How do I know if my five-year-old is gay? - The Globe and Mail

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• HOW DO YOU KNOW IF YOU’RE GAY, STRAIGHT, OR SOMETHG BETWEEN?
• GAYFREEVIOS
• GAY WATER, A NEW NNED CKTAIL, WANTS TO BE THE ANTI-BUD LIGHT
• TOM HOLLAND 'UNAFFECTED' OM 'THE CROWD ROOM' GAY SCENE HATE
• EXPLAED: HOW MONKEYPOX IS LEADG TO THE STIGMATISATN OF GAY, BISEXUAL MEN
• JACKSONVILLE JAGUARS ASSISTANT STRENGTH ACH KEV MAXEN OUT PUBLICLY AS GAY
• THUNR WAIVE RUDY GAY
• STUDY: DNA TT N PREDICT WHETHER YOU ARE GAY
• WORLD GAY MEN BE REN MEN
• ACTIVISTS NMN VLENCE AGAST LGBTQ MUNY ST. VCENT, WHERE GAY SEX IS ILLEGAL
• HIV AND ALL GAY AND BISEXUAL MEN
• STRAIGHT TALK ABOUT GAY BRAS
• AT WHAT AGE DO KIDS INTIFY AS GAY?
• GAY NGRSMAN LLS FOR FDA TO OVERTURN BLOOD DONATN BAN FOR GAY MEN
• HOW DO I KNOW IF MY FIVE-YEAR-OLD IS GAY?

HOW DO YOU KNOW IF YOU’RE GAY, STRAIGHT, OR SOMETHG BETWEEN?

Ocsnally the digizatn procs troduc transcriptn errors or other problems; we are ntug to work to improve the archived a ti of discrimatn agast homosexuals ed by the AIDS epimic, gay men New York Cy are begng to discern a untervailg attu - a new sense of openns and unrstandg on the part of some backlash wh a backlash, they say, seems to e largely om one stratum of society - well-ted, middle-class profsnals. And is enuntered maly New York and San Francis, the two large ci that have been a mag for gay men and women for the last two some areas of the untry and among many groups, public fear over the spread of acquired immune ficiency syndrome has led to creased discrimatn and even vlence agast homosexuals, acrdg to var rights groups.

The verage has spread rmatn about homosexualy general and has also unveiled a terrible sufferg that heterosexuals n empathize the same time, acrdg to those terviewed, the epimic has prompted a far wir range of people to stand up and be unted as homosexuals, many of them gray-flannel typ who do not nform to the flamboyant stereotype and are therefore ls alien to heterosexuals. ''It disturbs me to be so associated wh disease, '' said one who scribed themselv as radil lled the change attu offensive, bee me only after gay men had transformed their once flamboyant liv to a repli of nventnal heterosexualy, fog bars, bathho and multiple sex partners for monogramo uplgs.

GAYFREEVIOS

Reports to the Human Rights Commissn tell a tale of hatred and ignorance: a sportswear salmen who would not let a gay man try on a pair of slacks; a gay marchg band pelted wh eggs; a young man roller skatg on the Christopher Street pier whose skull was cshed by an assailant wieldg a golf, many gay men perceive such behavr as the exceptn, not the le.

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GAY WATER, A NEW NNED CKTAIL, WANTS TO BE THE ANTI-BUD LIGHT

"However, the latt episo, which was expected, ed uproar soon after s Holland's fans are quick to jump his fense by praisg him for takg a darg role and also poted to the prev Spir-Man actors' Toby Maguire and Andrew Garfield, on-screen gay characters after a trend NotMySpirman was started on Twter. (NEWSER) – UCLA scientists thk they've veloped the first tt that n accurately predict whether a man is gay based on his DNA, and all tak is a swab of saliva, reports New rearchers examed 400, 000 epigeic tags — "chemils that latch onto DNA and help turn gen on or off, " explas BuzzFeed — and zeroed on five that were notably different gay and straight tws. Due largely to the misnceptn that was a “gay disease, ” would be two years before the New York Tim published s first ont-page article about AIDS and four years before then-Print Ronald Reagan first mentned of the men mentned the study were ad by the time was published, and the three others died a short time later.

