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Never heard of the term before? It has to do wh what kds of inti and experienc — namely, cisgenr and heterosexual on — are prumed to be the “flt” our society. And, as a practice and a belief system, leav a lot of damage s wake.</p><p>Heteronormativy don’t jt harm the queer folks whose reali are dimished or outright omted by . By operatg unr a nstct that only certa inti are “normal,” sets up other groups — across rac, ethnic groups, and abili — to be siarly othered. In other words, when we ci ’s okay for one or two select inti to be given “flt” stat, that leav a whole lot of people on the margs.</p><div><div class="ConsumerMarketgUnThemedWrapper-iUTMTf jssHut nsumer-marketg-un nsumer-marketg-un--article-mid-ntent" role="prentatn" aria-hidn="te"><div class="nsumer-marketg-un__slot nsumer-marketg-un__slot--article-mid-ntent nsumer-marketg-un__slot---ntent"></div><div class="journey-un"></div></div></div><p>In real, practil terms, though, what do heteronormativy mean? We’ll dive a ltle eper to the heteronormative fn, as well as break down s history and offer up some heteronormativy exampl, below.</p><div class="Contaer-bkChBi byNLHx"></div><p><strong>In this article, you’ll fd:</strong></p><div class="AdWrapper-dQtivb fZrssQ ad ad---ntent"><div class="ad__slot ad__slot---ntent" data-no-id="64smjr"></div></div><p><a href="#heteronormative">“Heteronormative” Meang</a></p><div data-attr-viewport-monor="le-recirc" class="le-recirc-wrapper le-recirc-observer-target-1 viewport-monor-anchor"></div><p><a href="#heteronormativy">What is the Orig of Heteronormativy?</a></p><p><a href="#whybad">Why is Heteronormativy Bad?</a></p><p><a href="#exampl">8 Exampl of Heteronormativy</a></p><div style="outle:none" id="heteronormative" tabx="-1"><h2>“Heteronormative” Meang</h2></div><p>To be heternormative is to <a data-offer-url=" class="external-lk" data-event-click="{"element":"ExternalLk","outgogURL":"" href=" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">hold the assumptn</a> that most or all people are straight and cisgenr unls stated otherwise; ’s about what we nsir the flt way of existg to be. (And for a reher on what terms like cisgenr mean: remember that <a href=">genr inty</a> is where you see yourself on the ntuum of genr. If you intify wh the sex you were born wh at birth, you are nsired cisgenr. Meanwhile, <a href=">sexual orientatn</a> is who you are attracted to, and n range om beg straight/heterosexual to beg gay or anythg on the spectm.)</p><p>Heteronormativy sets the standard that only straight and cisgenr inti are the norm. People and beliefs n be heteronormative, but so n thgs like stutns, laws, and cultur at large. Heteronormativy is both a form of and fuels thgs like homophobia, transphobia and genr inty-based discrimatn.</p><p>Sometim heteronormativy as seen the law, for stance, might not acknowledge the existence of non-cis, non-straight folks at all — say, by g genred and hetero language to scribe the rights of married people. Other tim, a heteronormative law may technilly clu non-cis, non-straight folks wh , but wh more barriers volved; an example uld be sayg that trans people have accs to a certa right, like the e of their preferred bathroom, <em>if</em> they’ve unrgone genr nfirmatn surgery. That, this example, is settg the expectatn that one’s genr inty mt f a body part-specific bary, and that’s an example of heteronormativy as well.</p><p>It’s worth notg, too, that when speakg of people, beliefs, and practic that acknowledge only cisgenr reali, there’s a specific term for that: cisnormativy, which <a data-offer-url=" class="external-lk" data-event-click="{"element":"ExternalLk","outgogURL":"" href=" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">LGBTQ+ Primary Hub</a> f as a “disurse based on (the) assumptn that cisgenr is the norm and privileg this over any other form of genr inty.” However, ’s also accurate to clu cisnormativy wh the heteronormativy umbrella.</p><div style="outle:none" id="heteronormativy" tabx="-1"><h2>What is the Orig of Heteronormativy?</h2></div><p>There’s a lot that’s been wrten about the <a href=">ventn of heterosexualy</a> and the <a href=">ventn of genr</a> — and how we even got to a place where hetero, cis experienc got to be seen as the flt.</p></div></div></div><div class="GridItem-buujkM fVLMby grid--em grid-layout__asi"><div class="StickyBoxWrapper-jfYB kNleGZ sticky-box"><div class="StickyBoxPrimary-dzWDWL cdhYoN sticky-box__primary"><div class="Contaer-bkChBi byNLHx"></div><div class="AdWrapper-dQtivb fZrssQ ad ad--rail"><div class="ad__slot ad__slot--rail" data-no-id="tcpzlk"></div></div><div class="ConsumerMarketgUnThemedWrapper-iUTMTf jssHut nsumer-marketg-un nsumer-marketg-un--display-rail" role="prentatn" aria-hidn="te"><div class="nsumer-marketg-un__slot nsumer-marketg-un__slot--display-rail"></div><div class="journey-un"></div></div></div><div class="StickyBoxPlaceholr-grPmrg dxAvXx"></div></div></div></div><div class="RowWrapper-UmqTg HEhan full-bleed-ad row-mid-ntent-ad"><div class="StickyMidContentAdWrapper-fSBzwl drzyIa ad-stickymidntent"><div class="AdWrapper-dQtivb fZrssQ ad ad--mid-ntent should-hold-space"><div class="ad__slot ad__slot--mid-ntent" data-no-id="sjxv8h"></div></div></div></div><div class="GridWrapper-cAzTTK kHBDeH grid grid-margs grid-ems-2 ArticlePageChunksGrid-hfxa