Ever sce middle school, people have asked Thomas Lloyd the same qutn repeatedly. "If I had a dime for every time I was asked, 'Why am I so gay?' I uld probably pay for one cred at Geetown." In this humoro talk, Lloyd explor the trici of social "verg" as a gay man, fdg muny and the importance of inty ownership.
Contents:
- WHAT DO YOU SAY TO “THAT’S SO GAY” AND OTHER ANTI-LGBTQ COMMENTS?
- WHY AM I "SO GAY?"
- WHAT’S SO BAD ABOUT “THAT’S SO GAY”?
- "THAT'S SO GAY" IS JT SO WRONG
- THAT'S SO GAY
- SYNONYMS FOR SO GAY
- HOW DO I KNOW IF I AM GAY? SIGNS YOU ARE GAY
WHAT DO YOU SAY TO “THAT’S SO GAY” AND OTHER ANTI-LGBTQ COMMENTS?
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WHY AM I "SO GAY?"
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WHAT’S SO BAD ABOUT “THAT’S SO GAY”?
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My tert the phrase “that’s so gay” veloped when I rearched straight male stunts at sixth form lleg. The young men had openly gay iends, supported gay rights and nmned homophobia. Yet several of them would also say “that’s so gay” when trated.
"THAT'S SO GAY" IS JT SO WRONG
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THAT'S SO GAY
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In such a ntext is not homophobic. This argument was supported by the narrativ of many of the 40 young gay people a study I am unrtakg wh lleagu at Durham Universy.
SYNONYMS FOR SO GAY
In the bat about “that’s so gay”, is important to regnise that gay youths also e the phrase.
Only a mory of participants – ls than a third – thought that the phrase was homophobic, and even fewer said that they never ed . Most of the young gay people my study felt “that’s so gay” would only be homophobic if was directed at a gay person, and wh negative tent. So there is no easy answer to whether “that’s so gay” is homophobic.
Homophobic hate crim are classified as such if the victim believ to be so.
HOW DO I KNOW IF I AM GAY? SIGNS YOU ARE GAY
If young gay people are sayg that they do not experience the phrase “that’s so gay” as homophobic – and if they are even g the phrase themselv – then perhaps we should accept their arguments and ncentrate on other battl.
It is val that we bat homophobia schools, and promote equaly of sexualy.