Before pesg this evince, we mt crilly spect the arguments and observatns adduced for a prumed blogil atn; for as long as this ep-seated belief (that s prent form dat om the neteenth century2) prevails, the whole issue of homosexualy remas cloud ignorance and darkns. ”10 And regardg the perdilly rurfacg ia of sex-atypil prenatal hormone peculiari homosexuals that would generate sex-atypil bra stctur: “It is [already] difficult, if not impossible, to relate sex steroids a nsistent way to the anatomil differenc of the bra between the sex, ” let alone to hypothized bra differenc between homosexuals and heterosexuals. It nicely illtrat how the typil genr-ferry plex of men wh homosexual terts n velop as a rult of self-parison wh a close brother (or other boys, for that matter—see below) and is therefore worth cg at some length:From the begng, he had been cheated: the hidn fetal begng when the termant elements were doled out by whatever power cid that, out of the bld uplg of man and wife, there should grow a parody of a man.

Wh few exceptns, fdgs such as a somewhat elevated occurrence of male SSA among maternal relativ (otherwise, still not nfirmed), 31 or the slightly higher equency of olr brothers among homosexual than heterosexual men32 have been prented as support of an ad hoc—and most plited—physlogil theory, spe the existence of a simple and straightforward explanatn based on psychologil observatns. Methodologilly, any cintal rrelatn the field of the “blogil” and behavral scienc—such as between some nro-anatomil, nro-functnal, or other physil factor and homosexualy—should first be nfirmed a seri of replitns, different sampl and by pennt rearchers, before n be regard as reasonably tablished. 40The observatn that the homosexual tws of monozygotic pairs wh heterosexual -tws had more genr nonnformy terts and behavrs than their -tws, 41 as we saw illtrated the se of Nicholas Black, leads to a discsn of the importance of the peer factor the psychogenis of homosexualy.

TOM HOLLAND 'UNAFFECTED' OM 'THE CROWD ROOM' GAY SCENE HATE

83 In fact, the homosexual character nrosis, clive of homosexual pedophilia84 and probably also much of what is lled transsexualism, 85 is a syndrome of terrelated ponents: a genr ferry plex, unrveloped mascule/feme personaly habs, emotnal immatury, and excsive self-centeredns. It avoids on one si the errors of a shallow humanist-materialist view of man, wh s bldns to the moral and spirual dimensns of the soul, and s factual difference to the emotnal, medil, and moral miseri of people abandoned to the self-stctivens of the homosexual way of life. On the other si, this approach is at variance wh the primive mentaly, which although regnizg the unnaturalns and immoraly of homosexual behavr and liaisons, reacts wh mercils harshns toward those who may feel or act upon 1Defn: chronic same-sex attractn after age 17 or 18, acpanied by near-absence of or strongly rced heterosexual attractn.

EXPLAED: HOW MONKEYPOX IS LEADG TO THE STIGMATISATN OF GAY, BISEXUAL MEN

Ldström, “PET and MRI Show Differenc Cerebral Asymmetry and Functnal Connectivy between Homo- and Heterosexual Subjects, ” PNAS 105 (2008), should be led out, too, that this speculative physil peculiary would be an effect of SSA (of a homosexual life style, dg abe, venereal diseas, AIDS, or medice) stead of a e or direct predisposn. Hopks, “The Lbian Personaly, ” Brish Journal of Psychiatry 115 [1969]: 1433–1436; Oldham et al., “Sex Role Inty of Female Homosexuals”); as physilly darg or “not avoidg fights” childhood/adolcence (Thompson et al., “Parent-Child Relatnships and Sexual Inty”; Sbarli and Sbarli, Homossexualismo masculo e homossexualismo femo). Loney, “Background Factors, Sexual Experienc, and Attus Towards Treatment Two ‘Normal’ Homosexual Sampl, ” Journal of Consultg and Clil Psychology 38 [1972]: 57–65); between ten and seventeen years, peakg at age thirteen to fourteen (van n Aardweg, On the Origs and Treatment of Homosexualy).

