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Ghanaian Print Nana Akufo-Addo on Thursday emphasised the need for civil bate and tolerance as parliament works towards a vote on a ntroversial bill that would make a crime to be gay, bisexual or transgenr.

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NANA GAY'S RETREAT

Leonard Nemoy himself gave support 1991, sayg, "It is entirely ftg that gays and lbians will appear unobtsively aboard the Enterprise—neher objects of py nor melodramatic attentn.

nana gay's retreat photo. In , Pa explor them of begngs and endgs, artifice and realy, hope and spair, all agast the backdrop of a seasoned relatnship between two Black gay men.

GHANA: ANTI-GAY BILL PROPOSG 10-YEAR PRISON SENTENC SPARKS OUTRAGE

Tucked away a neighborhood of Accra, off Aflao Road, a group of Ghanaian gay activists e the hoe to gather secret and provi shelter to LGBTQ people need.

ODII TORNADO HOT AS ALLEGED SECRET VIO OF HIM AND HIS GAY PARTNER DROPS

But what one Ghanaian activist lls a “homophobe’s dream bill” has ep roots Ghana’s relig muny. Vio after vio show Ghanaians – mostly men perceived as beg gay – beg harassed and beaten on mera, sometim stripped naked by their assailants.

Jt a short drive om parliament, we meet a proment gay activist at Accra’s Black Star Square, where an arch memoratg Ghana’s pennce celebrat “Freedom and Jtice. Bediako, who ns the NGO Rightify Ghana, nounced the claim that homosexualy is a Wtern import or that LGBTQ activists were out to rec and nvert straight Ghanaians.

“The same people they claim to have brought homosexualy to Ai are the same people who told them to have this hate they are g agast , ” he says. This draft “Fay Valu” bill seems to be one more eratn of the homophobic iativ emanatg om their nferenc, ” he says.

MY GRANDMOTHER LOV GAY PEOPLE, EXCEPT FOR ME

“Those who are promotg gays and lbians are not gog to have children at all, and wh a short time nobody should be surprised that Mlims will bee a majory this untry and clare an Islamic state, ” Archbishop Philip Naameh, the print of the Ghana Catholic Bishops Conference, told CNN.

In a massive onle prayer rally March entled: “Homosexualy: a ttable s to God, ” pastors at the lns-strong Pentestal Church said was a matter of “natnal secury” to pass a law; they ntue to ph members of parliament to follow through wh their plans. Joe, the gay Ghanaian who was beaten and thrown out of his home, spent jt a few days at the safe hoe Accra before movg on. What’s more, there’s que a b of homoerotic subtext between the two.

He add: “When the bill is laid before the Hoe (of parliament), you will realize that the foc of the bill which has to do wh voidg (gay) marriag, preventg them om adoptg or fosterg children, the clampdown on platforms and media ho that are gog to do promotn and advocy or ph those materials still rema enforced. Gee also implied that rtrictns agast “exprsns, be lbian, gay, bisexual, transgenr are all still there. The mister also sisted however that the Ghanaian ernment was not unr prsure to relax existg legislatn on homosexualy.