bjczjj grid-layout--adrail narrow wi-adrail"><div class="GridItem-buujkM stRKV grid--em grid-layout__ntent"><div class="BodyWrapper-kufPGa XtZXd body body__ntaer article__body" data-journey-hook="client-ntent" data-ttid="BodyWrapper"><div class="body__ner-ntaer"><p>As far as the orig of the term self, heteronormativy was popularized 1991 by <a href=">Michael Warner</a>, a social theorist and profsor at Yale. His work <a data-offer-url=" class="external-lk" data-event-click="{"element":"ExternalLk","outgogURL":"" href=" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">built</a> off <a href=">Gayle Rub</a>’s ias about the “<a data-offer-url=" class="external-lk" data-event-click="{"element":"ExternalLk","outgogURL":"" href=" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">sex/genr system</a>” and the poet Adrienne Rich’s work labelg the ia of “<a href=">pulsory heterosexualy</a>.”</p><div style="outle:none" id="whybad" tabx="-1"><h2>Why is Heteronormativy Bad?</h2></div><p>Labels, cludg those related to genr inty and sexualy, are ed by many people as ways of intifyg themselv and disverg their inti; others choose to avoid labels altogether. No matter which mp you fall to, there are many reasons why heteronormativy is an ia that should be rejected. Below, we’ve round up four of the biggt reasons.</p><div role="headg" aria-level="3" class="headg-h3">1. If you’re not heteronormative, you’re forced to expla yourself, while cisgenr and heterosexual people don’t have to.</div><p>When your inty do not here wh heteronormativy, you are often asked to expla yourself — why you don’t have a boyiend/girliend, how sex for you “works,” and other sensive, appropriate qutns. But here’s the thg: You don’t owe an explanatn to anyone! It’s no one’s bs but your own who you are attracted to, how you intify (as a woman, as a man, as a woman sometim and a man other tim, or whether you don’t intify as any genr), and how you exprs your genr or non-nformg inty.</p><div role="headg" aria-level="3" class="headg-h3">2. Assumg that people only intify as eher male or female is rrect.</div><p>The unobjectnable realy is that not everyone intifi as a man or as a woman, all the time or ever. Some people intify as genrfluid, for stance, which means their inty n move om one si of the spectm to the other, and other people intify as <a href=">nonbary</a> or as genrls altogether. The most important thg to remember is that everyone’s genr n be unique, and everyone’s genr inty and exprsn is important to rpect.</p><div data-attr-viewport-monor="le-recirc" class="le-recirc-wrapper le-recirc-observer-target-2 viewport-monor-anchor"></div><p>Further, "female" and "male" even as solely blogil signatns still exclu some people, who are often classified as "tersex." <a href=">Intersex</a> means that one's anatomy or geics do not le up wh typil expectatns for eher male or female people. Heteronormativy would have society believe that to be tersex is to not be normal — which is simply unte. For tersex people, doctors and parents have often cid their genr at birth and genal renstctive surgery is performed to turn what is seen as atypil genalia to somethg that is regnizably eher male or female, keepg wh heteronormative expectatns.</p><p><a data-offer-url=" class="external-lk" data-event-click="{"element":"ExternalLk","outgogURL":"" href=" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">Acrdg to the Intersex Society of North Ameri</a>, is difficult to offer ncrete statistics on how many people are born tersex, bee the spectm of what unts as tersex gets plited. Experts at medil centers the U.S. say that one out of 1,500 to 2,000 births have “atypil” genalia. <a href=">Rearch</a> om the <em>Journal of Clil Endocrology and Metabolism</em> shows that a signifint number of tersex people who had genal surgery durg their fancy or childhood are unhappy wh later life — somethg that would be pletely avoidable if not for the prsure to make people to nform to beg eher female or male.</p><div role="headg" aria-level="3" class="headg-h3">3. Assumg all people are straight is rrect.</div><p>Pla and simple, not everyone is straight. And not everyone is gay or straight. <a href=">One five</a> members of Gen Z intify as queer, but even if the technil majory of people intify as straight, 's wrong to assume someone falls to the majory. To make sure everyone feels rpected and reprented, never assume anythg about someone's inty unls they tell you themselv. 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Alternativ</div></div></div></a><div class="SummaryItemByleWrapper-boCfbi cuRXdL summary-em__byle-date-in"><div class="SummaryItemBaseByle-fFbXkY dhnQGM summary-em__byle"><div class="summary-em__byle__ntent"><div data-ttid="BylWrapper" class="BylWrapper-KIudk irTIfE byl"><p class="ByleWrapper-jWHrLH gETtIb byle byl__byle" data-ttid="ByleWrapper" emProp="thor" emType="><span emProp="name" class="ByleNamWrapper-jbHncj fuDQVo"><span data-ttid="ByleName" class="ByleName-kwmrLn cYaBaU byle__name"><span class="BaseWrap-sc-gjQpdd BaseText-ewhhUZ BylePreamble-iJolpQ iUEiRd hXReUT gnILss byle__preamble">By </span>Aiyana Ishmael </span></span></p></div></div></div></div></div></div></li><li><div class="SummaryItemWrapper-iwvBff kraTsj summary-em summary-em--has-borr summary-em--ARTICLE summary-em--no-in summary-em--text-align-left summary-em--layout-placement-si-by-si