He says he’s bisexual, but I’m worried he’s actually gay.
Contents:
- HOW TO TELL IF YOUR BOYIEND IS GAY
- IN LOVE WH MY BT IEND, BUT HE'S GAY
- IS MY HBAND GAY? SIGNS OF A GAY HBAND
HOW TO TELL IF YOUR BOYIEND IS GAY
* but he's gay *
However, what I am ncerned about is that he is g me as a steppg stone to acknowledgg to himself that he is gay, or that he wants to be a heterosexual relatnship orr to reap the social benefs (havg kids, generally beg accepted society, etc. I’m worried bee (a) he’s never been wh a man before and beg wh me means he won't get that experience (assumg he don't cheat) and (b) he om an extremely relig fay the South who would likely not be able to accept his homosexualy (or even bisexualy).
I'm worried that we will spend years together, possibly get married, have kids, and then he will e to grips that he is fact actually gay. I have a very strong sneakg spicn that he’s bidg his time until his parents die or until he cis that he's gog to e out to them as I stay wh him and thk about a future, knowg full well that he uld tell me one day that he's actually gay and wants to be wh a man, or that he wants to transn, and leave me wh a bunch of baggage, such as gettg a divorce (sharg ctody of kids, fanc), and time/energy/effort lost?
IN LOVE WH MY BT IEND, BUT HE'S GAY
If you're a woman, you may have noticed thgs about your boyiend that lead you to believe he's gay or terted men. Sexualy is highly plex and sensive, and there are a lot of accurate stereotyp out there that don't tly... * but he's gay *
If you're a woman, you may have noticed thgs about your boyiend that lead you to believe he's gay or terted men. Keep readg for a thorough list of potential signs that your boyiend might be gay. There are many reasons why someone might act this way, so this by self is not a surefire sign that he’s gay.
If you believe your boyiend lov and r for you but he "seems to be gay, " keep md that he uld be bisexual, pansexual, or terted men. There are several inti which someone n be terted more than one genr, so don't thk he's "jt gay".
If you stumble upon evince of gay porn on his puter or phone, though, that may be a ltle different. You fd pop-ups of gay porn on your/his puter or stored vio fil. He aggrsively ni searchg for or watchg gay scen.
IS MY HBAND GAY? SIGNS OF A GAY HBAND
If he’s gay, he might thrive on other men’s attentn, equently touch or hug them, or exchange flirty ments wh them (pecially about their physil appearance). He may surround himself wh gay panns to fill an unrequed need.
Notice if he equently hangs out wh his gay iends, or jos them on nights out at LGBTQ+ bars and clubs. They thk, “If I act like I don’t like gay men, no one will thk I am one. ” Notice if he acts unfortable around gay men, regularly mak homophobic ments or jok, or liberately never talks about anythg remotely gay.
This is often referred to as ternalized homophobia.