I me out as gay to my wife. Now she and my son hate me. What n I do? | Xtra Magaze

Contents:

• I ME OUT AS GAY TO MY WIFE. NOW SHE AND MY SON HATE ME. WHAT N I DO?
• ‘HONEY, I’VE GOT A SECRET’ : WHEN GAY MEN E OUT TO THEIR WIV
• ASK JOHN: 'I'VE HAD A GAY AFFAIR ON MY WIFE'
• MARV GAYE’S WIFE JANIS HUNTER GAYE DI AGED 66
• WHEN YOUR SPOE OUT AS GAY

I ME OUT AS GAY TO MY WIFE. NOW SHE AND MY SON HATE ME. WHAT N I DO?

Many lbian, gay, bisexual or transgenr people e out years after they have been married to an oppose-sex heterosexual wife or hband. Was she accg me of turng her hband gay? Like the time he told me he had gone on a porn se to see how gay men “do .

‘HONEY, I’VE GOT A SECRET’ : WHEN GAY MEN E OUT TO THEIR WIV

I’ve known upl, gay and straight, who were open relatnships. The steam room and sna at my lol Y served as a kd of after-work social club for men who were gay ― and for those who had wiv and kids.

I knew a gay imprar when I lived San Francis the 1980s. One night he threw a dner party for his gay circle of iends at Trar Vic’s.

ASK JOHN: 'I'VE HAD A GAY AFFAIR ON MY WIFE'

I me out as gay and divorced her. My wife said she would rather I be ad than gay.

I want to affirm that you serve to live your tth as a gay person, and to be happy, regardls of how your fay has experienced your g out.

MARV GAYE’S WIFE JANIS HUNTER GAYE DI AGED 66

It was wrong for your wife to say she would rather you be ad than gay. While I image she was gog through some terrible feelgs of her own, and she serv to be supported as well, ’s never okay to imply that a gay or queer person is better ad than out. I’m so glad you’re gay.

WHEN YOUR SPOE OUT AS GAY

This world needs you , exactly as you are—a gay man wh the urage took to e out now, after all this time. I enurage you to nnect wh a gay or queer muny that will give you this same msage, over and over, until you start to really believe . There are people the gay muny who would like to meet you.