There are lots of reasons why you might want to know if your iend is gay. There are some important thgs that you have to unrstand about this suatn before gog forward, however. Someone's sexualy is highly plex and highly...
Contents:
- IS HE GAY?
- HOW TO TELL IF YOUR BOYIEND IS GAY
- HOW TO TELL IF YOUR GUY FRIEND IS GAY
- THE PROFOUND LACK OF EMPATHY MY HBAND'S NOT GAY
IS HE GAY?
He says he’s bisexual, but I’m worried he’s actually gay. * he's not gay he's creative *
I hear this qutn at least once a week as a female client wonrs about a man she started datg: If he isn't a tradnal Alpha and don't toss her on the bed and rip off her cloth on the first date, he mt be gay, right? Is he a gay man who plans to marry a woman so he n "pass?
Was he gay? Was he not gay?
They nclud that y, he was gay. When women turn on their "gaydar, " 's often bee they fear beg taken and makg a mistake about a potential mate. In the old days, gay men and women tried to "pass" by havg heterosexual marriag.
HOW TO TELL IF YOUR BOYIEND IS GAY
If you're a woman, you may have noticed thgs about your boyiend that lead you to believe he's gay or terted men. Sexualy is highly plex and sensive, and there are a lot of accurate stereotyp out there that don't tly... * he's not gay he's creative *
For most gay dividuals, those bad old days are over.
HOW TO TELL IF YOUR GUY FRIEND IS GAY
In the vast majory of s, though, if a man is terted you, rt assured, he's not gay. Keep md that many gay mal are tuned to their orientatn before puberty, so an adult man will probably be perfectly aware that he's gay. When a woman pos the qutn a ssn, I ually ask, "What mak you thk this guy might be gay?
Then I will ll on mon sense: "If he's gay, why the world would he be terted you?
THE PROFOUND LACK OF EMPATHY MY HBAND'S NOT GAY
However, what I am ncerned about is that he is g me as a steppg stone to acknowledgg to himself that he is gay, or that he wants to be a heterosexual relatnship orr to reap the social benefs (havg kids, generally beg accepted society, etc. I’m worried bee (a) he’s never been wh a man before and beg wh me means he won't get that experience (assumg he don't cheat) and (b) he om an extremely relig fay the South who would likely not be able to accept his homosexualy (or even bisexualy).
I'm worried that we will spend years together, possibly get married, have kids, and then he will e to grips that he is fact actually gay. I have a very strong sneakg spicn that he’s bidg his time until his parents die or until he cis that he's gog to e out to them as I stay wh him and thk about a future, knowg full well that he uld tell me one day that he's actually gay and wants to be wh a man, or that he wants to transn, and leave me wh a bunch of baggage, such as gettg a divorce (sharg ctody of kids, fanc), and time/energy/effort lost?