There's a gay stereotype for every generatn, and a reason for every ntradictory eratn. But some clich are built to last.
Contents:
- HOW TO KNOW IF YOU ARE GAY
- GAY IS OK! HOMEPAGE
- ORTHODOX, CELIBATE, GAY AND THAT’S OK
- I’M A GAY CLICHé — AND THAT’S OK
- "THAT'S SO GAY" IS JT SO WRONG
- GAY OKLAHOMA TRAVEL GUI
- WHY GAY IS NOT OK
- GAYT PLAC IN OKLAHOMA FOR 2020
HOW TO KNOW IF YOU ARE GAY
For gay kids who are secure their sexualy or who face hate mongers. Gay Is OK talks about prsn, thoughts of suici, gay teen suici. * gay that's ok *
Keep md that even if you have a sexual experience wh someone of the same genr or another genr, that don’t necsarily mean that you’re gay.
GAY IS OK! HOMEPAGE
* gay that's ok *
That means, for example, that you n be transgenr but also straight (for stance, you might intify as a woman and feel attracted to men) or gay (e.
If you have had romantic experienc or fantasi volvg people who are the same genr as you, then there is a good chance you are gay or bisexual, but 's okay if you're a ltle nfed.
ORTHODOX, CELIBATE, GAY AND THAT’S OK
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If were so, people would have no tert one genr or the other, yet we see many straights formg close bonds wh their own genr, and gays wh the oppose.
Most gays have been driven to thoughts of suici at some time their liv by hostile peers, unsupportive fai, damng church, opprsive laws. Wh creasg awarens of homosexualy wh the Orthodox Jewish world, a mon, barely challenged rea has been that abstag om sex is not a real optn for um (tradnally observant) gay men. Often, advot for changg Orthodox attus and polici on homosexualy have discsed celibacy wh language and arguments that are poorly reasoned and sultg – even homophobic.
I am a formerly sexually active gay man who has been celibate for more than 13 years as part of my bt attempt to follow halacha (Jewish law).
I’M A GAY CLICHé — AND THAT’S OK
Soon after graduatg, I wrote a wily syndited gay history lumn, thored a book on the gay past, and owned the largt provir of ntent to the gay and lbian prs. Already by age 20, I was cravg better answers to my qutns about homosexualy than non-tradnal rabbis and Jewish lears offered.
"THAT'S SO GAY" IS JT SO WRONG
In the 1990s, a wispread gay Jewish attu toward Levic 18:22 (ually translated as “you shall not lie down wh a male, as wh a woman: this is an abomatn”) was so pathetic seems funny today: liberal Rabbi Arthur Waskow terpreted the verse to mean, sentially: “Don’t have sex wh a man as wh a woman. At one pot, I was stgglg over whether to date women, given that I no longer really bought the supposed Jewish jtifitns for affirmg gay sexualy. Wh sexual abstence the ntext of my evolvg um gay inty, I had to nont direct and direct put-downs – some of which were likely untentnal.
In a Huffgton Post say, Rabbi Shmuly Yanklowz promoted gay civil marriage part bee of Orthodoxy’s “empathy for those seekg lovg relatnships.
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But he then tried to affirm same-sex love by suggtg that celibate gays are “prived” of “full digny, ” and that our abily to form permissible new fai is “horrifyg.
WHY GAY IS NOT OK
Next, the unorthodox and arguably un-Orthodox Yhiva Universy-traed Rabbi Steve Greenberg suggted he don’t believe gay male claims of abstence. Rabbi Greenberg, who has a male partner, told the Huffgton Post he knows of only one other openly gay Orthodox rabbi the world, but “he sists that he is celibate.
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Rabbi Greenberg even told Moment that for gays who nnot marry, celibacy is simply unthkable: “It’s jt not realistic and not human. The Relig Case for Equaly, protted my “g out” as celibate by penng a letter to Gay Cy News publicly llg me a nastier versn of “fouled-up.