summary-em--layout-posn-image-left summary-em--layout-proportns-33-66 summary-em--si-by-si-align-center 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class="summary-em__byle__ntent"><div data-ttid="BylWrapper" class="BylWrapper-KIudk irTIfE byl"><p class="ByleWrapper-jWHrLH gETtIb byle byl__byle" data-ttid="ByleWrapper" emProp="thor" emType="><span emProp="name" class="ByleNamWrapper-jbHncj fuDQVo"><span data-ttid="ByleName" class="ByleName-kwmrLn cYaBaU byle__name"><span class="BaseWrap-sc-gjQpdd BaseText-ewhhUZ BylePreamble-iJolpQ iUEiRd hXReUT gnILss byle__preamble">By </span>Sara Delgado</span></span></p></div></div></div></div></div></div></li><li><div class="AdWrapper-dQtivb fZrssQ RecircMostPopularSummaryItem-jQxxiw dabqgR ad ad--asi"><div class="ad__slot ad__slot--asi" data-no-id="7h07w"></div></div></li></ul><div class="RecircMostPopularFooter-enPjgs gvTU"></div></div></div></div><div class="StickyBoxPlaceholr-grPmrg dxAvXx"></div></div></div></div><div class="RowWrapper-UmqTg HEhan full-bleed-ad row-mid-ntent-ad"><div class="StickyMidContentAdWrapper-fSBzwl drzyIa ad-stickymidntent"><div class="AdWrapper-dQtivb fZrssQ ad ad--mid-ntent should-hold-space"><div class="ad__slot ad__slot--mid-ntent" data-no-id="a2hsom"></div></div></div></div><div class="GridWrapper-cAzTTK kHBDeH grid grid-margs grid-ems-2 ArticlePageChunksGrid-hfxa bjczjj grid-layout--adrail narrow wi-adrail"><div class="GridItem-buujkM stRKV grid--em grid-layout__ntent"><div class="BodyWrapper-kufPGa XtZXd body body__ntaer article__body" data-journey-hook="client-ntent" data-ttid="BodyWrapper"><div class="body__ner-ntaer"><p>And even if someone choos to label themselv a certa way at any given time, that don't mean they n't change their md. In her groundbreakg 2008 book <em>Sexual Fluidy: Unrstandg Women’s Dire and Love</em>, femist psychologist Lisa Diamond wr about how people n be sexually fluid; other words, at some pot your life, you uld feel pletely straight, while at other tim, you might feel attracted to the same-sex — and then you might go back to feelg straight.</p><p>Historilly, people have lled this gog through a “phase,” Diamond explas, leadg to <a href=">meang terms</a> — such as “lbians until graduatn” (a.k.a. LUGS) or “hasbians” — which are evince of heteronormativy. They are harmful bee they may make you feel like you were dog somethg abnormal, somethg weird, or somethg that wasn’t really you. It’s OK for our inti to be flux; not everyone has an inty that remas the same throughout their liv.</p><div role="headg" aria-level="3" class="headg-h3">4. Heteronormativy leads to ser nsequenc for those who aren't heteronormative.</div><p><a data-offer-url=" class="external-lk" data-event-click="{"element":"ExternalLk","outgogURL":"" href=" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">The Natnal Coaln for the Homels</a> reports that while <a href=">20%</a> of young people the U.S. are LGBTQ, 40% of young people experiencg homelsns who are served by agenci intify as LGBT.</p><p>Fay rejectn and discrimatn, ed by cultural views that anythg not straight or cisgenr is abnormal or even dangero, are huge factors. “The vulnerable gay and transgenr youth often n away om home bee of fay nflict and then face overt discrimatn when seekg alternative hog, which is pound by stutnalized discrimatn ferally fund programs,” <a href=">the Center for Amerin Progrs</a> has noted.</p><p>It’s not jt homels shelters and on the street where LGBTQ youth face harassment and safety issu. Even if fai are supportive of LGBTQ inti, the statistics on school bullyg agast LGBTQ people are alarmg. <a href=">Reportg</a> on data released by the CDC, the Human Rights Coaln found that trans, gay, lbian and bisexual young people are all signifintly more likely to be bullied on school property pared to cis, straight youth. A full 43% of transgenr youth have been bullied at school, and 29% have even been threatened or jured wh a weapon on school property. This bullyg and harassment extends to the onle liv of LGBTQIA+ youth, too; <a data-offer-url=" class="external-lk" data-event-click="{"element":"ExternalLk","outgogURL":"" href=" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">acrdg to GLAAD</a>, 49% of queer stunts have experienced cyberbullyg.</p><div data-attr-viewport-monor="le-recirc" class="le-recirc-wrapper le-recirc-observer-target-3 viewport-monor-anchor"></div><p>When people who fall outsi the narrow mold of cisgenr, straight inti are ma to feel ls-than or even endangered over the way they intify, that’s heternormativy at s most pernic at work.</p><div style="outle:none" id="exampl" tabx="-1"><h2>8 Exampl of Heteronormativy</h2></div><div role="headg" aria-level="3" class="headg-h3">1. Documents that force people to check “male” or “female” box</div><p>As a heteronormativy example, this one may seem obv, but so many forms of documentatn — om driver’s licens to the “required rmatn” fields volved purchasg a flight — still force people to opt- to one of two stated genrs: male or female. That’s assumg that the tegori work for all people, thereby playg heavily to heteronormativy.</p><div role="headg" aria-level="3" class="headg-h3">2. The dner bill beg placed ont of whoever appears mascule</div><p>Heteronormativy has a lot to do wh rercg genr rol (meang: cis, bary on). Often, you’ll see the kds of assumptns bee visible when ’s time to pay for a meal.