HAVE ASKED FOR PERMISSN TO CREATE A GSA, BUT THEIR APPLITNS WERE ALLEGEDLY NIED OR IGNORED.THE BUFFALO SCHOOL DISTRICT “HAS BEEN FULLY AWARE OF THE SUATN” SCE AT LEAST AUGT 2016 BUT FAILED TO TAKE ACTN, URT PAPERS ALLEGE.ELLTT, WHO IS GAY, SAYS HE LLECTED 136 SIGNATUR OM CLASSMAT SUPPORT OF A GSA MARCH OF THIS YEAR. HE ADD THAT THE CLUB’S APPLITN, SUBMTED AT THE BEGNG OF THE SCHOOL YEAR, REMAS UNAPPROVED—SPE, HE SAYS, THE EXISTENCE OF MULTIPLE FACULTY MEMBERS WILLG TO SUPERVISE THE GROUP.DURG THE 2016-17 SCHOOL YEAR, AT LEAST 20 STUNTS ASKED MCKLEY STAFF WHY THE SCHOOL IS STILL WHOUT A GSA, THE LAWSU SAYS.BOLG-BARTON ALLEGEDLY MA SEVERAL TER ANNOUNCEMENTS WARNG THAT SAME-SEX UPL WERE NOT PERMTED AT SCHOOL DANC OM 2014 TO 2016.STUNTS BUYG “UPL” TICKETS OM 2014 TO 2016 WERE ASKED WHO THEIR TEND DAT WOULD BE, AND THOSE NAMG A SAME-SEX PARTNER WOULD BE NIED TICKETS, THE LAWSU SAYS.“STUNTS WHO WERE NIED TICKETS FELT HUIATED AND EXCLUD OM SOME OF THE MOST PROMENT AND POPULAR SCHOOL-WI SOCIAL EVENTS OF THE YEAR,” THE PLAT STAT.BUT BUYG SGLE TICKETS DIDN’T WORK EHER. ACRDG TO THE LAWSU, BOLG-BARTON WOULD STCT DANCG SAME-SEX UPL TO SEPARATE OR FACE DISCIPLE.SUCH CHAPERONG PRACTIC LED MANY LGBTQ STUNTS TO SKIP MCKLEY DANC AND STEAD ATTEND THE “DIVERSY PROM” SPONSORED BY GAY & LBIAN YOUTH SERVIC OF WTERN NEW YORK (GLYS), URT PAPERS ALLEGE.INED, THE 2016 DIVERSY PROM HAD MORE STUNTS OM MCKLEY HIGH THAN ANY OTHER AREA HIGH SCHOOL, GLYS REPORTED.THE LAWSU CLAIMS THAT MCKLEY HAS ALSO BEEN WHOUT A GSA SPE REPEATED TERT OVER THE LAST FEW YEARS—AND FACULTY ADVISERS READY TO SIGN UP.THE LAWSU NTENDS THIS IS BEE OF A HISTORY OF SCHOOL-SPONSORED EXCLN OF LGBTQ STUNTS.ABOUT 1,000 STUNTS GRAS 9-12 ATTEND MCKLEY HIGH SCHOOL, A VOTNAL SCHOOL THAT OFFERS SPECIALIZED TRAG SEVEN “SHOP AREAS.” AND ABOUT 87 PERCENT OF THE SCHOOL’S ENROLLE ARE STUNTS OF LOR.MANY CLUBS, CLUDG THE BIBLE CLUB, GOSPEL CHOS, THE FUTURE FARMERS OF AMERI, AND AIN DANCE CLUB, AREN’T RELATED TO SCHOOL CURRICULUM, THE LAWSU STAT.STUNTS TERTED FORMG A GSA DURG THE 2014-15 SCHOOL YEAR WERE ALLEGEDLY NIED BY BOLG-BARTON. (THE LAWSU DO NOT STATE WHY THE PRCIPAL ALLEGEDLY NIED THE APPLITN, AND ’S UNCLEAR IF REASONS WERE GIVEN.)IN THE SPRG OF 2016, ELLTT SAYS HE AGA SOUGHT APPROVAL FOR HIS CLUB. AN ASSISTANT PRCIPAL ALLEGEDLY TOLD HIM WAS TOO LATE THE SCHOOL YEAR TO SUBM HIS APPLITN AND THAT BOLG-BARTON WOULD NY .ELLTT LATER LEARNED THAT A NEW STUNT GROUP FOCED ON TERNATNAL CULTUR AND CUIS SUBMTED AN APPLITN AROUND THE SAME TIME THAT HE SPOKE TO THE ASSISTANT PRCIPAL. THE OTHER GROUP’S APPLITN WAS APPROVED, THE LAWSU SAYS.THAT SUMMER, ELLTT SOUGHT HELP OM THE NEW YORK CIVIL LIBERTI UNN, WHICH AUGT 2016 NTACTED THE SCHOOL DISTRICT’S UNSEL.THE DISTRICT’S ATTORNEY “NFIRMED THAT THE DISTRICT RECEIVED AND HAD A CLEAR UNRSTANDG OF THIS MAND FOR GSA APPROVAL, CLUDG BY NFIRMG THAT THE SUPERTENNT HAD NSIRED THE STUNTS’ REQUT ON MULTIPLE OCSNS,” THE PLAT SAYS.ELLTT SAYS HE AGA SECURED A FACULTY SPONSOR AND APPLIED FOR A GSA THE FALL OF 2016. THE FACULTY MEMBER EMAILED THE APPLITN TO BOLG-BARTON DIRECTLY OCTOBER BUT SHE DID NOT REPLY, URT PAPERS ALLEGE.ONE MONTH LATER, THE FACULTY ADVISER