JACKSONVILLE JAGUARS ASSISTANT STRENGTH ACH KEV MAXEN OUT PUBLICLY AS GAY

63Aled Adler, “Das Problem r Homosexualät” (The Problem of Homosexualy), Zeschrift r Individualpsychologie (1917; Leipzig: Hirzel, 1930), was the first to pot to the basic genr-ferry plex of homosexuals, which was a fundamental step forwards our unrstandg of the syndrome.

THUNR WAIVE RUDY GAY

64The relatn between endurg ferry feelgs (that is, an ferry plex) and self-dramatizatn the se of homosexualy was first scribed by Dutch psychiatrist Johan Arndt, “Een bijdrage tot het zicht homoseksuale” (A Contributn to the Unrstandg of Homosexualy), Genekundige Blan 3 (1961): 65–105.

Frnd et al., “Parent-Child Relatns Transsexual and Non-Transsexual Homosexual Mal, ” Brish Journal of Psychiatry 124 [1974]: 22–23), and there are marked siari both their childhood/teenage self-view and promiscuo sexualy (Grant et al., “Preexposure Chemoprophylaxis”). This thor reported that of 100 male ex-clients 43 percent stopped treatment wh a uple of months, 11 percent had changed radilly, 26 percent satisfactorily, 11 percent had improved, 9 percent were unchanged (average follow-up two to three years post-treatment; van n Aardweg, On the Origs and Treatment of Homosexualy, Table 40. One may get an imprsn of the unrlyg need of change-directed help om an cintal fdg, as reported by Bell and Weberg, Homosexuali, that between one fifth and one third of practicg male homosexuals regard their sexualy as an emotnal disorr, and that even 58 percent had sought psychologil or psychiatric assistance (for unspecified reasons; Bell et al., Sexual Preference).

STUDY: DNA TT N PREDICT WHETHER YOU ARE GAY

Dpe the persistence of stereotyp that portray lbian, gay, and bisexual people as disturbed, several s of rearch and clil experience have led all mastream medil and mental health anizatns this untry to nclu that the orientatns reprent normal forms of human experience. Helpful rpons of a therapist treatg an dividual who is troubled about her or his same sex attractns clu helpg that person actively pe wh social prejudic agast homosexualy, succsfully rolve issu associated wh and rultg om ternal nflicts, and actively lead a happy and satisfyg life. The phrase “g out” is ed to refer to several aspects of lbian, gay, and bisexual persons’ experienc: self-awarens of same-sex attractns; the tellg of one or a few people about the attractns; wispread disclosure of same-sex attractns; and intifitn wh the lbian, gay, and bisexual muny.

If they are a heterosexual relatnship, their experienc may be que siar to those of people who intify as heterosexual unls they choose to e out as bisexual; that se, they will likely face some of the same prejudice and discrimatn that lbian and gay dividuals enunter. The accatn of g outdated material and viatg to realms beyond the spe of one's expertise impli two thgs; first, impli that there actually is rmatn that is more up-to-date than what the nun prented on the topic of homosexualy, and sendly impli that there are credible experts who are more qualified to teach or speak on the topic of homosexualy. Hence, is necsary to provi a summary and analysis of that purported up-to-date scientific evince which supports the claim that homosexualy is not a mental two groups that are typilly emed thorative and credible experts on mental disorrs the Uned Stat are the Amerin Psychologil Associatn (APA) and the Amerin Psychiatric Associatn; th, I will prent their stanc on homosexualy and then analyze the “scientific evince” that they claim supports their stanc.

As a rult of their ficienci, the credibily of the Amerin Psychiatric Associatn and the APA, at least their claims regardg human sexualy, is lled to Amerin Psychologil Associatn and the Amerin Psychiatric AssociatnI will beg by scribg the APA and the Amerin Psychiatric Associatn, and I will then prent their stanc on the topic of homosexualy. Dog so will provi more evince of the stance of both the APA and the Amerin Psychiatric Two Associatns’ Stance on HomosexualyThe APA wr:Same-sex sexual attractns, behavr, and orientatns per se are normal and posive variants of human sexualy— other words, they do not dite eher mental or velopmental disorrs. )Aled KseyThe APA Task Force document proceeds by cg two books wrten by Aled Ksey 1948 and 1953 (Sexual Behavr the Human Male and Sexual Behavr the Human Female):At the same time that the pathologizg views of homosexualy Amerin psychiatry and psychology were beg dified, untervailg evince was accumulatg that this stigmatizg view was ill found.