</p><div role="headg" aria-level="3" class="headg-h3">3. Fertily benefs that only ver IVF for cis, bary people</div><p>Queer and genr non-nformg folks <a href=">face enough challeng</a> when attemptg to accs inty-affirmg medil re. Layer on top of that surance plans and medil benefs that clearly exclu them, and you’ve got health re at s most heternormative. One example of this? <a data-offer-url=" class="external-lk" data-event-click="{"element":"ExternalLk","outgogURL":"" href=" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">IVF treatments</a>. Some surers fe fertily such a way that requir heterosexual sex to get verage of IVF treatments, and that directly exclus queer people and upl who <em>aren’t</em> fertile but who <em>do</em> need IVF as a tool for growg their fai.</p><div role="headg" aria-level="3" class="headg-h3">4. The ia that an S.O. should e before your muny</div><p>In a hband-and-wife-crazed culture, muny is too-often fed as happeng wh the blogil fay stcture only. It’s the ia that you should get married, pop out a uple kids, and allow the iends of your teen years and 20s to settle to the background. That’s pretty stark ntrast to the role that muny has historilly played wh queer culture, and is an example of the way heternormativy lims <em>all</em> of .</p><div role="headg" aria-level="3" class="headg-h3">5. Genr reveal parti</div><p>Makg the perceived genr of your fet a e for celebratn isn’t jt harmful the heteronormative sense. Genr reveal parti n also <a href=">start wildfir</a>. That’s jt a fact.</p><div role="headg" aria-level="3" class="headg-h3">6. The belief that you should only have to share your pronouns if they fall outsi of he/him/his or she/her/hers</div><p>Here’s an example of slightly more subtle heteronormativy. Say you’re a cis person who believ that, when meetg new people, there’s no need to ever share your pronouns bee they’re the “expected” on. That’s effectively the same thg as believg you are “normal,” and that only people outsi the norm need to share this kd of rmatn. In realy, no one’s pronouns should be assumed.</p><div role="headg" aria-level="3" class="headg-h3">7. Phras like “gay bt iend” and “gay marriage”</div><p>When cishet people take tegori that queer people are a part of and unnecsarily add “gay” or “queer” as a qualifier, that impli a (heteronormative) belief that queer folks are separate om the whole. And the se of harmful phras like “gay bt iend,” the effect — whether you mean or not — n be tokenizg and humanizg. There are a uple exceptns to this le, as wh our need to talk about the fact that gay marriage — and not marriage at large — is <a href=">unr attack the U.S.</a> In general though, unls you’re wh the muny, don’t e “gay” and “queer” as a qualifier unls ’s actually relevant that you do.</p><div role="headg" aria-level="3" class="headg-h3">8. Equatg sexualy and genr inty wh appearance</div><p>Phras like “but they didn’t <em>look</em> trans” or “I didn’t thk he was gay — he’s so mascule lookg!” aren’t jt extremely harmful, they also aren't rooted realy. Though some people enjoy prentg and playg wh their genr via thgs like clothg and makp, the tth is that how we look isn’t a signpost for how we intify or who we’re attracted to. While heteronormativy might want you to believe that appearg mascule or feme on the outsi rri immutable meang, people across the genr spectm n look any variety of ways — which is why ’s important to never make assumptns.</p></div></div></div><div class="GridItem-buujkM fVLMby grid--em grid-layout__asi"><div class="StickyBoxWrapper-jfYB jxBcTH sticky-box"><div class="StickyBoxPrimary-dzWDWL cdhYoN sticky-box__primary"><div class="AdWrapper-dQtivb fZrssQ ad ad--rail"><div class="ad__slot ad__slot--rail" data-no-id="m26skd"></div></div><div class="ConsumerMarketgUnThemedWrapper-iUTMTf jssHut nsumer-marketg-un nsumer-marketg-un--display-rail" role="prentatn" aria-hidn="te"><div class="nsumer-marketg-un__slot nsumer-marketg-un__slot--display-rail"></div><div class="journey-un"></div></div><div data-attr-viewport-monor="" class="RecircMostPopularWrapper-bRuGTi jkTTgR recirc-most-popular-wrapper viewport-monor-anchor"><div class="RecircMostPopularConter-jiViNn ktrplG 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class="SummaryItemHedTag-TWblf gxaOcP" data-ttid="SummaryItemHed">I Drsed Like Lori Harvey for a Week to Fd the Bt Pl-Size Alternativ</div></div></div></a><div class="SummaryItemByleWrapper-boCfbi cuRXdL summary-em__byle-date-in"><div class="SummaryItemBaseByle-fFbXkY dhnQGM summary-em__byle"><div class="summary-em__byle__ntent"><div data-ttid="BylWrapper" class="BylWrapper-KIudk irTIfE byl"><p class="ByleWrapper-jWHrLH gETtIb byle byl__byle" data-ttid="ByleWrapper" emProp="thor" emType="><span emProp="name" class="ByleNamWrapper-jbHncj fuDQVo"><span data-ttid="ByleName" class="ByleName-kwmrLn cYaBaU byle__name"><span class="BaseWrap-sc-gjQpdd BaseText-ewhhUZ BylePreamble-iJolpQ iUEiRd hXReUT gnILss byle__preamble">By </span>Aiyana Ishmael </span></span></p></div></div></div></div></div></div></li><li><div class="SummaryItemWrapper-iwvBff kraTsj summary-em summary-em--has-borr summary-em--ARTICLE summary-em--no-in summary-em--text-align-left summary-em--layout-placement-si-by-si summary-em--layout-posn-image-left summary-em--layout-proportns-33-66 summary-em--si-by-si-align-center