FOLLOWED UP WH ANOTHER EMAIL TO BOLG-BARTON, WHO ALLEGEDLY IGNORED .DURG THIS PERD, THE NYCLU SAYS SENT FIVE EMAILS AND LEFT SEVERAL VOICEMAILS FOR THE SCHOOL DISTRICT’S UNSEL, SAYG BOLG-BARTON STILL HAD NOT APPROVED THE GSA.FOR S PART, THE DISTRICT HAS NOTED THAT HAS PUBLICLY ADOPTED ANTI-DISCRIMATN POLICI AND PROCR TO SAFEGUARD THE RIGHTS OF TRANSGENR STUNTS. “BUFFALO SHOULD BE PROUD THAT EVERY STUNT OUR DISTRICT IS PROTECTED OM DISCRIMATN ALL FORMS,” ONE DISTRICT REPRENTATIVE SAID, ACRDG TO THE LAWSU.DPE THE PUBLIC PROMIS, LGBTQ STUNTS AT MCKLEY “NTUED TO SUFFER OVERT DISCRIMATN WH THE DISTRICT’S FULL KNOWLEDGE,” THE PLAT ALLEG.ON WEDNDAY, ONE OF ELLTT’S CLASSMAT SPOKE AT A PRS NFERENCE ANNOUNCG THE LAWSU AGAST THEIR HIGH SCHOOL.DTEE, A JUNR, SAID SHE RECENTLY ME OUT AS GENR-FLUID AFTER STGGLG WH ANXIETY AND PRSN OVER HER INTY.“ONE OF THE OBSTACL I HAVE FACED G OUT—AND A REASON MANY OTHER STUNTS FEEL THEY MT HI THEIR INTI—IS ALG WH THE NEGATIVE ATTUS TOWARD LGBTQ ISSU AT MY SCHOOL,” DTEE SAID.“THERE IS AN ATMOSPHERE OF HOSTILY AND BULLYG. THAT IS WHY, TWO YEARS AGO, A SMALL GROUP OF ASKED THE SCHOOL IF WE ULD FORM A GAY-STRAIGHT ALLIANCE.”DTEE SAID OTHER AREA SCHOOLS FLY THEIR GSA FLAGS AT THE BUFFALO PRI MARCH, WHILE MCKLEY STUNTS AREN’T EVEN ALLOWED TO ATTEND SCHOOL DANC WH THEIR PARTNERS.“ALL WE HAVE WANTED IS A SPACE WHERE LGBTQ STUNTS AND ALLI N SUPPORT EACH OTHER, BUT THE SCHOOL HAS TOLD ‘NO.’ WE WANT A PLACE WHERE WE DON’T HAVE TO HI, BUT THE SCHOOL HAS TOLD ‘NO,’” SHE SAID. KATE BRIQUELET

Too terrified to date, let alone wage war for my right to dance wh a nonexistent boyiend, I didn't bother challengg wasn't until 1994 that a Los Angel school district would sanctn what lled the untry's first public gay and lbian prom. In Utah, a trans stunt, Maka Brown, was named prom queen 2015, a first for a state that was once ground zero for banng Gay-Straight Allianc.

We all live small towns, and most of didn’t have the agency to be ourselv durg our public-schoolg atten were a diverse crowd of lovely people, cludg lbian upl, gay upl, nonbary guts and people who are trans. ‘It was the most fun I’d had a long time’Amari Callaway, 26, PhilalphiaI -hosted a queer prom last summer through my queer skate crew Rollg wh the Homos.

CHURCH EMBRACE PRI MONTH WH DRAG QUEEN STORY HOUR, QUEER PROMS AND GAY CONCERTS

But for those teens who intify as lbian, gay, bisexual, or transgenr, prom night n be a source of anxiety. And this, my iends, is somethg that I learned om ntrol over gettg a date (if you want one) prom season durg my hman and sophomore years, I tried starg extra hard at the boys my class, hopg that this would send some sort of telepathic msage that would spire them to ask me out.

'What To Do When' is wrten by your queer big sis, Veronika Kelemen — I’m a 23-year-old gay woman livg New York, and I e she/her ntent is imported om youTube. Follow Here on Facebook and InstagramGay chick and lover of rbs, sneakers, and Timothée Chalamet. " The rual was an agent for the then-natnwi mpaign to fight homosexualy by projectg an excciatgly heteronormative drs and genred rol (see: “prom kg” and “prom queen”) onto high schoolers.