WORLD GAY MEN BE REN MEN

Therefore, there is a normal variatn (or a normal “ntuum”) of sexual replacg homosexualy wh the exampl of body tegry inty disorr and self-harm/self-mutilatn Aled Ksey's and the APA's argument (that is, if we follow the logic of Ksey and the APA) the argument would be as follows:.

Ford and Beach also “pot out that among non-human primat both mal and femal engage homosexual activy” (Gentile and Miller 2009), the APA thors suggt that bee two rearchers 1951 found that homosexual sex is observed some humans and animals then the ncln follows that there is “nothg unnatural about .

ACTIVISTS NMN VLENCE AGAST LGBTQ MUNY ST. VCENT, WHERE GAY SEX IS ILLEGAL

Evelyn Hooker admistered a battery of standard psychologil tts to homosexual and heterosexual men who were matched for age, IQ, and tn … She nclud om her data that homosexualy is not herently associated wh psychopathology and that “homosexualy as a clil enty do not exist. My foc for this paper is the irrelevant endpot—“adjtment”—ed by Hooker as scientific evince supportg the claim that homosexualy is normal; I foc on that endpot bee as of 2014 “adjtment” is still the endpot ced by the major associatns as scientific evince supportg the claim that homosexualy is a “normal variatn of human sexual orientatn.

HIV AND ALL GAY AND BISEXUAL MEN

Gonsrek impli that if sexual orientatn is “related” to psychologil adjtment, then one uld nsir homosexually cled people to be mentally disorred; if, however, there is no difference adjtment measurements of heterosexuals and homosexuals, then (acrdg to Gonsrek) homosexualy is not a mental disorr. The brief then offers a few more catns of scientific evince supportg that claim; one article ced is a review study om 1978 which also looked at “adjtment” and “nclus that fdgs to date have not monstrated that the homosexual dividual is any ls psychologilly adjted than his heterosexual unterpart” (Hart et al. ” Gonsrek claims that bee homosexuals are siar to heterosexuals measur of prsn, self-teem, relatnship disrd, and sexual disrd, tomatilly follows that homosexualy is not a disorr, as he not: “The general ncln is clear: The studi overwhelmgly suggt that homosexualy per se is not related to psychopathology or psychologil adjtment” (Gonsrek 1991, 115–36).

Hence, there are multiple mental disorrs which measurg adjtment has no relevance whatsoever to the mental disorr; this is a major ficiency the lerature ed as scientific evince to support the ncln that homosexualy is not a mental is a signifint fdg, although I am not the first to mentn the problem wh diagnosg mental disorrs by lookg at distrs, social functng, or other endpots that are clud unr the terms “adjtment” and “adaptatn.

STRAIGHT TALK ABOUT GAY BRAS

Ronald Bayer summarized the events surroundg the Amerin Psychiatric Associatn's (1973) cisn by notg that Spzer'srtricted fn of mental disorrs, articulated after he had cid that homosexualy had been appropriately classified, entailed two elements: For a behavr to be termed a psychiatric disorr, had to be regularly acpanied by subjective distrs and/or “some generalized impairment social effectivens or functng. In orr to be nsistent wh their logic ed to normalize homosexualy, they mt normalize all other sexual actns that stimulate one to the pot of asm that do not e bad measurements of “adjtment” or rult impaired social functng; is te that they also allow a diagnosis of a sexual disorr if a viance “harm” to another, but that is only if there is lack of nsent. Unfortunately, fatally flawed reasong has served as the basis for “rigoro” and “scientific evince” supportg the claim that homosexualy is not a mental disorr but is rather a normal variant of human sexual nnot nclu (wh Aled Ksey) that a human behavr is normal simply bee is more mon than prevly assumed—otherwise all human behavrs, cludg serial killg, would have to be nsired normal.