summary-em--si-by-si-image-right-mobile-false summary-em--standard RecircMostPopularSummaryItem-jQxxiw enZBZX" role="button" tabx="0"><div class="SummaryItemAssetContaer-gwhFFH VOyg summary-em__asset-ntaer"><a class="SummaryItemImageLk-dshqxb cPpCwE summary-em__image-lk summary-em-trackg__image-lk" href=" aria-hidn="te" tabx="-1" data-ponent-type="recirc-river" data-recirc-id="em-image-3" data-recirc-pattern="summary-em" target="_self"><span class="SpanWrapper-umhxW kGxnNB rponsive-asset SummaryItemRponsiveAsset-hjGIGg egpoQR summary-em__image"><div data-tt="aspect-rat-ntaer" class="AspectRatContaer-bJHpJz hlQxkn"><div class="aspect-rat--overlay-ntaer"><picture class="RponsiveImagePicture-cWuUZO dUOtEa SummaryItemRponsiveAsset-hjGIGg egpoQR summary-em__image rponsive-image"><noscript><source media="(max-width: 767px)" srcSet="" siz="100vw"/><source media="(m-width: 768px)" srcSet="" siz="100vw"/><img alt="Will Byers “Tak Center Stage Aga” Stranger Thgs 5" class="RponsiveImageContaer-eybHBd fptoWY rponsive-image__image" src="></noscript></picture></div></div></span></a></div><div class="SummaryItemContent-eiDYMl XMZX summary-em__ntent"><div class="RubricWrapper-dKmCNX jCrIBQ bric SummaryItemRubric-dguGKN lapGFj summary-em__bric"><span class="RubricName-fVtemz cLxcNi">Culture</span></div><a class="SummaryItemHedLk-civM gxGu summary-em-trackg__hed-lk summary-em__hed-lk" data-ponent-type="recirc-river" data-recirc-id="em-hed-3" data-recirc-pattern="summary-em" href=" target="_self"><div data-ttid="ClampWrapper" class="ClampWrapper-kZxfkB hTTNGO clamp SummaryItemHedBase-hiFYpQ fMpli summary-em__hed"><div class="ClampContent-hilPkr jVhSBH"><div class="SummaryItemHedTag-TWblf gxaOcP" data-ttid="SummaryItemHed">Will Byers “Tak Center Stage Aga” <em>Stranger Thgs 5</em></div></div></div></a><div class="SummaryItemByleWrapper-boCfbi cuRXdL summary-em__byle-date-in"><div class="SummaryItemBaseByle-fFbXkY dhnQGM summary-em__byle"><div class="summary-em__byle__ntent"><div data-ttid="BylWrapper" class="BylWrapper-KIudk irTIfE byl"><p class="ByleWrapper-jWHrLH gETtIb byle byl__byle" data-ttid="ByleWrapper" emProp="thor" emType="><span emProp="name" class="ByleNamWrapper-jbHncj fuDQVo"><span data-ttid="ByleName" class="ByleName-kwmrLn cYaBaU byle__name"><span class="BaseWrap-sc-gjQpdd BaseText-ewhhUZ BylePreamble-iJolpQ iUEiRd hXReUT gnILss byle__preamble">By </span>Sara Delgado</span></span></p></div></div></div></div></div></div></li><li><div class="AdWrapper-dQtivb fZrssQ RecircMostPopularSummaryItem-jQxxiw dabqgR ad ad--asi"><div class="ad__slot ad__slot--asi" data-no-id="5fq0yc"></div></div></li></ul><div class="RecircMostPopularFooter-enPjgs gvTU"></div></div></div></div><div class="StickyBoxPlaceholr-grPmrg dxAvXx"></div></div></div></div><div class="RowWrapper-UmqTg HEhan full-bleed-ad row-mid-ntent-ad"><div class="StickyMidContentAdWrapper-fSBzwl drzyIa ad-stickymidntent"><div class="AdWrapper-dQtivb fZrssQ ad ad--mid-ntent should-hold-space"><div class="ad__slot ad__slot--mid-ntent" data-no-id="m3upb"></div></div></div></div><div class="GridWrapper-cAzTTK kHBDeH grid grid-margs grid-ems-2 ArticlePageChunksGrid-hfxa bjczjj grid-layout--adrail narrow wi-adrail"><div class="GridItem-buujkM stRKV grid--em grid-layout__ntent"><div class="BodyWrapper-kufPGa XtZXd body body__ntaer article__body" data-journey-hook="client-ntent" data-ttid="BodyWrapper"><div class="body__ner-ntaer"><p><strong>Related:</strong>  <a href=">How to Figure Out Your Genr Inty</a></p><figure class="CneVioEmbedFigure-kCfJjN hdJOda e-vio-embed"><div data-ttid="script-ntaer"></div></figure></div></div></div><div class="GridItem-buujkM fVLMby grid--em grid-layout__asi"><div class="StickyBoxWrapper-jfYB jxBcTH sticky-box"><div class="StickyBoxPrimary-dzWDWL cdhYoN sticky-box__primary"><div class="AdWrapper-dQtivb fZrssQ ad ad--rail"><div class="ad__slot ad__slot--rail" data-no-id="puuamh"></div></div><div class="ConsumerMarketgUnThemedWrapper-iUTMTf jssHut nsumer-marketg-un nsumer-marketg-un--display-rail" role="prentatn" aria-hidn="te"><div class="nsumer-marketg-un__slot nsumer-marketg-un__slot--display-rail"></div><div class="journey-un"></div></div></div><div class="StickyBoxPlaceholr-grPmrg dxAvXx"></div></div></div></div></div><div class="GridWrapper-cAzTTK kHBDeH grid grid-margs grid-ems-2 PaywallInleBarrierWhWrapperGrid-fyrGfS kLQIUk grid-layout--adrail narrow wi-adrail"><div class="GridItem-buujkM stRKV grid--em grid-layout__ntent"><div class="body body__le-barrier article__body"><div class="ntaer ntaer--body"><div class="ntaer--body-ner"><asi class="PaywallInleBarrierWrapper-iBnuqk lfXXa-D" data-ttid="PaywallInleBarrierWrapper"><div class="ConsumerMarketgUnThemedWrapper-iUTMTf jssHut nsumer-marketg-un nsumer-marketg-un--paywall-le-barrier" role="prentatn" aria-live="pole" aria-hidn="te"><div class="nsumer-marketg-un__slot nsumer-marketg-un__slot--paywall-le-barrier"></div><div class="journey-un"></div></div></asi></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="GridWrapper-cAzTTK kHBDeH grid grid-margs grid-ems-2 ContentWrapperGrid-fvkmBv brYtrA grid-layout--adrail narrow wi-adrail"><div class="GridItem-buujkM stRKV grid--em grid-layout__ntent"><div class="body body__ntaer"><div class="ntaer ntaer--body"><div class="ntaer--body-ner"></div></div></div></div></div></div></article><div class="ContentFooterWrapper-jVNdRG dTJkpP