*BEAR-MAGAZINE.COM* PROM IS GAY

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It’s how the 31-year-old explas her fascatn wh <a href=">“promposals”</a> — the high school rual of vg a date to prom often through elaborate and public gtur.</p></div><div class="article-body grid-center grid-body" data-qa="article-body"><p data-ttid="drop-p-letter" data-el="text" class="wpds-c-cYdRxM wpds-c-cYdRxM-iPJLV-css overriStyl font-py" dir="null">But she never had that experience. In fact, her prom 2009 looked a lot different than how she had imaged — largely bee the all-girls Catholic school she attend wouldn’t allow stunts to brg same-sex dat or arrive solo.</p></div></div><div></div><div class="article-body grid-center grid-body" data-qa="article-body"><p data-ttid="drop-p-letter" data-el="text" class="wpds-c-cYdRxM wpds-c-cYdRxM-iPJLV-css overriStyl font-py" dir="null">“I jt wanted to enjoy the night wh my iends and not have to force myself to go wh a date that I wasn’t fortable wh,” said Dengler, who intifi as queer.</p></div><div class="article-body grid-center grid-body" data-qa="article-body"><p><span class="wpds-c-gnhuPA wpds-c-gnhuPA-hqeSyH-variant-terstial wpds-c-gnhuPA-iPJLV-css hi-for-prt"><a data-qa="terstial-lk" href=">A gui to the words we e our genr verage</a></span></p></div><div class="article-body grid-center grid-body" data-qa="article-body"><p data-ttid="drop-p-letter" data-el="text" class="wpds-c-cYdRxM wpds-c-cYdRxM-iPJLV-css overriStyl font-py" dir="null">On May 14, she fally got the chance to do prom her way. Donng a silvery blue tuxedo vt and shirt, Dengler attend her first queer prom Tampa wh a group of iends.</p></div><div class="article-body grid-center grid-body grid-tablet-full-bleed" data-qa="article-body"><div data-qa="article-image" class="hi-for-prt"><div style="m-height:358px"></div></div></div><div class="article-body grid-center grid-body" data-qa="article-body"><p data-ttid="drop-p-letter" data-el="text" class="wpds-c-cYdRxM wpds-c-cYdRxM-iPJLV-css overriStyl font-py" dir="null">“It was phenomenal,” she said. “Everyone was jt so fortable there. We danced the entire time.”</p></div><div class="article-body grid-center grid-body" data-qa="article-body"></div><div class="article-body grid-center grid-body" data-qa="article-body"><p data-ttid="drop-p-letter" data-el="text" class="wpds-c-cYdRxM wpds-c-cYdRxM-iPJLV-css overriStyl font-py" dir="null">Ahead of the event, she even ma <a href=">promposal vios</a> and posted them onle. “I wanted to experience a way,” she said, “and I felt like this was that way for me.”</p></div><div class="article-body grid-center grid-body" data-qa="article-body"><p data-ttid="drop-p-letter" data-el="text" class="wpds-c-cYdRxM wpds-c-cYdRxM-iPJLV-css overriStyl font-py" dir="null">The visn behd the queer prom Dengler attend was to offer people a send chance at the night they’ve always wanted, said Holly Webarger, the founr and director of programmg for <a href=">QFX</a>, which hosted the event. It was also tend as a safe space for the LGBTQ muny Florida, “which is unr the attack of <a href=">anti-queer legislatn</a>,” she add.</p></div><div class="article-body grid-center grid-body" data-qa="article-body"><p><span class="wpds-c-gnhuPA wpds-c-gnhuPA-hqeSyH-variant-terstial wpds-c-gnhuPA-iPJLV-css hi-for-prt"><a data-qa="terstial-lk" href=">The LGBTQ lawmakers want to make their stat a refuge for trans kids</a></span></p></div><div class="article-body grid-full-bleed" data-qa="article-body"><div class="cb dn db-ns" data-qa="article-body-ad" data-ttid="article-body-ad-sktop"><div aria-hidn="te" class="hi-for-prt relative flex jtify-center ntent-box ems-center b bh mb-md mt-none pt-lg pb-lg" style="m-height:250px;borr-top-lor:;borr-bottom-lor:"><div class="center absolute w-100 borr-box" style="top:"><div class="dib gray-dark pl-xs pr-xs font-sans-serif light font-xxxxs lh-md" style="--primary-borr-lor:"></div></div><div data-ttid="placeholr-box" class="w-100 h-100 absolute flex flex-lumn jtify-center borr-box bg-offwhe" style="width:300px;height:250px"><div class="flex flex-lumn jtify-center font-sans-serif center font-xxs light gray-dark lh-md"><div>Advertisement</div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="article-body grid-full-bleed" data-qa="article-body"><div class="cb db dn-ns" data-qa="article-body-ad" data-ttid="article-body-ad-mobile"><div aria-hidn="te" class="hi-for-prt relative flex jtify-center ntent-box ems-center b bh mb-md mt-sm pt-sm pb-sm" style="m-height:250px;borr-top-lor:;borr-bottom-lor:"><div class="center absolute w-100 