Queer vs. Gay: How The Words Are Different, And Why It’s Important |

Contents:

• QUEER VS. GAY: HOW THE WORDS ARE DIFFERENT, AND WHY IT’S IMPORTANT
• AM I GAY ENOUGH? WHAT TO KNOW ABOUT QUEER INTY
• I'M A GAY ARMY OFFICER—QUEER TROOPS MT FIGHT BACK
• AM I GAY?
• HOW DO I KNOW IF I AM GAY? SIGNS YOU ARE GAY

QUEER VS. GAY: HOW THE WORDS ARE DIFFERENT, AND WHY IT’S IMPORTANT

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AM I GAY ENOUGH? WHAT TO KNOW ABOUT QUEER INTY

? SummaryIn the ntext of LGBTQ+ inty, the word gay is typilly ed reference to a person who is sexually and/or romantilly attracted to people of their own sex or genr. Some people may intify as both gay and queer, though others may e only one of the terms or a different term altogether.

You may have qutns about why some people intify as gay, queer, both, or another specific way. In this article, we will expla how the terms gay and queer are ed differently the ntext of sexualy and genr inty.

What is the difference between the words gay and queer? Both gay and queer are often ed as self-intifyg terms.

I'M A GAY ARMY OFFICER—QUEER TROOPS MT FIGHT BACK

In the ntext of sexual inty, the word gay is generally ed to mean “of, relatg to, or beg a person who is sexually or romantilly attracted to people of their own sex or genr. ” Often, the word gay is ed specifilly reference to men who are attracted to other men. Women who are attracted to other women often e the word lbian, though some women also e the term gay as well.

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AM I GAY?

Gay: An adjective and not a noun, most often ed to scribe men who are attracted to other men (except the aforementned s). )Sce I started acceptg that I was queer and havg queer enunters, I have been told numero tim that, as a super femme cis woman, I'm "not gay enough. —Devan, 26It sounds like you already know this, but let me say loud and clear: There is no such thg as not beg “gay enough.

” Many people the LGBTQ muny feel the same way you do, whether they’re fellow femm who don’t “appear” gay, bisexual people hetero relatnships, gay men who don’t f stereotypil standards, and so many others. In fact, gay people who don’t exprs their gayns wh an explicly “queer athetic” often experience what some psychologists ll “queer imposter syndrome.

HOW DO I KNOW IF I AM GAY? SIGNS YOU ARE GAY

A uple of lumns ago, Kira, a “femme-prentg queer, ” told me about her “extremely awkward ‘look, I'm gay! What do you do if you don’t want to bee a Profsnal Femme Gay Woman?

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