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When I was born, she moved om Arizona to North Carola to take re of me. Nana was the one who found my first tooth, the one who tght me to read — aged two, she claims. When she grew up Colombia you didn’t rely on benchmarks to ci when to teach a child; you observed them.</p><p>Nana was my favore playmate: gentle, funny, and as imagative as any child. Maybe more so. We’ve had rout, even si jok, sce I n remember: trips to McDonald’s for ice cream as a toddler, and later, long driv where we entertaed ourselv wh the simple, tchy ballad she’d posed when I was five. The one time Nana sld me, really sld me, for talkg back to my mother, felt like the world was endg. She was the center of my universe.</p><div><div class="ConsumerMarketgUnThemedWrapper-iUTMTf jssHut nsumer-marketg-un nsumer-marketg-un--article-mid-ntent" role="prentatn" aria-hidn="te"><div class="nsumer-marketg-un__slot nsumer-marketg-un__slot--article-mid-ntent nsumer-marketg-un__slot---ntent"></div><div class="journey-un"></div></div></div><p>She took a job wh an AIDS hotle the 1980s — at the height of the crisis Ameri — whout fanfare. A quiet but scere advote, she eventually beme a manager. At a very young age, so young that I n’t hear the voice memory — I don’t know if was my nt, my mother, or my grandmother who told the first time — all I knew of her job, really, was a story.</p><div class="Contaer-bkChBi byNLHx"></div><p>“I'm not even gog to s down,” one job ndidate said, “bee I know you won't hire me anyway.” After a ep breath, they announced, “In a few weeks I'm gog to start wearg women's clothg and a wig and go by ‘Raquel.’” My grandmother asked her to s down. As I remember , the story of Raquel’s hirg was reunted to me as uneventful, jt a cur event her time at the hotle. It had mystified Nana that anyone wh a graduate gree would fear her judgment, much ls for self-realizatn that bore no relevance to the job ahead. That’s the Nana I grew up wh.</p><div class="AdWrapper-dQtivb fZrssQ ad ad---ntent"><div class="ad__slot ad__slot---ntent" data-no-id="jroscd"></div></div><figure class="AssetEmbedWrapper-eVDQiB byBkf asset-embed"><div class="AssetEmbedAssetContaer-eJxoAx dBHGoQ asset-embed__asset-ntaer"><span class="SpanWrapper-umhxW kGxnNB rponsive-asset AssetEmbedRponsiveAsset-cXBNxi eCxVQK asset-embed__rponsive-asset"><picture class="RponsiveImagePicture-cWuUZO dUOtEa AssetEmbedRponsiveAsset-cXBNxi eCxVQK asset-embed__rponsive-asset rponsive-image"><noscript><img alt="Image may nta Texture and Whe" class="RponsiveImageContaer-eybHBd fptoWY rponsive-image__image" src=" srcSet=" 120w, 240w, 320w, 640w, 960w, 1280w, 1600w" siz="100vw"/></noscript></picture></span></div></figure></div></div></div><div class="GridItem-buujkM fVLMby grid--em grid-layout__asi"><div class="StickyBoxWrapper-jfYB kNleGZ sticky-box"><div class="StickyBoxPrimary-dzWDWL cdhYoN sticky-box__primary"><div class="Contaer-bkChBi byNLHx"></div><div class="AdWrapper-dQtivb fZrssQ ad ad--rail"><div class="ad__slot ad__slot--rail" data-no-id="kp2ybh"></div></div><div class="ConsumerMarketgUnThemedWrapper-iUTMTf jssHut nsumer-marketg-un nsumer-marketg-un--display-rail" role="prentatn" aria-hidn="te"><div class="nsumer-marketg-un__slot nsumer-marketg-un__slot--display-rail"></div><div class="journey-un"></div></div></div><div class="StickyBoxPlaceholr-grPmrg dxAvXx"></div></div></div></div><div class="RowWrapper-UmqTg HEhan full-bleed-ad row-mid-ntent-ad"><div class="StickyMidContentAdWrapper-fSBzwl drzyIa ad-stickymidntent"><div class="AdWrapper-dQtivb fZrssQ ad ad--mid-ntent should-hold-space"><div class="ad__slot ad__slot--mid-ntent" data-no-id="i02"></div></div></div></div><div class="GridWrapper-cAzTTK kHBDeH grid grid-margs grid-ems-2 ArticlePageChunksGrid-hfxa bjczjj grid-layout--adrail narrow wi-adrail"><div class="GridItem-buujkM stRKV grid--em grid-layout__ntent"><div class="BodyWrapper-kufPGa bectqB body body__ntaer article__body" data-journey-hook="client-ntent" data-ttid="BodyWrapper"><div class="body__ner-ntaer"><figure class="AssetEmbedWrapper-eVDQiB byBkf asset-embed"><div class="AssetEmbedAssetContaer-eJxoAx dBHGoQ asset-embed__asset-ntaer"><span