borr-box" style="top:"><div class="dib gray-dark pl-xs pr-xs font-sans-serif light font-xxxxs lh-md" style="--primary-borr-lor:"></div></div><div data-ttid="placeholr-box" class="w-100 h-100 absolute flex flex-lumn jtify-center borr-box bg-offwhe" style="width:300px;height:250px"><div class="flex flex-lumn jtify-center font-sans-serif center font-xxs light gray-dark lh-md"></div></div></div></div></div><div class="article-body grid-center grid-body" data-qa="article-body"><p data-ttid="drop-p-letter" data-el="text" class="wpds-c-cYdRxM wpds-c-cYdRxM-iPJLV-css overriStyl font-py" dir="null">“I wanted to know I uld walk that room and see … dividuals havg a good time dancg wh each other and not beg gawked at or ma to feel awkward,” Dengler said of her experience at queer prom. “And was so nice to see that. It was so nice to be a part of that.”</p></div><div class="article-body grid-center grid-body" data-qa="article-body"><p data-ttid="drop-p-letter" data-el="text" class="wpds-c-cYdRxM wpds-c-cYdRxM-iPJLV-css overriStyl font-py" dir="null">Wh prom season unrway across the untry, other groups like QFX have been hostg formal events such as queer proms to break om the heteronormative tradns that have ma school danc a ght experience for some.</p></div><div class="article-body grid-center grid-body" data-qa="article-body"><p data-ttid="drop-p-letter" data-el="text" class="wpds-c-cYdRxM wpds-c-cYdRxM-iPJLV-css overriStyl font-py" dir="null">Many the LGBTQ muny say the events offer them a safe and clive space to be themselv. We asked a few of them to share their experienc and photos of their nights.</p></div><div class="article-body grid-center grid-body" data-qa="article-body"><p data-ttid="drop-p-letter" data-el="text" class="wpds-c-cYdRxM wpds-c-cYdRxM-iPJLV-css overriStyl font-py" dir="null"><i>Rpons have been eded for length and clary.</i></p></div><div class="article-body grid-center grid-body grid-tablet-full-bleed" data-qa="article-body"><div data-qa="article-image" class="hi-for-prt"><div style="m-height:358px"></div></div></div><div class="article-body grid-center grid-body" data-qa="article-body"><h3 data-qa="article-hear" class=" pb-sm pt-md" id="ITNOVJWG2BCTDDNONFAMNLPHR4"><div>‘It was the prom I wish my younger self had’</div></h3></div><div class="article-body grid-center grid-body" data-qa="article-body"><p data-ttid="drop-p-letter" data-el="text" class="wpds-c-cYdRxM wpds-c-cYdRxM-iPJLV-css overriStyl font-py" dir="null"><i>Molly Hottle, 33, Seattle</i></p></div><div class="article-body grid-center grid-body" data-qa="article-body"><p data-ttid="drop-p-letter" data-el="text" class="wpds-c-cYdRxM wpds-c-cYdRxM-iPJLV-css overriStyl font-py" dir="null">Last June, I went to Skate Prom, a llaboratn between <a href=">Roll Around Seatown</a> and <a href=">CIB Seattle</a>. It was signed to jt give all a reason to drs up and skate. But was also a place for those of who didn’t always feel wele or at home at our tradnal high school proms to celebrate, skate and get fancy!</p></div><div class="article-body grid-center grid-body" data-qa="article-body"><p data-ttid="drop-p-letter" data-el="text" class="wpds-c-cYdRxM wpds-c-cYdRxM-iPJLV-css overriStyl font-py" dir="null">When I went to prom high school, was all very tradnal. I went wh a male date and wore the big drs. All of that was fe, but lookg back, I know I was tryg to f to a box. The box was like this cliche of what prom is supposed to look like the talogu and movi.</p></div><div class="article-body grid-center grid-body" data-qa="article-body"><p data-ttid="drop-p-letter" data-el="text" class="wpds-c-cYdRxM wpds-c-cYdRxM-iPJLV-css overriStyl font-py" dir="null">As an adult, I was able to attend this prom and be myself. Two of my iends and I asked each other as platonic dat, and we ma each other rsag. I wore what I wanted, cludg my roller skat, and put on a ton of glter and extravagant makp. I wasn’t worried about what others thought of me or ftg to that box.</p></div><div class="article-body grid-center grid-body" data-qa="article-body"><p data-ttid="drop-p-letter" data-el="text" class="wpds-c-cYdRxM wpds-c-cYdRxM-iPJLV-css overriStyl font-py" dir="null">We skated circl, held hands and did tricks at the skate park, all the pany of other queer people. It was the prom I wish my younger self had. It was the prom I wish every young queer person out there uld have.