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Contents:

• HOW GAY IS YOUR FOOD?
• WHAT DO YOU MEAN, “GAY FOOD”?
• MOVE OVER BUD LIGHT, GAY WATER IS HERE AND IT’S QUEER
• JAM BEARD AND THE JOYS AND PAS OF GAY INTY
• BAKED ALASKA IS THE ULTIMATE GAY FOOD
• THE 'GAY DIET'
• THE HAVE A GAY DAY PANTRY
• LUXURY GAY SALENTO AND LECCE FOOD & WE TOUR
• A GAY UPLE RAN A RAL RTRANT PEACE. THEN NEW NEIGHBORS ARRIVED.
• CANNED CKTAIL ‘GAY WATER’ AIMS TO SH ON BUD LIGHT’S DYLAN MULVANEY DISASTER

HOW GAY IS YOUR FOOD?

And yet, as a gay man-ish person, I have always found the dners to be an unniably queer space, even if I uldn’t offer the exact reason why. No flourish of sce mak a dish bisexual, nor do flambe make your duck or ice cream “homosexual”: the are terms applied to people, and on that don’t transfer to food, even if an LGBTQ someone igned that dish. Jt as the gay bar is only the tip of the queer-nightlife iceberg, the explicly queer food bs is only the most visible aspect of a much larger, often unseen universe of queer food, one that’s been evolvg and shapg Amerin culture for s.

I found when out queer woman Angela Dimayuga ran the kchen at New York’s Missn Che, wa staff along the genr spectm slippg my boyiend and me lorful, spicy dish wh a si of flirtatn, a playful nod we associated wh gay bars a few drks , not trendy rtrants. Durg sprawlg dners at my own apartment, my clique I ll the “gay bros” ll me the “Barelegged Contsa, ” thanks to my fondns for the Food Network star’s recip, served at a table becked wh seasonal r like dick-o’-lanterns while I waltz through the kchen short shorts.

WHAT DO YOU MEAN, “GAY FOOD”?

The are all moments where the culary queer manifts as s own type of rabow: It wasn’t jt this or jt that which ma the meal a b gay; was a ltle of everythg, the magic of polil liv lived wh joy. As rtrants across the untry toss some rabow food lorg to palize on Pri, queer-owned bs make much more meangful donatns — and that activism is part of what mak their rabow cupk gay, and not jt gay for pay, as Eater’s Adam Mosa wr.

MOVE OVER BUD LIGHT, GAY WATER IS HERE AND IT’S QUEER

The rtrant grew to an unlikely cha, born an era when gay bars were vert, closed to outsirs, and absolutely not statns for bachelorette parti. Also, lerally leggy cktail glass, burgers as large as the pecs of the hunky servers that liver them, and a “No Hate” chicken sandwich parodyg a certa homophobic Southern cha: All are a part of Hamburger Mary’s long, hard participatn the queer cultural athetic tradn of mp. ” To Sontag, the gay embrace of mp is an assiatnist tactic: Camp’s emphasis on playfulns thwarted the moral strictur of 1964, and allowed a gay sensibily to crique and permeate mass culture at a time when livg an outwardly gay life was taboo.

Stephen Vir, visg assistant profsor of history and mm studi at Bryn Mawr College and thor of the upg Queer Belonggs, has studied this phenomena as relat to The Gay Cookbook, a 1965 volume by Lou Rand Hogan published amidst mastream tert gay subjects sparked by Sontag’s say and an opportuny to ame gay male life as domtic stead of based, though this domticy clud jok about workg wh “a tough piece of meat” and recip for “sorory-sized ssag. Hogan’s book broke through by subvertg social stereotyp wh humor, which would appeal both to gay home oks and heterosexuals who wanted on the joke. A 1983 effort, The Gay Of Cookg by “The Kchen Fairy, ” scribed creamg butter as “no different om most Saturday nights”; 1983’s LA Gay Gourmet by Carl Mueller is dited “To all our iends wh oral fixatns.

Image men tweed slacks and smart sweaters mixg somethg lled a “Margara” while dancg to the latt Joe Tex bop: that was the behd-closed-doors gay urban pneerg that Birdsall speaks of. For black gay men, “tea” n take many forms — a slang term for gossip or a suggtn of social (and sexual) get togethers — but, unlike mp food styl, vokg tea isn’t strictly about parody. Wrer John Birdsall (om left), photographer Nik Sharma, rtratr and chef Preeti Mistry talk about the ncept of the "queer kchen" wh Las Volger, the edor of Jarry, a gay men's food magaze.

JAM BEARD AND THE JOYS AND PAS OF GAY INTY

As Birdsall has wrten, "It's food that tak pleasure serly, as an end self, an assertn of polics or a human birthright, the product of culture — this is the legacy of gay food wrers who shaped morn Amerin food. " It was this narrowly macho foc that led Birdsall to set the rerd not-so-straight wh Ameri, Your Food Is So Gay, his Lucky Peach say that won a Jam Beard Journalism Award 2014.

BAKED ALASKA IS THE ULTIMATE GAY FOOD

Birdsall, now 56, remembers he and a boyiend readg aloud om Olney's wrgs, feelg like they were gettg a glimpse of a secret gay world — one that was, by necsy, elive.

Mistry, who origally wanted to be a filmmaker, was spired by the chefs' creativy and fearlsns, so much so that she left a job the "gay bubble" of Framele to start trag fe dg at Claridge's London. A chat wh a gay profsor led to an vatn to the med school's "secret gay potluck" — secret not out of fear, but simply bee "they didn't want any straights to e, " said Sharma.