class="SpanWrapper-umhxW kGxnNB rponsive-asset AssetEmbedRponsiveAsset-cXBNxi eCxVQK asset-embed__rponsive-asset"><picture class="RponsiveImagePicture-cWuUZO dUOtEa AssetEmbedRponsiveAsset-cXBNxi eCxVQK asset-embed__rponsive-asset rponsive-image"><noscript><img alt="Image may nta Furnure Chair Human Person Face Baby Clothg Apparel Pants and Couch" class="RponsiveImageContaer-eybHBd fptoWY rponsive-image__image" src=" srcSet=" 120w, 240w, 320w, 640w, 960w, 1280w, 1600w" siz="100vw"/></noscript></picture></span></div><div class="CaptnWrapper-jSZdqE hTTfoq ptn AssetEmbedCaptn-fNQBPI fmQnYP asset-embed__ptn"><span class="BaseWrap-sc-gjQpdd BaseText-ewhhUZ CaptnCred-ejegDm iUEiRd eNhSMp fNaHcW ptn__cred">the thor (provid). The thor and her Nana.</span></div></figure><figure class="AssetEmbedWrapper-eVDQiB byBkf asset-embed"><div class="AssetEmbedAssetContaer-eJxoAx dBHGoQ asset-embed__asset-ntaer"><span class="SpanWrapper-umhxW kGxnNB rponsive-asset AssetEmbedRponsiveAsset-cXBNxi eCxVQK asset-embed__rponsive-asset"><picture class="RponsiveImagePicture-cWuUZO dUOtEa AssetEmbedRponsiveAsset-cXBNxi eCxVQK asset-embed__rponsive-asset rponsive-image"><noscript><img alt="Image may nta Texture and Whe" class="RponsiveImageContaer-eybHBd fptoWY rponsive-image__image" src=" srcSet=" 120w, 240w, 320w, 640w, 960w, 1280w, 1600w" siz="100vw"/></noscript></picture></span></div></figure></div></div></div><div class="GridItem-buujkM fVLMby grid--em grid-layout__asi"><div class="StickyBoxWrapper-jfYB jxBcTH sticky-box"><div class="StickyBoxPrimary-dzWDWL cdhYoN sticky-box__primary"><div class="AdWrapper-dQtivb fZrssQ ad ad--rail"><div class="ad__slot ad__slot--rail" data-no-id="bz7c9"></div></div><div 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rponsive-image"><noscript><source media="(max-width: 767px)" srcSet=" 120w, 240w, 320w, 640w" siz="100vw"/><source media="(m-width: 768px)" srcSet=" 120w, 240w, 320w, 640w" siz="100vw"/><img alt="Hari Nef Says the Barbie Movie Contas a Powerful Msage for Trans Women" class="RponsiveImageContaer-eybHBd fptoWY rponsive-image__image" src="></noscript></picture></div></div></span></a></div><div class="SummaryItemContent-eiDYMl XMZX summary-em__ntent"><div class="RubricWrapper-dKmCNX gPBNpL bric SummaryItemRubric-dguGKN lapGFj summary-em__bric"><span class="RubricName-fVtemz cLxcNi">TV and Movi</span></div><a class="SummaryItemHedLk-civM jRfyII summary-em-trackg__hed-lk summary-em__hed-lk summary-em__hed-lk--unrle-disable" data-ponent-type="recirc-river" data-recirc-id="em-hed-4" data-recirc-pattern="summary-em" href=" target="_self"><div data-ttid="ClampWrapper" class="ClampWrapper-kZxfkB hTTNGO clamp SummaryItemHedBase-hiFYpQ jbVqqA summary-em__hed"><div class="ClampContent-hilPkr jVhSBH"><div class="SummaryItemHedTag-TWblf gxaOcP" data-ttid="SummaryItemHed">Hari Nef Says the <em>Barbie</em> Movie Contas a Powerful Msage for Trans Women</div></div></div></a><div class="SummaryItemByleWrapper-boCfbi cuRXdL summary-em__byle-date-in"><div class="SummaryItemBaseByle-fFbXkY dHMSJg summary-em__byle"><div class="summary-em__byle__ntent"><div data-ttid="BylWrapper" class="BylWrapper-KIudk irTIfE byl"><p class="ByleWrapper-jWHrLH ecFEgL byle byl__byle" data-ttid="ByleWrapper" emProp="thor" emType="><span emProp="name" class="ByleNamWrapper-jbHncj fuDQVo"><span data-ttid="ByleName" class="ByleName-kwmrLn cYaBaU byle__name">Samantha Riel</span></span></p></div></div></div></div></div></div></li><li><div class="AdWrapper-dQtivb fZrssQ RecircMostPopularSummaryItem-jQxxiw gmWMTZ ad ad--asi"><div class="ad__slot ad__slot--asi" data-no-id="69f2s8"></div></div></li></ul><div class="RecircMostPopularFooter-enPjgs laPXdt"></div></div></div></div><div class="StickyBoxPlaceholr-grPmrg dxAvXx"></div></div></div></div><div class="RowWrapper-UmqTg HEhan full-bleed-ad row-mid-ntent-ad"><div class="StickyMidContentAdWrapper-fSBzwl drzyIa ad-stickymidntent"><div class="AdWrapper-dQtivb fZrssQ ad ad--mid-ntent should-hold-space"><div class="ad__slot ad__slot--mid-ntent" data-no-id="mpm7uf"></div></div></div></div><div class="GridWrapper-cAzTTK kHBDeH grid grid-margs grid-ems-2 ArticlePageChunksGrid-hfxa bjczjj grid-layout--adrail narrow wi-adrail"><div