</p></div><div class="article-body grid-full-bleed" data-qa="article-body"><div class="cb dn db-ns" data-qa="article-body-ad" data-ttid="article-body-ad-sktop"><div aria-hidn="te" class="hi-for-prt relative flex jtify-center ntent-box ems-center b bh mb-md mt-none pt-lg pb-lg" style="m-height:250px;borr-top-lor:;borr-bottom-lor:"><div class="center absolute w-100 borr-box" style="top:"><div class="dib gray-dark pl-xs pr-xs font-sans-serif light font-xxxxs lh-md" style="--primary-borr-lor:"></div></div><div data-ttid="placeholr-box" class="w-100 h-100 absolute flex flex-lumn jtify-center borr-box bg-offwhe" style="width:300px;height:250px"><div class="flex flex-lumn jtify-center font-sans-serif center font-xxs light gray-dark lh-md"><div>Advertisement</div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="article-body grid-full-bleed" data-qa="article-body"><div class="cb db dn-ns" data-qa="article-body-ad" data-ttid="article-body-ad-mobile"><div aria-hidn="te" class="hi-for-prt relative flex jtify-center ntent-box ems-center b bh mb-md mt-sm pt-sm pb-sm" style="m-height:250px;borr-top-lor:;borr-bottom-lor:"><div class="center absolute w-100 borr-box" style="top:"><div class="dib gray-dark pl-xs pr-xs font-sans-serif light font-xxxxs lh-md" style="--primary-borr-lor:"></div></div><div data-ttid="placeholr-box" class="w-100 h-100 absolute flex flex-lumn jtify-center borr-box bg-offwhe" style="width:300px;height:250px"><div class="flex flex-lumn jtify-center font-sans-serif center font-xxs light gray-dark lh-md"></div></div></div></div></div><div class="article-body grid-center grid-body" data-qa="article-body"><hr data-qa="article-ntent-divir" class="b bb bc-light pt-sm"/></div><div class="article-body grid-center grid-body grid-tablet-full-bleed" data-qa="article-body"><div data-qa="article-image" class="hi-for-prt"><div style="m-height:358px"></div></div></div><div class="article-body grid-center grid-body" data-qa="article-body"><h3 data-qa="article-hear" class=" pb-sm pt-md" id="3CSA6YMZIBFZLJS6FV2DDQ3D54"><div>‘Wng prom royalty felt like a scene a movie’</div></h3></div><div class="article-body grid-center grid-body" data-qa="article-body"><p data-ttid="drop-p-letter" data-el="text" class="wpds-c-cYdRxM wpds-c-cYdRxM-iPJLV-css overriStyl font-py" dir="null"><i>Simon Grav, 19, Norfolk</i></p></div><div class="article-body grid-center grid-body" data-qa="article-body"><p data-ttid="drop-p-letter" data-el="text" class="wpds-c-cYdRxM wpds-c-cYdRxM-iPJLV-css overriStyl font-py" dir="null">The queer prom I attend was hosted by different anizatns at my school, Old Domn Universy. I chose to go to support a close iend who helped plan the event. I also went bee my high school prom was terrible and was ls clive for queer people.</p></div><div class="article-body grid-center grid-body" data-qa="article-body"><p data-ttid="drop-p-letter" data-el="text" class="wpds-c-cYdRxM wpds-c-cYdRxM-iPJLV-css overriStyl font-py" dir="null">One of the biggt highlights of my night at queer prom was walkg to the venue and feelg wele by seeg different queer people who attend my school. Later that night, I was crowned royal monarch, which tentnally breaks om tradnal genr-specific tl such as “homeg queen” or “prom kg.” Wng prom royalty felt like a scene a movie.</p></div><div class="article-body grid-center grid-body" data-qa="article-body"><hr data-qa="article-ntent-divir" class="b bb bc-light pt-sm"/></div><div class="article-body grid-center grid-body grid-tablet-full-bleed" data-qa="article-body"><div data-qa="article-image" class="hi-for-prt"><div style="m-height:358px"></div></div></div><div class="article-body grid-center grid-body" data-qa="article-body"><h3 data-qa="article-hear" class=" pb-sm pt-md" id="H2AC4ZIJDZDX7P27RSWJW7D7HI"><div>‘It is always betiful to see so many people livg their tth’</div></h3></div><div class="article-body grid-center grid-body" data-qa="article-body"><p data-ttid="drop-p-letter" data-el="text" class="wpds-c-cYdRxM wpds-c-cYdRxM-iPJLV-css overriStyl font-py" dir="null"><i>Liz Osowiecki, 27, Long Island</i></p></div><div class="article-body grid-center grid-body" data-qa="article-body"><p data-ttid="drop-p-letter" data-el="text" class="wpds-c-cYdRxM wpds-c-cYdRxM-iPJLV-css overriStyl font-py" dir="null">When my iends and I were all high school, we eher weren’t fortable beg who we are or wasn’t safe to be who we are. The ia of gog to prom wh someone outsi of the “norm” wasn’t even a realistic ia. When we heard our iends were havg a queer prom, we were so exced, bee now we have real pri who we are and uldn’t wa to celebrate. It is always betiful to see so many people livg their tth.