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It’s jt not his style. While we’re entranced by our smartphon, scrollg away, he’s likely out nature garng, teachg, or gatherg not for his next say or poem. It’s not that he’s anti-technology. It jt don’t brg him joy the way a good walk wh a tsted iend might.</p><p data-no-id="1" class="css-aeyldl et3p2gv0">Gay’s latt book of says, <em>Incg Joy</em>, feels very much like the aforementned leisurely walk around the neighborhood wh a good iend. Poignant, sightful, and betifully wrten, the says range om dark and difficult topics (like the one about the thor’s dyg father) to the lightful and downright funny. It’s this variety and playfulns that make<em> Incg Joy</em> a salve to life’s disappotments.</p><p data-no-id="2" class="css-aeyldl et3p2gv0">Shondaland recently ught up wh Ross Gay to talk about his new book, the power and mystery of language, why we’ll likely never see him on social media, what do and do not brg him joy, and so much more.</p><style data-emotn="css 18pb4rg">{borr:0;borr-bottom:th solid black;marg:1.875rem 0;clear:both;}</style><hr data-no-id="3" class="css-18pb4rg et3p2gv0" /><p data-no-id="4" class="css-aeyldl et3p2gv0"><strong>SCOTT NEUMYER: You wrote a lot of this book durg the global panmic of the past few years. How have you been holdg up?</strong></p><p data-no-id="5" class="css-aeyldl et3p2gv0"><strong>ROSS GAY: </strong>I thk I’m dog well. I thk, partly, I’m beg more acutely aware of how (and this book kd of gets to that and emerg om ) sort of beholn we are to one another. 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e6iqd2">Cred: Algonqu Books</span></figptn></div></div></div><p data-no-id="9" class="css-aeyldl et3p2gv0"><strong>SN: There are so many thgs that I want to explore about the book, but I want to first talk about your e of language. Obvly as a poet, you’re well versed g language very specifilly and effectively, but you start right om the tle self wh this book — </strong><strong><em>Incg Joy</em></strong><strong>. Tell me a ltle b about g that word “cg” specifilly.</strong></p><p data-no-id="10" class="css-aeyldl et3p2gv0"><strong>RG: </strong>I was tryg to thk of a word that was provokg. It’s funny bee I had all the terrible tl. Some that were cent tl, and then some terrible tl. But then I felt like I was lost on the tle. I uldn’t que get . My edors and the publishers had some ias, and they were even worse than me [<em>lghs</em>]<em>.</em> And then, I was at a ltle shop Frenchtown, New Jersey, where I spent some time. And the woman named Meg, who ns a shop, I told her I was workg on somethg, and she jt gave me a notebook. And then, so boom — all the tl started g out. And I started to realize that there’s somethg about unrstandg joy, explorg joy, nsirg joy. But I wanted to be more, I don’t know, energetic a certa kd of way. And the word “provotn” felt good, but there was actually a book by someone kd of my realm who had that word their tle. So, I looked and saw that one of the synonyms for “provotn” is “cement,” and I love that word bee means what I mean to do, which is, a way, ll up the implitns of . I mean, that’s . Bee I do a way feel like this wns to and practice of our nnectg and nnectedns is a profound cement. And will rearrange the world.</p><p data-no-id="11" class="css-aeyldl et3p2gv0"><strong>SN: When most people thk of “cg” somethg, ’s often a negative sense. Incg a rt, for stance. But you e here by tellg people that they n (and should) make their own joy. In a way, ’s even more active than sayg “fdg joy.” It’s not a passive activy but rather an active one that kd of needs to be worked at. Was that subvertg of people’s notn of the word self part of the tentn as well? Almost like a slap the face sayg, “Wake up! Joy isn’t gog to jt e to you.”</strong></p><p data-no-id="12" class="css-aeyldl et3p2gv0"><strong>RG: </strong>Yeah, maybe, bee I do feel like the way that the verb “cg” joy works two ways: One is that kd of asks the qutn, “How do we ce joy?” But then the other mak a noun or an adjective, like joy is cg. And so I thk both of those maybe rensir the hallmarkg notn of joy that is somethg else, which is fe too, but I’m terted this other kd of joy that’s more like an unrstandg that our time here is brief. It’s an unrstandg that everythg we love will pass. There’s also a kd of tenrns and a kd of reachg that I thk [happens when] practicg beg that awarens or matag the kd of state of awarens like that, which is hard. I thk c a kd of behavr that we share.</p><p data-no-id="13" class="css-aeyldl et3p2gv0"><strong>SN: One of the thgs I love about the book as well is that ’s filled wh so much variety. There are says about the ep, heavy subjects like grief and ath and toxic masculy and palism. But then you also talk about lighter subjects like books, and lghter, and the art of “the hang” and jt hangg out. That balance the book mak me wonr if you have a full drawer of says that didn’t make the cut for this book, as you very liberately chose the piec to provi balance. Do you have enough says already wrten for a third llectn?</strong></p><p data-no-id="14" class="css-aeyldl et3p2gv0"><strong>RG: </strong>I have the begngs. But I thk you’re right. There is a sort of balance the book. There’s a long say about grief and masculy, and there’s the say about my father dyg. Then there’s the say about skateboardg, and there’s an say about pickup basketball. There’s a quick one about dancg. So yeah, there’s absolutely a kd of balance that I was tryg to have the book.