class="GridItem-buujkM stRKV grid--em grid-layout__ntent"><div class="BodyWrapper-kufPGa bectqB body body__ntaer article__body" data-journey-hook="client-ntent" data-ttid="BodyWrapper"><div class="body__ner-ntaer"><p>Almost eight years ago, Nana went to heart and lung failure. The ll me the middle of a work meetg, and om the moment the screen blked, my hands wouldn’t operate. The steps to the door were among the shakit I’ve taken. A mid-morng ll to Hong Kong, where I was pletg a human rights fellowship, om the east ast, a 12-hour difference, meant crisis. Wh days, I’d emptied my beloved Shng Wan apartment, surround by dried seafood stalls and lookg out over Victoria Harbor, and board a plane. The four ensug months ral, astal North Carola were terrible — the worst our relatnship had weathered up to that pot: Me hidg her r keys, playg meditn enforcer, and huntg down her we stash. Our relatnship did change, but, slowly, we revered.</p><div data-attr-viewport-monor="le-recirc" class="le-recirc-wrapper le-recirc-observer-target-1 viewport-monor-anchor"></div><p>That summer marked the begng of an active stggle wh whether and how to e out to my grandmother. It had taken a long time to arrive at, and bee fortable wh, the realizatn that I am gay. As a teenager, I terrogated my lack of enthiasm for the oppose sex but even the moments when I nsired that the answer uld be as simple as sex, I dismissed the possibily as statistilly improbable. Lbians make up jt two percent of the populatn. Reflectg, I regnize emotnal triage. Energy went to addrsg immediate threats: an abive father, the misery that is high school social life, and tensifyg, paralyzg prsn and anxiety. I wasn’t ready to grapple wh the growg sense that perhaps was that men were wrong for me rather than me beg wrong for men, and what that implied.</p><p>There was no romance my life until 22, workg for the DNC Florida. There, several stat away om both the place where I grew up and the cy I lled home, Washgton, D.C., dog a job I loved, and dog well, I felt secure enough to allow myself to be vulnerable.</p><p>Her ey were arrtg, endls grays and greens and browns; kissg wasn’t work, and sual touch felt natural.</p><p>The only ncern I ever had about g out to Nana was how much my g out might dispt her life. She uld be subjected to multatnal fay drama; no doubt everyone om New York to Spa and South Ai would have an opn. (A phase, perhaps, or jt a sacrilege. Maybe all someone’s flt any se.) The sire to avoid creatg nflict ma easier to jtify puttg off g out to her for years. The same logic led me to play “the pronoun game,” as a profsor lled — liberately obftg the genr of dat and partners — predomantly heterosexual spac for a long time. 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One day durg the retakg stretch North Carola, as I was drivg her om a doctor's appotment, NPR — our ever-prent r pann — aired a segment about marriage equaly.</p><p>“Nana, what do you thk about gay rights?” I asked. “Gays should have rights,” she replied simply. To this promisg rponse, she add, “They're born that way. They n’t help .” Not the words I’d have chosen, but the substance was there.</p><p>One step further. "How would you feel if Mom were born gay? Or if I were gay?" She psed. Reflectg, she said, "I'd be very sad."</p><p>The pse that followed this statement seemed even longer. The longt of my life.</p><div data-attr-viewport-monor="le-recirc" class="le-recirc-wrapper le-recirc-observer-target-2 viewport-monor-anchor"></div><p>She clarified: "Bee life would be much harr." It seemed so heartfelt, so logil. The exchange was English, wh no possibily for the typ of misterpretatns I’m still prone to Spanish. It was the bt reasong I uld have hoped for om an octogenarian Colombiana.</p><p>To my md, that d exchange was the first step toward an eventual g-out nversatn. In my fay, nothg is said about lite topics until absolutely necsary. 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We moved together; we talked about marriage. We’d go on to get engaged, to plan my first pregnancy. Neher my sexual orientatn nor my relatnship was known to my parents; we’ve been tranged for more than a . But then my younger sister got sick and they asked me to go down to North Carola.