</p></div><div class="article-body grid-full-bleed" data-qa="article-body"><div class="cb dn db-ns" data-qa="article-body-ad" data-ttid="article-body-ad-sktop"><div aria-hidn="te" class="hi-for-prt relative flex jtify-center ntent-box ems-center b bh mb-md mt-none pt-lg pb-lg" style="m-height:250px;borr-top-lor:;borr-bottom-lor:"><div class="center absolute w-100 borr-box" style="top:"><div class="dib gray-dark pl-xs pr-xs font-sans-serif light font-xxxxs lh-md" style="--primary-borr-lor:"></div></div><div data-ttid="placeholr-box" class="w-100 h-100 absolute flex flex-lumn jtify-center borr-box bg-offwhe" style="width:300px;height:250px"><div class="flex flex-lumn jtify-center font-sans-serif center font-xxs light gray-dark lh-md"><div>Advertisement</div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="article-body grid-full-bleed" data-qa="article-body"><div class="cb db dn-ns" data-qa="article-body-ad" data-ttid="article-body-ad-mobile"><div aria-hidn="te" class="hi-for-prt relative flex jtify-center ntent-box ems-center b bh mb-md mt-sm pt-sm pb-sm" style="m-height:250px;borr-top-lor:;borr-bottom-lor:"><div class="center absolute w-100 borr-box" style="top:"><div class="dib gray-dark pl-xs pr-xs font-sans-serif light font-xxxxs lh-md" style="--primary-borr-lor:"></div></div><div data-ttid="placeholr-box" class="w-100 h-100 absolute flex flex-lumn jtify-center borr-box bg-offwhe" style="width:300px;height:250px"><div class="flex flex-lumn jtify-center font-sans-serif center font-xxs light gray-dark lh-md"></div></div></div></div></div><div class="article-body grid-center grid-body grid-tablet-full-bleed" data-qa="article-body"><div data-qa="article-image" class="hi-for-prt"><div style="m-height:358px"></div></div></div><div class="article-body grid-center grid-body" data-qa="article-body"><h3 data-qa="article-hear" class=" pb-sm pt-md" id="5KDDW5N7EVBNZI7K26GOPXE6UQ"><div>‘I felt so reward gog to a formal event where I felt assured my genr’</div></h3></div><div class="article-body grid-center grid-body" data-qa="article-body"><p data-ttid="drop-p-letter" data-el="text" class="wpds-c-cYdRxM wpds-c-cYdRxM-iPJLV-css overriStyl font-py" dir="null"><i>Samantha Ann Burnsi, 30, Webb Cy, Mo.</i></p></div><div class="article-body grid-center grid-body" data-qa="article-body"><p data-ttid="drop-p-letter" data-el="text" class="wpds-c-cYdRxM wpds-c-cYdRxM-iPJLV-css overriStyl font-py" dir="null">I chose to go to the Pri prom bee a lot of my iends were gog. I love any exce to get drsed up, and I had jt the drs for the ocsn: a prom drs om the late ’70s that I rtored myself!</p></div><div class="article-body grid-center grid-body" data-qa="article-body"><p data-ttid="drop-p-letter" data-el="text" class="wpds-c-cYdRxM wpds-c-cYdRxM-iPJLV-css overriStyl font-py" dir="null">I mostly enjoyed seeg everyone drsed up so betifully, wearg cloth and styl they may not have been able to wear to their high school proms. We all live small towns, and most of didn’t have the agency to be ourselv durg our public-schoolg days.</p></div><div class="article-body grid-center grid-body" data-qa="article-body"><p data-ttid="drop-p-letter" data-el="text" class="wpds-c-cYdRxM wpds-c-cYdRxM-iPJLV-css overriStyl font-py" dir="null">The atten were a diverse crowd of lovely people, cludg lbian upl, gay upl, nonbary guts and people who are trans. Almost every reprentatn of the LGBTQIA+ alphabet was attendance, which wasn’t too shabby for a Pri prom small-town Kansas!</p></div><div class="article-body grid-center grid-body" data-qa="article-body"><p data-ttid="drop-p-letter" data-el="text" class="wpds-c-cYdRxM wpds-c-cYdRxM-iPJLV-css overriStyl font-py" dir="null">I was apprehensive about gog to the prom at first bee of nerv. But the end, was a wonrful time, and I felt so reward gog to a formal event where I felt assured my genr. Those opportuni don’t e up often enough!</p></div><div class="article-body grid-center grid-body" data-qa="article-body"><hr data-qa="article-ntent-divir" class="b bb bc-light pt-sm"/></div><div class="article-body grid-center grid-body grid-tablet-full-bleed" data-qa="article-body"><div data-qa="article-image" class="hi-for-prt"><div style="m-height:358px"></div></div></div><div class="article-body grid-center grid-body" data-qa="article-body"><h3 data-qa="article-hear" class=" pb-sm pt-md" id="VJQE7ARWG5CORJVQV5KLJRP66E"><div>‘It was the most fun I’d had a long time’</div></h3></div><div class="article-body grid-center grid-body" data-qa="article-body"><p data-ttid="drop-p-letter" data-el="text" class="wpds-c-cYdRxM wpds-c-cYdRxM-iPJLV-css overriStyl font-py" dir="null"><i>Amari Callaway, 26, Philalphia</i></p></div><div class="article-body grid-center grid-body" data-qa="article-body"><p data-ttid="drop-p-letter" data-el="text" class="wpds-c-cYdRxM wpds-c-cYdRxM-iPJLV-css overriStyl font-py" dir="null">I -hosted a queer prom last summer through my queer skate crew <a href=">Rollg wh the Homos.