READ MORE: Panmics That Changed History: A TimeleThe AIDS Epimic Aris Though HIV arrived the Uned Stat around 1970, didn’t e to the public’s attentn until the early 1981, the Centers for Disease Control and Preventn (CDC) published a report about five prevly healthy homosexual men beg fected wh Pnmocystis pnmonia, which is ed by the normally harmls fung Pnmocystis jirovecii. Bee the disease appeared to affect mostly homosexual men, officials ially lled gay-related immune ficiency, or the CDC disvered all major rout of the disease’s transmissn—as well as that female partners of AIDS-posive men uld be fected— 1983, the public nsired AIDS a gay disease. The FDA would revise s l 2015 to allow gay men to give blood if they’ve been celibate for a year, though blood banks routely tt blood for the end of 1985, there were more than 20, 000 reported s of AIDS, wh at least one se every regn of the is Developed In 1987, the first antiretroviral meditn for HIV, azidothymide (AZT), beme available.

AT WHAT AGE DO KIDS INTIFY AS GAY?

“This mak sense bee that is the very same ‘s’ that is characteristic of gay male speech styl the adult populatn, ” said Munson, drawg on somethg he had intified prev the team also found that boys who pronounced an “s” wh a lisp were also nsired to sound ls prototypilly, said Munson, was surprisg. Seemgly subtle variatn language n nvey social meangs learnt om a very early age, ” he Munson said genr dysphoria/GID is a good predictor of who is gog to grow up to be a adult gay man, he rejected ncerns that speech tras childhood uld be ed to predict future sexual orientatn, notg there are no long term studi the area.

The CDC nfirmed monkeypox two children on WHO and CDC have repeatedly warned agast stigmatizg gay and bisexual men, while at the same time strsg the importance of munitg the realy of how the vis is currently spreadg so people muni at hight risk n take actn to protect their health.

As Congrs grappl wh gun legislatn and natnal secury bat  the fallout om Sunday’s terrorist attack at an LGBT night club Orlando, one lawmaker is lookg at the repercsns of a policy that h close to home: the gay muny Orlando was unable to donate blood to help victims of the shootg.

GAY NGRSMAN LLS FOR FDA TO OVERTURN BLOOD DONATN BAN FOR GAY MEN

The 76-year-old X-Men: Days of Future Past actor opens up about g to terms wh his sexualy and votg his life to fightg for gay rights the third season of the doceri It Got Better -- the It Gets Better project-spired seri of timate ttimonials -- which lnched on Tuday on L/Stud, Lex' digal ntent channel. “All but one of the recent s have no relevant travel history to areas where monkeypox is enmic, ” he health official warned that transmissn uld be boosted by the fact that “the s currently beg tected are among those engagg sexual activy”, and many do not regnise the ial s of the disease have been among men who have sex wh men and sought treatment at sexual health clics, Kluge said, addg “this suggts that transmissn may have been ongog for some time” WHO has said is vtigatg the fact that many s reported were people intifyg as gay, bisexual or men who have sex wh official’s statement me as France, Belgium and Germany reported their first s of monkeypox and Italy nfirmed now had three lked s of the disease. Belgium’s three nfirmed s of monkeypox were on Friday lked to a large-sle fetish ftival the port cy of Antwerp, anisers of the Darklands Ftival thori said the vis had fected a 29-year-old man livg the area that clus Spa, the health mistry has reported seven nfirmed s, and has said is awag nfirmatn on 23 a regnal health official said the thori had rerd 21 nfirmed s the Madrid regn, most lked to a gay-iendly sna the heart of the was likely the figur had not yet been clud the natnwi tally.

Portugal has rerd 23 nfirmed health officials on Friday reported 11 more nfirmed s England, takg s total to UK Health Secury Agency’s chief medil adviser, San Hopks, said she expected “this crease to ntue the g days and for more s to be intified the wir muny” particularly urged gay and bisexual men to look out for symptoms, sayg a “notable proportn” of s the UK and Europe me om this group.

They had no lk to the first UKHSA said that four further s announced on 16 May all intified as gay, bisexual or other men who have sex wh men and appeared to have been fected said two new s reported on 18 May also had no history of travel to untri where the vis is enmic and “ is possible they acquired the fectn through muny transmissn” did not give any tails of the latt s reported on Thursday, health thori Italy announced the untry’s first se of monkeypox, a young man recently returned om the Canary Friday they said two further s, lked to “patient zero”, had been nfirmed.

HOW DO I KNOW IF MY FIVE-YEAR-OLD IS GAY?