</p><p>In a tense Skype nversatn, my parents explaed the crisis to me and I troduced my partner to them. This g out was surprisgly bloodls given what I knew of my parents’ views. Between illns and viance, illns took precence. When my partner offered to e home wh me, I didn’t hate. This was the woman I wanted to spend my life wh, and that meant was time to e out to Nana.</p><p>Sometime between our liftoff Connecticut and landg North Carola, my mother took upon herself to out me to her mother. Acrdg to my mother, Nana mand she be taken back to her apartment. She didn’t want to be the same room or even unr the same roof as me. She apparently thought herself fairly progrsive, bee she did not disown me altogether.</p><p>No one had anticipated Nana’s reactn. She ador my Hernán, who’s been out for s, and she always asks after "that nice lbian," my bt iend om high school. Maybe somethg changed between our r ri and the day I me out. Bras are plited. More likely, she jt found a gay granddghter more objectnable realy than theory.</p><p>Not for the first time, I sought solace through partmentalizatn, tried to leave this heartbreak North Carola. Nana nied me even that. When I got back to Connecticut, she started llg once or twice a month, ually on the late si, after “unos vos,” as she lls the ty cups of we she drks by the dozen over the urse of a day. She’d found God, and God wanted me to be straight.</p><div data-attr-viewport-monor="le-recirc" class="le-recirc-wrapper le-recirc-observer-target-3 viewport-monor-anchor"></div><p>Nana’s late-night lls always nsisted of some batn of: (1) I'm prayg for you to be normal; (2) I love you spe your personal problems; and (3) You know I love you, right? Nothg has changed? The third clse was the killer: She was seekg my sign-off on her hate, affirmatn that I accepted . 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She lled late one night as I was tdgg home heavy summer ra, slippg on the slick bblton. I found a dry doorway and picked up, jugglg two bags of groceri.</p><p>The plastic of the bags dug to my wrists; my nails dug to my palms; and the tears started.</p><p>This time when she asked me to say I knew she loved me, I rasped, “No, Nana, I don’t know that.”</p><p>“I love you spe your personal problems,” she replied, emphasizg each word then punctuatg the statement wh expectant silence.</p><div data-attr-viewport-monor="le-recirc" class="le-recirc-wrapper le-recirc-observer-target-4 viewport-monor-anchor"></div><p>Over and over, I told her, "Nana, when you say that, to me, means you don't love me." We were both cryg wh mut. We didn't reach a rolutn. Another two years later, I know we never will.</p><p>Nana is no longer the center of my universe, and I feel that loss every day. Her patgs hang my apartment, srv and jewelry that once were hers now lie on my drser. When I smell vanilla I look for her arms. The bet unr my kchen ocsnally fills wh plastic bags I've pulsively tied to knots the way Nana do, as if someday, someday they might all be eful.</p><p>Nana’s greatt gift to me was imagatn. I’ve put to a e neher of anticipated: Creatg a life whout her. Lookg elsewhere, to plac where no one mds who I like to kiss, I disvered my universe is wi and filled wh many people whose love whout veats.</p><p><em>​Rebec Pilar Buckwalter-Poza is a queer femist ​legal analyst, advote, and thor. ​A graduate of Harvard College and the Yale Law School,​ Rebec, or RPBP,​ ​is a</em> ​Pacific Standard <em>ntributg wrer and has wrten on law, polics, and policy for ​CNN, ​NPR, The Atlantic, ​Democracy Journal, and Poli, and appeared on MSNBC.​ Her personal says have been published by</em> The Paris Review <em>and</em> Catapult. <em>She is also the -thor of</em> 40 More Years <em>wh Jam Carville​.</em></p></div></div></div><div class="GridItem-buujkM fVLMby grid--em grid-layout__asi"><div class="StickyBoxWrapper-jfYB jxBcTH sticky-box"><div class="StickyBoxPrimary-dzWDWL cdhYoN sticky-box__primary"><div class="AdWrapper-dQtivb fZrssQ ad ad--rail"><div class="ad__slot ad__slot--rail" data-no-id="8owlgim"></div></div><div 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