</p><div supprsHydratnWarng data-no-id="15" data-embed="pullquote" class="embed css-0 e9hzx6g0"><style data-emotn="css 1eiql25">{text-align:center;marg:0rem;paddg-top:0.9375rem;paddg-bottom:0.9375rem;}</style><blockquote class="css-1eiql25 e1pe3zr91"><span aria-hidn="te" class="css-0 eagam8p0"></span><style data-emotn="css 1h5xk02">{font-fay:GTWalsheim,Helveti,sans-serif;font-size:1.625rem;font-weight:bold;le-height:1.2;marg:0rem;}@media(max-width: 48rem){{font-size:1.75rem;le-height:1.2;}}@media(m-width: 64rem){{font-size:1.875rem;le-height:1.2;}} b, strong{font-fay:her;font-weight:bold;} em, i{font-fay:her;font-style:alic;}</style><blockquote class="css-1h5xk02 e1pe3zr90">Bee I do a way feel like this wns to and practice of our nnectg and nnectedns is a profound cement. And will rearrange the world.<br></blockquote><span aria-hidn="te" class="css-0 eagam8p1"></span></blockquote></div><p data-no-id="16" class="css-aeyldl et3p2gv0"><strong>SN: Obvly, your mastery of language is unniable, but the brevy and ttns of the says are also super-admirable. I have to assume that some of that om workg as a poet, right?</strong></p><p data-no-id="17" class="css-aeyldl et3p2gv0"><strong>RG: </strong>Totally. I spend time on sentenc, on the syntax, on the grammar, and on the dictn ways that I know other nonfictn or fictn wrers, for the most part, do not. I fd myself really gettg granular like that and takg a lot of pleasure . And some of my poet iends are also that way. They’re jt really tryg to drill down on the sound of a le. And sometim, for better or worse, I’ll read somethg that I’ve wrten, and I’m like, “That sounds betiful.” The sound of that has a meang.</p><p data-no-id="18" class="css-aeyldl et3p2gv0"><strong>SN: Which is sometim the mysticism of poetry, right? It don’t all have to make sense to people outsi of you.</strong></p><p data-no-id="19" class="css-aeyldl et3p2gv0"><strong>RG: </strong>Yeah, there’s a bodily sense that’s as important. It’s a feelg.</p><p data-no-id="20" class="css-aeyldl et3p2gv0"><strong>SN: Do that make wrg the says more challengg?</strong></p><p data-no-id="21" class="css-aeyldl et3p2gv0"><strong>RG: </strong>I thk that’s a great qutn. It don’t feel more difficult, but feels like a different kd of mental/psychic/spirual thg bee, part, I don’t even know how to articulate this, and maybe I never will, and maybe that’s a good thg, but there’s somethg about poems that rema, to me, more fundamentally myster.</p><p data-no-id="22" class="css-aeyldl et3p2gv0"><strong>SN: So, there’s never that aha moment where you’re like, “Yep, this one’s an say!” or “Yeah, this one’s a poem.”</strong></p><p data-no-id="23" class="css-aeyldl et3p2gv0"><strong>RG: </strong>I thk they e to me at first ually the form that they’re gog to be. It’s possible that thgs n emerge one way and then be like, “You know, you’ve actually got to move them to this other thg.” So, I don’t. I n’t say 100 percent of the time, but for the most part, I know what I’m gettg to.</p><p data-no-id="24" class="css-aeyldl et3p2gv0"><strong>SN: What do you fd the most joy the days?</strong></p><p data-no-id="25" class="css-aeyldl et3p2gv0"><strong>RG: </strong>I’m teachg a great graduate class that’s ostensibly about rearch and archiv, and we’re readg really ol books. I love teachg, and ’s taken me a long time to figure out how to do , so I love . But we’re workg on a llaborative piece. We’re listeng to each other’s work. We’re not criqug each other. We’re jt listeng and beg cur and open. And aga, I’m jt like, “Man, people are both so brilliant and also so lovg settgs where we prepare the space for one another.” People are wonrful. And that’s the thg that I’m feelg really lucky about. That’s pretty magil.</p><p data-no-id="26" class="css-aeyldl et3p2gv0"><strong>SN: What type of activi do you fd least joyful?</strong></p><p data-no-id="27" class="css-aeyldl et3p2gv0"><strong>RG: </strong>I don’t like evaluatg people. A lot of the thgs about my job are thgs that, if I did right, I would hate. So, I don’t gra people. I give everyone A’s jt bee there’s not another button. But when I had to gra people, I hated . All of those more mechanized thgs — anythg that turns to dron, actually — I really hate.</p><p data-no-id="28" class="css-aeyldl et3p2gv0"><strong>SN: You talk about this the book que a b, puttg the phone down, and you’re not on social media. Is there no joy to be pulled om social media? Do you not thk your rears would fd joy seeg you experiencg and enjoyg life as well?</strong></p><p data-no-id="29" class="css-aeyldl et3p2gv0"><strong>RG: </strong>Yeah, I thk they might get a ltle kick out of somethg, but beg on social media, I thk I would certaly have somethg cultivated me that I don’t know that I want cultivated me. But I thk as far as joy is ncerned, I thk they might be more cled or more likely to approach joy if they’re talkg takg a walk wh a iend.</p><p data-no-id="30" class="css-aeyldl et3p2gv0"><strong>SN: So, we’re never gonna see you on social media …</strong></p><p data-no-id="31" class="css-aeyldl et3p2gv0"><strong>RG: </strong>Oh, no. Oh, no [<em>lghs</em>].</p><p data-no-id="32" class="css-aeyldl et3p2gv0"><strong>SN: That’s so tertg bee I do fd thgs joyful about , but I n also unrstand the reticence.</strong></p><p data-no-id="33" class="css-aeyldl et3p2gv0"><strong>RG: </strong>I also know that I’m distractible. I’m sceptible to that. 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Among Gay’s funny, poetic, philosophil lights: a iend’s unabashed e of air quot, cradlg a tomato seedlg aboard an airplane, the silent nod of acknowledgment between the only two black people a room. But Gay never dismiss the plexi, even the terrors, of livg Ameri as a black man or the elogil and psychic vlence of our nsumer culture or the loss of those he lov.