ArticlePageContentFooterGrid-ccsXYy eMZRHU article-body__footer"><div class="RowWrapper-UmqTg HEhan"><div class="GridWrapper-cAzTTK kHBDeH grid grid-margs grid-ems-2 grid-layout--adrail narrow wi-adrail"><div class="GridItem-buujkM stRKV grid--em grid-layout__ntent"></div></div></div><div class="RowWrapper-UmqTg HEhan"><div class="GridWrapper-cAzTTK kHBDeH grid grid-margs grid-ems-2 grid-layout--adrail narrow wi-adrail"><div class="GridItem-buujkM stRKV grid--em grid-layout__ntent"><div data-ttid="TagCloudWrapper" class="TagCloudWrapper-gGgndx ctyZyK ContentFooterTagCloud-krQmRG ZLGh"><span class="BaseWrap-sc-gjQpdd BaseText-ewhhUZ TagCloudSectnHear-cOforY iUEiRd dJexbZ kQQRmu">Keywords</span><a href="/tag/heteronormativy" class="BaseWrap-sc-gjQpdd BaseText-ewhhUZ BaseLk-eNWuiM TagCloudLk-kvjZFu iUEiRd bbbwVd CVSfo hIhJOI"><span class="BaseWrap-sc-gjQpdd BaseText-ewhhUZ TagCloudName-eAUnLd iUEiRd iXXbhe bUkXwu">heteronormativy</span></a><a href="/tag/genr-inty" class="BaseWrap-sc-gjQpdd BaseText-ewhhUZ BaseLk-eNWuiM TagCloudLk-kvjZFu iUEiRd bbbwVd CVSfo hIhJOI"><span class="BaseWrap-sc-gjQpdd BaseText-ewhhUZ TagCloudName-eAUnLd iUEiRd iXXbhe bUkXwu">genr inty</span></a><a href="/tag/sexualy" class="BaseWrap-sc-gjQpdd BaseText-ewhhUZ BaseLk-eNWuiM TagCloudLk-kvjZFu iUEiRd bbbwVd CVSfo hIhJOI"><span class="BaseWrap-sc-gjQpdd BaseText-ewhhUZ TagCloudName-eAUnLd iUEiRd iXXbhe bUkXwu">sexualy</span></a></div></div></div></div><div data-ttid="ContentFooterBottom" class="ContentFooterBottom-jwWZfC kcbyiW"><div class="ntent-bottom-anchor"></div><div class="ConsumerMarketgUnThemedWrapper-iUTMTf jssHut nsumer-marketg-un nsumer-marketg-un--article-footer" role="prentatn" aria-hidn="te"><div class="nsumer-marketg-un__slot nsumer-marketg-un__slot--article-footer"></div><div class="journey-un"></div></div><div data-attr-viewport-monor="" class="recirc-list-wrapper viewport-monor-anchor"><div class="RowWrapper-UmqTg HEhan ContentFooterRelated-kEBiFe kVUuwq"><div class="GridWrapper-cAzTTK eRggVV grid grid-margs grid-ems-0 SummaryCollectnGridComponent-ktyEog bdTTVU summary-llectn-grid RecircListDefltOverlaySummaryCollectnGrid-AHJhY bEaXiL recirc-list__ems summary-llectn-grid--four-lumns summary-llectn-grid--TextBelowLeft"><div class="GridItem-buujkM kHPPIF grid--em"><div class="SummaryCollectnGridContent-eVUpRm gOErDJ"><div class="SectnTleRoot-dBGvdq huTHVP SummaryCollectnGridSectnTle-fCmYwG izjbVn" data-ttid="SectnTle"><hear class="BaseWrap-sc-gjQpdd BaseText-ewhhUZ SectnTleHed-dKqZet dxqEAa jKvGim jttyjJ">Read More</hear></div><div class="SummaryCollectnGridItems-DZShR iJAxgH hi-read-more-ad" data-ttid="SummaryCollectnGridItems"><div class="SummaryItemWrapper-iwvBff gtfMax summary-em summary-em--has-le summary-em--ARTICLE summary-em--no-in summary-em--text-align-left summary-em--layout-placement-text-below summary-em--layout-posn-image-left summary-em--layout-proportns-50-50 summary-em--si-by-si-align-center summary-em--si-by-si-image-right-mobile-false summary-em--standard SummaryCollectnGridSummaryItem-WColm eYriHk" role="button" tabx="0"><div class="SummaryItemAssetContaer-gwhFFH VOyg summary-em__asset-ntaer"><a class="SummaryItemImageLk-dshqxb cPpCwE summary-em__image-lk summary-em-trackg__image-lk" href=" aria-hidn="te" tabx="-1" data-ponent-type="recirc-river" data-recirc-id="em-image-1" data-recirc-pattern="summary-em" target="_self"><span class="SpanWrapper-umhxW kGxnNB rponsive-asset SummaryItemRponsiveAsset-hjGIGg bDvSkO summary-em__image"><div data-tt="aspect-rat-ntaer" class="AspectRatContaer-bJHpJz hlQxkn"><div class="aspect-rat--overlay-ntaer"><picture class="RponsiveImagePicture-cWuUZO dUOtEa SummaryItemRponsiveAsset-hjGIGg bDvSkO summary-em__image rponsive-image"><noscript><source media="(max-width: 767px)" srcSet="" siz="100vw"/><source media="(m-width: 768px)" srcSet="" siz="100vw"/><img alt="Laws Targetg Margalized Youth Hurt Their Mental Health. What Are We Dog About It?" class="RponsiveImageContaer-eybHBd fptoWY rponsive-image__image" src="></noscript></picture></div></div></span></a></div><div class="SummaryItemContent-eiDYMl XMZX summary-em__ntent"><div class="RubricWrapper-dKmCNX fiYQJA bric bric--disvery SummaryItemRubric-dguGKN lapGFj summary-em__bric"><span class="RubricName-fVtemz cLxcNi">Inty</span></div><a class="SummaryItemHedLk-civM hlgoFI summary-em-trackg__hed-lk summary-em__hed-lk" data-ponent-type="recirc-river" data-recirc-id="em-hed-1" data-recirc-pattern="summary-em" href=" target="_self"><div data-ttid="ClampWrapper" class="ClampWrapper-kZxfkB hTTNGO clamp SummaryItemHedBase-hiFYpQ fOAWJi summary-em__hed"><div class="ClampContent-hilPkr jVhSBH"><div class="SummaryItemHedTag-TWblf gxaOcP" data-ttid="SummaryItemHed">Laws Targetg Margalized Youth Hurt Their Mental Health. What Are We Dog About It?</div></div></div></a><div class="BaseWrap-sc-gjQpdd BaseText-ewhhUZ SummaryItemDek-CRfsi iUEiRd eBANPJ iponZO summary-em__k">We n't leave LGBTQ and BIPOC young people behd the mental health crisis.