Birdsall, who won a send Jam Beard Award for Straight Up Passg — an article about gay chefs Jarry's first issue — se queer okg as an act of anti-normative transgrsn and ristance. In fact, several high-profile, out chefs bristled at beg tegorized as "gay chefs, " much the way that many artists rist beg fed as "women wrers" or "female micians. Or was jt that the chefs — whe and cisgenr, as Mistry pots out — still feared the repercsns of embracg a higher-profile gay inty, even the more equal tim?

THE 'GAY DIET'

The New York Tim wh the help of Barney's creative ambassador Simon Doonan has cid this week that your food n be gay or article is om the archive of our partner New York Tim wh the help of Barney's creative ambassador Simon Doonan has cid this week that your food n be gay or straight.

Apparently, a "gay" food isn't jt a potato that seeks marriage equaly, remds you was born this way, or owns a summer share on Fire Island.

Acrdg to Doonan, his new (satiril) book Gay Men Don't Get Fat and his terview wh The Tim today, gay food is lighter, brighter, more artistic, art-directed--food that you'd fd where health and athetics tersect (and that's very different than what Doonan labels "lbian food"--"Organic olive oil, thick porridge, heapg helpgs of wheat germ, " and s ilk).

THE HAVE A GAY DAY PANTRY

" We enjoyed Doonan's sweepg gay food generalizatns so we put them to the unscientific, anecdotal tt, assigned them a rpective Ksey ratg and me up wh your (pletely unscientific) gui to the sexualy of food, om gayt to straightt:What is: Shi; Sashimi; Cdo; Seafood Tartare; Ceviche What Doonan Says: "Japane food — that is some serly gay food...

You'd only eat this food a rtrant servg an assortment Doonan's other gay foods, whether 's an appetizer at an Italian rtrant or a ma at a Japane rtrant--the place probably serv lighter, stylized fare on stunng, perhaps over-worked plat. The Outlier: Spicy Mayo Anythg Rolls; Supermarket Shi; Any roll wh more than three gredients or one ied object What is: Marons What Doonan Says: "The maron craze is the ne pl ultra of gay foorie.

LUXURY GAY SALENTO AND LECCE FOOD & WE TOUR

" What Ksey Says: The Ksey 5 is "predomantly homosexual, only cintally heterosexual" What We Say: Though they look like lorful cheeburgers, y, all tak is an "cintal" n- wh Cool Whip to that gay credibily. " What Ksey Says: The Ksey 4 is "predomantly homosexual, but more than cintally heterosexual" What We Say: Clearly this isn't the first pairg between the black bean soup and the sour-cream pairg.

There are novelty mach ma pecially for pani-makg and grillg and certaly has more flair than a ham and chee on wheat bread--Doonan refers to wheat bread as "ferocly lbian and wildly heterosexual"--but all the hidn meats and chee certaly make this food an equal straddler of gay-straight le. " What Ksey Says: The Ksey 2 is "predomantly heterosexual, but more than cintally homosexual" What We Say: The Tim wrer nces that although the meatloaf is unrelentgly heterosexual, non-potato-based sis like a salad substute n go a long way temperg the Burt Reynolds-ns of this dish. ’" What Ksey Says: The Ksey 1 is "predomantly heterosexual, only cintally homosexual" What We Say: Doonan explas that baked chips are herently gay...

A GAY UPLE RAN A RAL RTRANT PEACE. THEN NEW NEIGHBORS ARRIVED.

" What We Say: Burros are the clearly the hate crime of the gay food world and brg together Doonan's unholy try of meat, chee, and avodo (along wh that dodge-worthy sour cream). Beg a gay culary figure is important to me bee ’s a legacy built on the shoulrs of Jam Beard, Craig Claiborne, Bill Neal, and many others. When I was wrg The Cookg Gene, beme very important to me to do what they uldn’t do, which was to say, hey, gay chefs e om gay kids who once dreamed of wowg people wh their food and flair.

Even though we stggle wh anti-gay sentiment the morn food world and kchen, knowg that there are so many women, men, and trans dividuals the food world mak me feel scribably and eply nnected. A publicist iend of me asked me if I wanted to morate a panel on gay food, and I agreed to , bee looked like somethg that wouldn’t take much time, I like moratg panels, and the topics of gay inty and food are of tert to me. Nohels, I thk the topic of LGBT people and our relatnship wh food is soclogilly tertg, and, sce the 15-16 ln Amerins over the age of 18 who self-intify as gay (acrdg to a 2012 Harris Interactive poll), have an timated disposable e of $790 billn, ’s of more than pure amic tert for rtrant operators.

CANNED CKTAIL ‘GAY WATER’ AIMS TO SH ON BUD LIGHT’S DYLAN MULVANEY DISASTER

It clud Jam Beard Foundatn executive vice print Mchell Davis, whose somethg of an tellectual tan when to thkg and talkg about food; celebry pastry chefs Pichet Ong and Zac Young; SD26 general manager John Fanng; Dale Schnell, executive chef at KITCHN the Out Hotel (obvly targetg a gay market), where the panel discsn was held; and other bloggers, chefs and rtratrs, as well as CEO Michael Belk. That’s not to say we didn’t joke around and keep the nversatn movg, but Zac Young, arguably the most stereotypilly gay man on the panel — cute, kd of flamboyant, a pastry chef — almost immediately steered the nversatn toward topics of inty, stereotyp and misnceptns. On the ntrary, rtrants terg to gay men, particular (the nversatn foced on gay men sce, regrettably, no women were on the panel), tend to serve fort food.