More than anythg else, though, Gay celebrat the bety of the natural world–his garn, the flowers peekg out of the siwalk, the hypnotic movements of a prayg mantis. The remarkable piec serve as a powerful and necsary remr that we n, and should, stake out a space our liv for & Reviews“Ross Gay’s eye lands upon wonr at every turn, bolsterg my belief the untls small miracl that surround . Gay, an award-wng poet, knows the value of formal nstrat: his experienc of ‘light, ’ rerd daily for a year, vary wily but yield revealg patterns through sights about everythg om nature and the body to race and masculy.

’” —The New Yorker“Ross Gay’s poems are ltle celebratns of joy, and this book of mi-says—each centerg around a particular 'light, ’ om sleepg your cloth to plantg tomato seedlgs to the nod of greetg between the only two black people a room—is a pure balm for your soul.

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This is an entire book of such glimmers, which Ross Gay notic ty moments life and nature, so that we too may light them.

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In a climate of ser thoughts about ser subjects, Ross Gay tly do light, brgg more poetry than ual to an say llectn that challeng the nventns of the form. Some of Gay’s says are a mere paragraph, others are longer, but they are all about aspects of life worth celebratg.

And let’s ask Ross Gay along — he’s an expert... " — The Philalphia Inquirer"Gay’s zt for life bursts forth on almost every page. " —Bookreporter"It’s hard not to reach for relig language when scribg Gay’s work.

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