</div><div class="SummaryItemByleWrapper-boCfbi cuRXdL summary-em__byle-date-in"><div class="SummaryItemBaseByle-fFbXkY dhnQGM summary-em__byle"><div class="summary-em__byle__ntent"><div data-ttid="BylWrapper" class="BylWrapper-KIudk irTIfE byl"><p class="ByleWrapper-jWHrLH gETtIb byle byl__byle" data-ttid="ByleWrapper" emProp="thor" emType="><span emProp="name" class="ByleNamWrapper-jbHncj fuDQVo"><span data-ttid="ByleName" class="ByleName-kwmrLn cYaBaU byle__name"><span class="BaseWrap-sc-gjQpdd BaseText-ewhhUZ BylePreamble-iJolpQ iUEiRd hXReUT gnILss byle__preamble">By </span>Lren Cikara</span></span></p></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="SummaryItemWrapper-iwvBff gtfMax summary-em summary-em--has-le summary-em--ARTICLE summary-em--no-in summary-em--text-align-left summary-em--layout-placement-text-below summary-em--layout-posn-image-left summary-em--layout-proportns-50-50 summary-em--si-by-si-align-center summary-em--si-by-si-image-right-mobile-false summary-em--standard SummaryCollectnGridSummaryItem-WColm eYriHk" role="button" tabx="0"><div class="SummaryItemAssetContaer-gwhFFH VOyg summary-em__asset-ntaer"><a class="SummaryItemImageLk-dshqxb cPpCwE summary-em__image-lk summary-em-trackg__image-lk" href=" aria-hidn="te" tabx="-1" data-ponent-type="recirc-river" data-recirc-id="em-image-2" data-recirc-pattern="summary-em" target="_self"><span class="SpanWrapper-umhxW kGxnNB rponsive-asset SummaryItemRponsiveAsset-hjGIGg bDvSkO summary-em__image"><div data-tt="aspect-rat-ntaer" class="AspectRatContaer-bJHpJz hlQxkn"><div class="aspect-rat--overlay-ntaer"><picture class="RponsiveImagePicture-cWuUZO dUOtEa SummaryItemRponsiveAsset-hjGIGg bDvSkO summary-em__image rponsive-image"><noscript><source media="(max-width: 767px)" srcSet="" siz="100vw"/><source media="(m-width: 768px)" srcSet="" siz="100vw"/><img alt="Almost Half of LGBTQ+ Youth Feel Unsafe at School, Acrdg to a New Survey" class="RponsiveImageContaer-eybHBd fptoWY rponsive-image__image" src="></noscript></picture></div></div></span></a></div><div class="SummaryItemContent-eiDYMl XMZX summary-em__ntent"><div class="RubricWrapper-dKmCNX fiYQJA bric bric--disvery SummaryItemRubric-dguGKN lapGFj summary-em__bric"><span class="RubricName-fVtemz cLxcNi">Polics</span></div><a class="SummaryItemHedLk-civM hlgoFI summary-em-trackg__hed-lk summary-em__hed-lk" data-ponent-type="recirc-river" data-recirc-id="em-hed-2" data-recirc-pattern="summary-em" href=" target="_self"><div data-ttid="ClampWrapper" class="ClampWrapper-kZxfkB hTTNGO clamp SummaryItemHedBase-hiFYpQ fOAWJi summary-em__hed"><div class="ClampContent-hilPkr jVhSBH"><div class="SummaryItemHedTag-TWblf gxaOcP" data-ttid="SummaryItemHed">Almost Half of LGBTQ+ Youth Feel Unsafe at School, Acrdg to a New Survey</div></div></div></a><div class="BaseWrap-sc-gjQpdd BaseText-ewhhUZ SummaryItemDek-CRfsi iUEiRd eBANPJ iponZO summary-em__k">That number was higher for trans and genr expansive kids.</div><div class="SummaryItemByleWrapper-boCfbi cuRXdL summary-em__byle-date-in"><div class="SummaryItemBaseByle-fFbXkY dhnQGM summary-em__byle"><div class="summary-em__byle__ntent"><div data-ttid="BylWrapper" class="BylWrapper-KIudk irTIfE byl"><p class="ByleWrapper-jWHrLH gETtIb byle byl__byle" data-ttid="ByleWrapper" emProp="thor" emType="><span emProp="name" class="ByleNamWrapper-jbHncj fuDQVo"><span data-ttid="ByleName" class="ByleName-kwmrLn cYaBaU byle__name"><span class="BaseWrap-sc-gjQpdd BaseText-ewhhUZ BylePreamble-iJolpQ iUEiRd hXReUT gnILss byle__preamble">By </span>Jam Factora</span></span></p></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="SummaryItemWrapper-iwvBff gtfMax summary-em summary-em--has-le summary-em--ARTICLE summary-em--no-in summary-em--text-align-left summary-em--layout-placement-text-below summary-em--layout-posn-image-left summary-em--layout-proportns-50-50 summary-em--si-by-si-align-center summary-em--si-by-si-image-right-mobile-false summary-em--standard SummaryCollectnGridSummaryItem-WColm eYriHk" role="button" tabx="0"><div class="SummaryItemAssetContaer-gwhFFH VOyg summary-em__asset-ntaer"><a class="SummaryItemImageLk-dshqxb cPpCwE summary-em__image-lk summary-em-trackg__image-lk" href=" aria-hidn="te" tabx="-1" data-ponent-type="recirc-river" data-recirc-id="em-image-3" data-recirc-pattern="summary-em" target="_self"><span class="SpanWrapper-umhxW kGxnNB rponsive-asset SummaryItemRponsiveAsset-hjGIGg bDvSkO summary-em__image"><div data-tt="aspect-rat-ntaer" class="AspectRatContaer-bJHpJz hlQxkn"><div class="aspect-rat--overlay-ntaer"><picture class="RponsiveImagePicture-cWuUZO dUOtEa SummaryItemRponsiveAsset-hjGIGg bDvSkO summary-em__image rponsive-image"><noscript><source media="(max-width: 767px)" srcSet="" siz="100vw"/><source media="(m-width: 768px)" srcSet="" siz="100vw"/><img alt="As Asian Amerin Stunts, We’ll Keep Fightg for Racial Equy on Camp" class="RponsiveImageContaer-eybHBd fptoWY rponsive-image__image" src="></noscript></picture></div></div></span></a></div><div class="SummaryItemContent-eiDYMl XMZX summary-em__ntent"><div class="RubricWrapper-dKmCNX fiYQJA bric bric--disvery SummaryItemRubric-dguGKN lapGFj summary-em__bric"><span class="RubricName-fVtemz cLxcNi">Polics</span></div><a class="SummaryItemHedLk-civM hlgoFI summary-em-trackg__hed-lk summary-em__hed-lk" data-ponent-type="recirc-river" data-recirc-id="em-hed-3" data-recirc-pattern="summary-em" href=" target="_self"><div data-ttid="ClampWrapper" class="ClampWrapper-kZxfkB hTTNGO clamp SummaryItemHedBase-hiFYpQ fOAWJi summary-em__hed"><div class="ClampContent-hilPkr jVhSBH"><div class="SummaryItemHedTag-TWblf gxaOcP" data-ttid="SummaryItemHed">As Asian Amerin Stunts, We’ll Keep Fightg for Racial Equy on Camp</div></div></div></a><div class="BaseWrap-sc-gjQpdd BaseText-ewhhUZ SummaryItemDek-CRfsi iUEiRd eBANPJ iponZO summary-em__k">The Supreme Court’s affirmative actn lg jt mak our stggle harr.