</a> We did some fundraisg and were able to put on a superfun eveng for our muny! The first half of the eveng was a sort of “cktail hour” held at a brewery one of our members -owns, wh mic, mglg and a photo booth setup.</p></div><div class="article-body grid-center grid-body" data-qa="article-body"><p data-ttid="drop-p-letter" data-el="text" class="wpds-c-cYdRxM wpds-c-cYdRxM-iPJLV-css overriStyl font-py" dir="null">The send half took place at a lol roller rk, where we skated and danced our prom fery. It was the most fun I’d had a long time, pecially wh the panmic, and was a wonrful makp prom experience for a lot of our members, who eher didn’t attend their proms or weren’t livg as their most thentic selv when they origally attend prom.</p></div><div class="article-body grid-full-bleed" data-qa="article-body"><div class="cb dn db-ns" data-qa="article-body-ad" data-ttid="article-body-ad-sktop"><div aria-hidn="te" class="hi-for-prt relative flex jtify-center ntent-box ems-center b bh mb-md mt-none pt-lg pb-lg" style="m-height:250px;borr-top-lor:;borr-bottom-lor:"><div class="center absolute w-100 borr-box" style="top:"><div class="dib gray-dark pl-xs pr-xs font-sans-serif light font-xxxxs lh-md" style="--primary-borr-lor:"></div></div><div data-ttid="placeholr-box" class="w-100 h-100 absolute flex flex-lumn jtify-center borr-box bg-offwhe" style="width:300px;height:250px"><div class="flex flex-lumn jtify-center font-sans-serif center font-xxs light gray-dark lh-md"><div>Advertisement</div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="article-body grid-full-bleed" data-qa="article-body"><div class="cb db dn-ns" data-qa="article-body-ad" data-ttid="article-body-ad-mobile"><div aria-hidn="te" class="hi-for-prt relative flex jtify-center ntent-box ems-center b bh mb-md mt-sm pt-sm pb-sm" style="m-height:250px;borr-top-lor:;borr-bottom-lor:"><div class="center absolute w-100 borr-box" style="top:"><div class="dib gray-dark pl-xs pr-xs font-sans-serif light font-xxxxs lh-md" style="--primary-borr-lor:"></div></div><div data-ttid="placeholr-box" class="w-100 h-100 absolute flex flex-lumn jtify-center borr-box bg-offwhe" style="width:300px;height:250px"><div class="flex flex-lumn jtify-center font-sans-serif center font-xxs light gray-dark lh-md"></div></div></div></div></div><div class="article-body grid-full-bleed" data-qa="article-body"><div data-qa="article-image" class="hi-for-prt"><div style="m-height:358px"></div></div></div><div class="article-body grid-center grid-body" data-qa="article-body"><h3 data-qa="article-hear" class=" pb-sm pt-md" id="FP37NUAAJZEENJK64YI7YX2W54"><div>‘We were able to provi a space where people knew they wouldn’t be judged’</div></h3></div><div class="article-body grid-center grid-body" data-qa="article-body"><p data-ttid="drop-p-letter" data-el="text" class="wpds-c-cYdRxM wpds-c-cYdRxM-iPJLV-css overriStyl font-py" dir="null"><i>Prachi Misra, 20, Tampa</i></p></div><div class="article-body grid-center grid-body" data-qa="article-body"><p data-ttid="drop-p-letter" data-el="text" class="wpds-c-cYdRxM wpds-c-cYdRxM-iPJLV-css overriStyl font-py" dir="null">This past amic year, I joed the Planned Parenthood Generatn Actn at the Universy of South Florida’s E-Board as event ordator, and the anizatn was hostg s first queer prom April. Wh this event,<b> </b>we provid a space where people knew they wouldn’t be judged for g as themselv and brgg who they wanted.</p></div><div class="article-body grid-center grid-body" data-qa="article-body"><p data-ttid="drop-p-letter" data-el="text" class="wpds-c-cYdRxM wpds-c-cYdRxM-iPJLV-css overriStyl font-py" dir="null">In creatg this safe space, we affirmed an aspect of their inty that tradnal high school proms overlook and sometim even dismiss. As a queer person of lor, I found healg to hear nversatns around me (“I’ve never met another queer Indian before”) and to create a space where people who felt visible were able to fd others like themselv and know that they have a support system — even if they didn’t grow up wh one.