</div></div></div><div class="AdWrapper-dQtivb fZrssQ SummaryCollectnGridSummaryItem-WColm eYriHk ad ad--read-more"><div class="ad__slot ad__slot--read-more" data-no-id="2negur"></div></div><div class="SummaryItemWrapper-iwvBff gtfMax summary-em summary-em--has-le summary-em--ARTICLE summary-em--no-in summary-em--text-align-left summary-em--layout-placement-text-below summary-em--layout-posn-image-left summary-em--layout-proportns-50-50 summary-em--si-by-si-align-center summary-em--si-by-si-image-right-mobile-false summary-em--standard SummaryCollectnGridSummaryItem-WColm eYriHk" role="button" tabx="0"><div class="SummaryItemAssetContaer-gwhFFH VOyg summary-em__asset-ntaer"><a class="SummaryItemImageLk-dshqxb cPpCwE summary-em__image-lk summary-em-trackg__image-lk" href=" aria-hidn="te" tabx="-1" 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HETERONORMATIVY THE LIV OF LBIAN, GAY, BISEXUAL, AND QUEER YOUNG PEOPLE

J Homosex. Keywords: gay, lbian, bisexual, transgenr, genr, tersectnaly, sexualy, youth/emergg adulthoodHeteronormativy is fed as the prumptn and privilegg of genr nformy, heterosexualy, and nuclear fai over all other “viant” forms of genr exprsn, sexualy, and fai (Oswald, Kuvalanka, Blume, & Berkowz, 2009). Ls rearch has explored how sexual mory young adults, fed as youth ag 18–24 who endorse a lbian, gay, bisexual, or queer inty, teract wh their social environments to subvert or reproduce heteronormativy.

In the current study, we e the guidg ameworks of queer and tersectnal theori to exame how lbian, gay, bisexual, and queer young adults discs heteronormativy their life history narrativ to better unrstand how they scribe, unrme, and/or rerce heteronormativy.

HETERONORMATIVY THE LIV OF LBIAN, GAY, BISEXUAL, AND QUEER YOUNG PEOPLE

E., women and men who are genr nonnformg are gay or lbian (Blashill & Powlishta, 2009; Nielsen et al., 2000; Tolman et al., 2015). For example, this procs occurs when youth assert social posns of masculy and heterosexualy by engagg homophobic sexual harassment of genr nonnformg youth, regardls of whether or not the youth actually intify as gay (Hequembourg & Brallier, 2009; Marto, 2000; Pase, 2011; Way, 2011) fay theorists have broaned the e of queer ameworks to exame and crique how societal disurse creat, privileg, and stigmatiz particular fay stctur to further mata the social posns of masculy and heterosexualy (Allen & Menz, 2018; Oswald et al., 2009).

For stance, gay men and lbians are more likely to be genr nonnformg than heterosexual people (Li, Pollt, & Rsell, 2016), reject blogil parenthood (Goldberg, 2012), and endorse adoptn as a first choice for parenthood (Tyebjee, 2003). Queer embodiment of heteronormativy has created a polics of “homonormativy” that privileg same-genr attracted people who appear heteronormative, highlightg same-genr upl who are genr nformg, monogamo, and fay-oriented (Allen & Menz, 2018; Duggan, 2002). Sexual mory youth also value marriage (Sav-Williams, 2011) and expect to raise children (D’Augelli, Renda, Grossman, & Sclair, 2007), valu nsistent wh homonormativy; however, whether sexual mory young adults n or want to meet the expectatns n pend on other important inti.

Combg sampl of lbian, gay, and bisexual young adults whout examg distctns between and wh the groups ignor the important role that genr and heterosexualy norms play the liv of people at the margs, namely people of lor, transgenr people, bisexual people, and cisgenr women (Few-Demo, Humble, Curran, & Lloyd, 2016; hooks, 2000). The current study was guid by the followg rearch qutns: (1) How do lbian, gay, bisexual, and queer young adults make sense of societal expectatns around genr exprsn, sexual inty, and fay?

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Of the cisgenr women and those assigned female at birth the sample (n = 7), five intified as bisexual or pansexual, and two intified as gay/lbian.

All cisgenr men and young adults assigned male at birth intified as gay (n = 5). Demographic Informatn of Interview ParticipantsAgeAssigned Sex at BirthGenrSexual IntyRace/EthnicyVirgia24FemaleWomanBisexualBlackLeonardo21MaleGenrqueerGayMexinSierra21FemaleWomanBisexualChinaEstrella20FemaleWomanBisexualMultiracial LataKayla18FemaleWomanPansexualWheDaniel23MaleManGayLato Whe MultiracialLus23MaleManQueer/GayLato Native AmerinAutumn18FemaleGenrqueerPansexualWheGraham22MaleQueerGayNative AmerinSofia22FemaleWomanLbianLata WheAspen19FemaleQueerGayWhe MexinMateo23MaleMaleHomosexualLato WheProcreInterviews took place quiet areas nvenient to participants, cludg mp offic, public parks near their hom, and ffee shops. (Virgia)Genr exprsn ()validatg sexual inty8Genr nonnformy signaled nonheterosexualy and genr nformy signaled heterosexualyMen and participants assigned male at birth4Femy was such a clear signal of gay inty that many did not need to e out; but sometim distanced themselv and their genr and sexual inti om femyI wasn’t a very mascule boy so no one said anythg, no one told my mom anythg, no one told my dad anythg [about beg gay].

But I mean, I tried really hard to be until maybe sophomore year actually, I cut off my hair and that was the first step.

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