</p></div><div class="article-body grid-center grid-body" data-qa="article-body"><hr data-qa="article-ntent-divir" class="b bb bc-light pt-sm"/></div><div class="article-body grid-center grid-body grid-tablet-full-bleed" data-qa="article-body"><div data-qa="article-image" class="hi-for-prt"><div style="m-height:358px"></div></div></div><div class="article-body grid-center grid-body" data-qa="article-body"><h3 data-qa="article-hear" class=" pb-sm pt-md" id="XFNFDMCDLRBLXJBQ4BIAVXZG4U"><div>‘Beg out and proud is an achievement my ey’</div></h3></div><div class="article-body grid-center grid-body" data-qa="article-body"><p data-ttid="drop-p-letter" data-el="text" class="wpds-c-cYdRxM wpds-c-cYdRxM-iPJLV-css overriStyl font-py" dir="null"><i>Hayley Ianna, 23, Ptsburg, Kan.</i></p></div><div class="article-body grid-center grid-body" data-qa="article-body"><p data-ttid="drop-p-letter" data-el="text" class="wpds-c-cYdRxM wpds-c-cYdRxM-iPJLV-css overriStyl font-py" dir="null">My time at Pri prom was one I will never fet. I have always dreamed of gog to a prom like the on I’d watch the films back Atralia. When I moved to the Uned Stat to unrtake my master’s gree, my wife and I were thrilled that my school and town put on a prom dited to our muny. I was a closeted lbian back Atralia, and beg out and proud is an achievement my ey. It is so important to be able to be who you are on a night you are supposed to remember and have dreamed about forever.</p></div><div class="article-body grid-center grid-body" data-qa="article-body"><p data-ttid="drop-p-letter" data-el="text" class="wpds-c-cYdRxM wpds-c-cYdRxM-iPJLV-css overriStyl font-py" dir="null">I hear stori about trans youth or young LGBTQIA+ people not beg allowed to attend their schools’ proms and are then left wh a sour taste their mouth about prom. The Pri prom that was put on by <a href=">Q Space Pt</a> and <a href=">Ptsburg State GSA</a> helps remove the sour taste many my age may have. It also gave people like me, who realized who they were and beme proud after high school, a chance to relive a moment of youth we never believed we’d get back.</p></div><div class="article-body grid-center grid-body grid-tablet-full-bleed" data-qa="article-body"><div data-qa="article-image" class="hi-for-prt"><div style="m-height:358px"></div></div></div><div class="article-body grid-center grid-body" data-qa="article-body"><p data-ttid="drop-p-letter" data-el="text" class="wpds-c-cYdRxM wpds-c-cYdRxM-iPJLV-css overriStyl font-py" dir="null"><i>Photos urty of Molly Hottle, Riya Choksi, Prton Haton/Washgton Post Illtratn.</i></p></div><div class="article-body grid-center grid-body" data-qa="article-body"><div class="wpds-c-VkPmP hi-for-prt"><div></div></div></div><div class="flex mt-md grid-center grid-body"><div class="mb-lg-mod" data-qa="ments-btn-div"><button aria-label="Scroll to the ments sectn" data-qa="ments-btn" class="wpds-c-kSOqLF wpds-c-kSOqLF-SQjOY-variant-sendary wpds-c-kSOqLF-eHdizY-nsy-flt wpds-c-kSOqLF-ejCoEP-in-left ments hi-for-prt"><svg xmlns=" viewBox="0 0 16 16" fill="currentColor" aria-hidn="te" focable="false" role="img" class="wpds-c-fBqPWp "><path d="M14 14V2H2v9.47h8.18L12.43 13ZM3 10.52V3h10v9.23l-2.5-1.66Z"></path></svg><span class="ral-unt unfed" data-ral-notext="te"></span> Comments</button></div><div class="wpds-c-dXjReQ"><button id="gift-share-shortcut" class="wpds-c-kSOqLF wpds-c-kSOqLF-SQjOY-variant-sendary wpds-c-kSOqLF-biynoz-nsy-pact wpds-c-kSOqLF-ejCoEP-in-left hi-for-prt ml-sm"><svg xmlns=" viewBox="0 0 16 16" fill="currentColor" aria-hidn="te" focable="false" role="img" class="wpds-c-dJBvpf "><path d="M10.73 5h.14a1.75 1.75 0 0 0 1-2.25 1.83 1.83 0 0 0-.51-.75 1.72 1.72 0 0 0-1.48-.35 1.76 1.76 0 0 0-1.2.94L8 3.93l-.68-1.4A1.76 1.76 0 0 0 4 3.59 1.74 1.74 0 0 0 5.13 5H2v4h1v5h10V9h1V5ZM9.58 3a.77.77 0 0 1 .51-.4h.17a.73.73 0 0 1 .47.17.72.72 0 0 1 .27.71.72.72 0 0 1-.48.58l-1.77.66ZM5 3.43a.72.72 0 0 1 .27-.71.73.73 0 0 1 .47-.17h.17a.77.77 0 0 1 .51.4l.83 1.7L5.48 4A.74.74 0 0 1 5 3.43ZM3 6h4.5v2H3Zm1 3h3.5v4H4Zm4.5 4V9H12v4ZM13 8H8.5V6H13Z" data-name="Path 10"></path></svg><span class="wpds-c-iSKIAI">Gift this article</span>Gift Article</button></div></div><div class="grid-center grid-body"><div></div></div></article><div class="centered-layout grid-layout"><div class="grid-center grid-mobile-full-bleed"><div class="hi-for-prt ml-to mr-to mt-md pt-lg recirc" data-qa="recirc"><div class="flex-l jtify-center hi-for-prt"><div class="pr-sm ml-sm ml-0-ns b-l br-l bc-gray-darkt more-om-post"><div></div><div class="dn db-l pb-md pt-md"><div data-qa="newsletter" class="hi-for-prt relative"><div class="dib w-100"><div><div class="flex jtify-center align self-center center transn-all duratn-400 ease--out" data-qa="sc-newsletter-signup" aria-label=""><svg aria-labelledby="react-aria-1-aria" role="img" viewBox="0 0 100 80"><tle id="react-aria-1-aria">Loadg... .

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